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posted 1/13/2008 9:35:33 AM |
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I get e-mails every day from very young men.19 and up.I always respond "learn how to read".
I think I make it very clear in my profile that I am not interested in younger guys.
I don`t need the crude remarks that I should at least try a younger man,blah blah.I`ve been around for a while so i`ve been there done it and there is nothing more sexy to me then a man around my age give or take a few years.
Why is this so hard to except ??

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Jan 13 @ 10:08AM  
probally 2 things, 1st they have no luck with women their own age probally because they are so crude and they thing us older folks are hard up. 2nd they think it will give them something to brag about. you know how they are. young men think with the wrong head.....

Jan 13 @ 10:12AM  
Your absolutely correct, you have every right to your own preference. Many young men are under the delusion that they know it all. When it comes to pleasing women, it is an art that takes many years of practice.First they need to learn that it is not about how fast you get to it, but the road traveled to attain great sex

Jan 13 @ 10:35AM  
Those horny dudes !!

For shame !!

Jan 13 @ 10:47AM  
yeah I try to be polite but when they persist its like I don't have relations withsome young enough to be my son (ok I have no kids but still)

Jan 13 @ 10:47AM  
A lot of people take things personally that they shouldn't. We all have our preferences. These preferences are real and they are not going to change. There is no right or wrong in them either, generally. Unfortunately, people that fail to accept another's sentiments and try to blame others is pretty much going to fail at almost any type of relationship including friendships. Of the other fish in the sea, they are the dead bait.

Jan 13 @ 10:57AM  
That excludes me

Jan 13 @ 11:42AM  
I think your right, but also it's just like why do guy hit on women that are lesbians? They always think the can convert them, and if they will just have sex with them they will go back to being straight! Wow us men sure have some ego's don't we?!!?

Jan 13 @ 1:47PM  
^5! Us "older" guys usually out-perform younger models anyway...what we may lack in endurance, we make up for with

Jan 13 @ 2:23PM  
imho there are so many women out there looking for younger guys they must think all them have this underlying desire to do the same. It doesn't make sense to me Russ said it takes many years to perfect the fine arts of pleasuring women. I guess some are trying to retain some semblance of youth as the years creep up on them and the panic sets in.

The women that really appreciate quality time like yourself know that a one nighter is just a taste...(but everything starts out as a one nighter) every woman is different and getting to know each others' hot spots and preferences is the best part of the ride, after all the more you know the better it gets if you're paying attention.

Jan 13 @ 2:27PM  
But isn't it nice to be appreciated?

Jan 13 @ 5:54PM  
You seek what you want and don’t worry about the young men they will find their own course in time.
I prefer men in my own time frame also.
Life experience is something only earned not given.

Jan 13 @ 6:35PM  
what we may lack in endurance, we make up for with quality...

Yes. I crack up when one of these young boys offers to lick me all night. If it takes all night, you have NO idea what you are doing.

Jan 13 @ 7:36PM  
Personally I tell them if I have boots in my closet older than they are......then they are just too damn young....btw my oldest pair is coming up on year 32!!!
Best of luck to you in your search!

Jan 13 @ 8:53PM  
I like the young guys that say "but I have lots of experience". Ok, so you're a slut? If you're that young and have that much experience, I don't wanna be with you for THAT reason.

Older men aren't in a rush. Sure, younger men can get it up more often than older men, but they shoot off faster too. Couple this with them THINKING they know what they are doing, fumbling around. No thanks.

I had sex with younger guys when I was younger, and dammit they should be having sex with younger women. Who wants to be a teacher? I'm at an age where I have done all the teaching I plan on doing, I just want someone I can be comfortable with, who has a clue what he is doing sexually.

I don't need crazy swinging from the chandelier sex (ok, I don't need it THAT often anyway), I want the good, slow, long lasting, tease me all day kinda foreplay... not the 20-somethings "Hey, look my dick is hard, can we fuck?" Give me a gentleman my age and I'm happy.

Oh wait, I have a gentleman my age. YAY!!

Jan 13 @ 9:35PM  
jealousy is so rude,,, nice tits!!!

Jan 15 @ 11:08AM  
I dunno but I will be over 40 this year,
wanna help me celebrate?!

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