AddThis Social Bookmark Button
Free Dating

It can't be this difficult

posted 12/19/2007 7:35:09 PM |
0 kudosgive kudos what's this?
    report abuse

With all the dating sites there are, and all the people who are on them, it can't possibly be this difficult just meeting a nice man. Trying to figure out what I'm looking for can be tricky, but I definitely know what I DON'T WANT!

It shouldn't be so difficult finding a man who knows how to act like a gentleman, someone who can carry on a conversation, someone who doesn't ask for sex when he first meets me, someone who isn't interested in "camming". I'm not a prude, but is it too much to want to know someone first before exploring the more intimate side of a relationship? I mean, I'm not expecting Prince Charming and the love-ever-after. But, come on, I'm 46, mother of three, recently had the pleasure of experiencing a heart attack (not something I'd recommend) and fortunately lived when others usually don't the kind I had, and just would appreciate a good man to communicate with, go to dinner with, hang out with.

Just take the time to get to know me. Read the screen name and deal with me accordingly. I'm definitely worth getting to know. Even my ex-husband still says I'm the best woman he ever knew and he kicks himself for letting me get away.. LOL

Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

   read more blogs!

Blogs by classact1979:
I had to get it off my chest, and trust me, there's plenty there!
Tell me what I'm missing
Here we are again
Lather, Rinse, Repeat
It can't be this difficult
Blessings from Heaven


post a comment!


Dec 19 @ 7:54PM  
patience and caution will work.........

Dec 19 @ 7:55PM  
Men are something that women, unless married or into a very intimate relationship already, will never figure out. In any situation women are something men will NEVER figure out.

Use this to your advantage. thats what makes guys be sweet and kind. we are suckers for women who know they have the power but never need to say it aloud.

Yeah you are doing it. you have been through a heart attack.. thats intense. hope that it never happens again. and most people dont have the pleasure of it either...... especially when they are the ones who is having the heart attack. l0l.

Its good that you know what you dont want. be you should know what you want. im 20 and i know exactly what i need and what i want. i know what will fit me. maybe that is due to all the experiences in my life. and that has nothing to do with sex. haha. im just saying with time you get to know yourself better and better. you should know what you want...



Dec 19 @ 10:05PM  
I definitely know what I DON'T WANT!

I hear you there! Honestly, there are guys a plenty here of the sort you seek. You have to be somewhat proactive in your search. But, not all nice men are what you want/are looking for or vice versa. But, there are plenty here.

Dec 19 @ 11:47PM  
Some people just set their expectations a little to high. They expect the perfect
body, good looks, nice smile, nice eyes, great mind, humor, honesty, monogamy,
and i could go on and on, all rolled into one. They seem to think they are classy and expect nothing but perfect.
Love, respect, honesty, faithfulness and so much more come from what's in a persons Heart. Not by what he looks like on the outside. Perfection will NEVER be found in either men or women.
So I suggest looking with your heart and not your eyes.

Dec 20 @ 3:47AM  
Hi Classact, I am glad you are a surviver. I agree with you completely a heart attack is is not a fun experience.
I agree with you just because we are on the INTERNET is no reason for a man not to act like a gentleman. I wish you the best in your search.

Dec 20 @ 8:12AM  
Night, I appreciate your comments, however, you've judged me before even knowing me. I do not judge people on looks. Looks fade. Integrity, morality, charm, respect, monogomy; these are some of the traits I look for. Seems maybe you relate to people more on their looks????????

Dec 20 @ 8:17AM  
and to Toad, you're more of a Prince and a true gentleman. I just saw your blog about your friend and her stroke. I'll keep her in my prayers. Wish her a blessed Christmas and holiday season from me, will you?

Dec 25 @ 1:21PM  
You will find thye right one

give me a shout!

free dating | mission statement | testimonials | safety warning | report abuse | safe list | privacy | legal | 2257 | advertise | link to us

© Copyright 2000-2016 Online Singles, LLC.
It can't be this difficult