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Mochi has a half hearted RANT!

posted 12/22/2007 1:19:43 PM |
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So I'm not very good at ranting, I prefer to joke around and laugh, but here it goes.

What is so wrong with chatting by cam? Just about every service provides it and most of them are free. With "Windows Live!" you can cam/chat with anyone now, no matter what service they use.

"But I have a fear of being virtually raped, Mochi."
OK I can understand that. Phone numbers give away your location, while it is much harder to locate you by an email address. You can stop a chat anytime you feel your being abused and you can block that person from ever accessing you again. Very effective tool. I have used it twice now, both times because the girl turned out to be a couple and they wanted to "HOT" chat. I don't do that unless I am committed to the woman. (Besides, it's not as much fun in cyber space.)

"Mochi, What is the big !@#$# deal with you and this cam/chat stuff?"
Personally, I get tired of avoiding all the fake women (dudes), ATM users (women looking for sugar daddies), and liars (women that claim they are someone they are not). It's easy to con me in an email, not so esy to do it when I'm looking into your eyes. Now you can assume anything you like here, but these are my top reasons. Now "Real Ladies", and I feel I have met several of you here on AMD, should be able to appreciate some part of what I'm trying to get at here. I am hoping that most of the Bro's here will agree also.

Let's face it folks, cam/chat is here, it's not going away, and sooner or later you will not be able to avoid it. Safety and Sincerety are most important to me until I build a trust. This is from a man that considers himself a real gentleman Dom. As my friend would say,
"I'm just sayin' ...".


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Dec 22 @ 1:54PM  
Just my opinion, but once I have developed a good repore with someone via email, I do like to cam/chat as then I am clear of whom I am talking to - I get a true sense of whether they are sincere or not once I see someone on cam. As soon as they start talking cyber sex and shit - blocked they are!!! I agree Mochi, it is a great way to get to know someone - seeing their facial expressions, manerisms, tone of voice - all help to truly get the feel for someones intentions and personality! Then I personally know they have nothing to hide!!! Thanks for this blog - I know many may not be comfortable, but if communication is clear, there should be no concern whether a guy is wanting cam sex or not - I personally havent had that problem as I have laid it out up front (and in my profile) that I dont do that!!! But again, this is just one womans opinion!!! Have a wonderful day and Merry Christmas!

Dec 22 @ 1:59PM  
Though I do cam chat with friends, it isn't something I do until I am quite comfortable with someone. If I'm just sitting around the house, chances are I'm not looking my best, hair is scraped up on top of my head, no makeup, stained t-shirt or grubby nightgown... those are the times someone always wants to initiate a cam chat. Sorry, not happening, you can never undo a first impression!!

Dec 22 @ 2:12PM  

You should see me right now, Princess.
look like road kill when i wake up

Dec 22 @ 3:30PM  
those are the times someone always wants to initiate a cam chat. Sorry, not happening, you can never undo a first impression!!

course IF ya put your worst foot foward so to speak.........they know you for sure then........and sooner or later it's a part of you you're gonna show anyway..........just a thought

Dec 22 @ 3:31PM  
*runs back in n leaves a kudo *

Dec 22 @ 6:28PM  
Problem I find most guys that ask to cam chat want you to be naked and they want you to watch them jerk off.
I know not all of you are like that but those few spoil it for the majority. For me watching some guy I do not know or care about get himself off just doesnt do a thing for me. * now watching a good friend is an entirely different matter*.
While everything you said is valid its hard to feel at ease with a stranger and just turn a cam on.

( I just have to say what a gorgeous looking guy you are. )

Dec 22 @ 9:49PM  
I have had a lot of women wanting to cam with me and have cyber sex with over the years. At first it was a little fun, but to be honest with you, I'm the type that doesn't like to sit for very long in one spot, and to type at that, well, I can think of better ways to communicate. For me it's either face to face, or by phone in most cases. I don't mind chatting every now and then online, but I do keep it limited.

Dec 23 @ 6:45AM  
My problem with the cam thing is they always want to cyber and I don't feel comfortable with that...If it is just to chat then I wouldn't have a problem..I have yet to meet anyone who wanted to cam just to chat about stuff and not sex or cyber and what not..

Dec 24 @ 5:37PM  

We have not met yet, Taisen, but I would like to.

Dec 24 @ 5:40PM  

I just have to say what a gorgeous looking guy you are.

Thank you Rae.

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Mochi has a half hearted RANT!