Okay having abdicated my throne here for some time, though thinking nothing has changed... here are my off the cuff observations.
First of all being 20; the demographics of this site are such that you are a youngster to most. You must understand that the majority of the ladies are older.
Does this mean they won't become your new special friend, or there are no girls your age? No, but you need to work harder.
Your essays say you are a couple seeking a third, hey not a thing wrong with that... just not many thirds looking for a couple, not just AMD but on the whole web.
You are an honest pervert, yet we know little about you... just the profile and the one blog you've written. You can try writing more blogs, anything from poetry to erotica, to humorous stories get you noticed quickest, copy/paste e-mail jokes, not so quick...
A vast majority of the regs here discovered long ago, this site ain't really going to hook you up with instant sex, but you may find someone here, in the mean time it is a pleasant place to hang out, its like myspace with boobs, and you can use all the profanity you want!
Lastly, and I mean no disrespect, your picture is nice, but it looks like high school dance night,maybe my eyes are just old... Nudes won't be seen by everyone, but some fresh new pics do not hurt, even if you add singles of each of you to supplement your together pics.
I hope after taking this much time, my comment is not deleted.. thanks.