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posted 12/10/2007 7:49:04 PM |
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  40yearoldvirgin

Anyone else out there have that happen? I am never sure whether it is better to post a pic on sites or not. I have tried posting profiles on other sites - more normal profiles than this one. Isn't it better to get to know a person and like them for their personality, rather than for the way they look? But many women won't even return a message unless they have a pic.

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bentan

Dec 10 @ 7:57PM  
Make sure the dimensions of your pic match their requirements. Well a pic is like a book cover, and your personality a book. If your cover looks good, people might be encouraged to flip the pages.

Me? I couldn't care less. I'm just here for friends and blogs.
Loveyoulongtime2

Dec 10 @ 8:06PM  
I say give them a pic soon if you don't post one, they will lose interest without it. Like you said many won't be interested if you don't post one. The fact is people are visual creatures unless they are blind, attraction is often visual.
I have tried it both ways, without a pic less women will look at my profile. Sometimes I send a pic and nothing from them after that. That could mean they didn't like my pic or it made no difference as they were just not interested anymore.
neonpatti

Dec 10 @ 8:42PM  
THAT WORKS BOTH WAYS BUT I DO POST A PIC I KNOW FOR A FACT IM NOT FOR EVERYONE AND THAT IS NOT BEING NEGITIVE ITS LIVING IN REALITY. I DONT WANT TO WASTE MY TIME THEY SEE MY PIC IF THEY ARE INTERESTED THEY WILL CONTACT ME BACK IF NOT NO TIME LOST. SO IT REALLY DEPENDS ON IF U ARE WILLING TO SPEND ALOT OF TIME ON SOMETHING AND THEN BE DISAPPOINTED.
frank469

Dec 10 @ 11:01PM  
It always makes me wonder, who have I been chatting with???
Just ask yourself, what exactly is she doing with your pic??
If she were a 'real' person, and she didn't find you attractive, she'd just say so, no biggie really... But not hearing another word???
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It wouldn't surprise me if it's some married dude, collecting pics to set up bogus profiles to troll for chicks.... Ever wonder where the spammers get the pics they use????

That reminds me, I should go looking for myself......

Of course, I could be wrong... there's a first time for everything
shy_sexy_kitten

Dec 10 @ 11:39PM  
oh yeah -- on another site....
have nice talks and send pic & they disappear...

sister had said pic was too severe

however chatted with some male friends and
said pic okay

so who knows, and who cares...

if they are too rude to correspond after they get your picture F**k 'em.
that is not someone you want to be around anyways...

Lisa46

Dec 11 @ 1:26AM  
yep and even if you never meet and think your friends share a picture and then

"PPOOOFF" they is gone WTF??? I feel in like with the person I was writing not the damn outside
DeDe54

Dec 11 @ 2:02AM  
We have to have pics?? When did that happen?? sorry being bad.....................again!! 40yearoldvirgin
onehornytoad69

Dec 11 @ 6:50AM  
Its Story time..lol
One good reason for sharing a Pic is..........
I have a Good friend that was trying to "Fix" me up with a Lady friend,of his wife!
He sent me to where she worked, I went there 3 times before I ever saw her...and she me.
Well as soon as I walked in the building........she smiled.. and then she rolled her eyes.... and started shakin her head (In the NO mode.. left to right) and said OMG...and put her hands over her face and turned her head!
Talking about a Bad feeling! If I was Younger I would give a Shit/Damn....... , but being Older I understand that Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder.
"Some Girls/Women do"... like a guy like me!!!!
So yeah... givem a Pic! It may save ya .. what I just went thru! lol
My 2 Cents!

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