"i don't get "poly". in my opinion it sounds kinda stupid to me. what is the since in getting married if your going to share with other partners?"
Poly is definitely not for everyone. Hell, we're not even positive it's for us yet. But it doesn't make our marriage any less because we are having fun outside of it. In fact, it's because our marriage is so strong that we decided it would be ok to give it a try. And, if anything, it has made our marriage even stronger for doing it.
While it does bring new issues, it has made us exercise our relationship skills. Our communication has never been better.
There have surely been some bumps but I think it has been a positive thing in the end. We're still exploring and deciding exactly what it is we want and we may decide to go back to a monogamous existence but at least then we can say we gave it a try.
Besides, he's decided he actually likes hearing about me with others. It surprised us both just how turned on he got over listening to me tell him about my fun with the couple a little while ago.
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