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Why can't people respect the wishes of others

posted 12/10/2007 4:21:44 AM |
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this is an adult website that is suppose to cater to mature adults but i've found some many lack the maturity to even be on the internet. i can't understand why people can't just respect the wishes of others. i get so many emails from people I AM NOT interested in hearing from it's pitiful. no matter what i post in my essay i think some people just refuse to read or respect my wishes.
for instance i say no "i wish you were closer" emails. but each day i go to my box to find it filled with emails from people in the uk or some other overseas place. all have the same unoriginal lines " wish you were closer" or " you have my dick hard" or something lame on those lines.
i'm sorry but i'm just not flattered by those emails but annoyed. i hate to even see them. i've also found that if i post a certain requirement, i get emails asking me why i won't be with this person or that person that doesn't meet the requirement. doesn't it make more sense to read the profile and see you don't meet the requirements and just move on. do some of you have a rejection fetish?
i mean seriously what is the point of the i wish you were closer emails? i'm on here for real meetings not to waste my time or someone elses. hell, it seems if you want to hook up , you'll be looking for someone in your area not someone clean across the country. and guys seriously, no i don't want to see you wank your little meat on cam. i'm looking for real meetings only. is it hard to understand.
i mean don't get me wrong, i love masturbation but i didn't come on here for that. i have an instant messenger with clean over 400 people for masturbation.
people let's just be mature and respect others. don't question me about my preference. i mean, it is my body and i choose who i want to sleep with. just because you feel every woman should be attracted to you, doesn't make it so and just because you feel i'm on this site doesn't mean i have to sleep with you. i don't owe you anything.
anyway thanks for allowing me to rant

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Dec 10 @ 5:38AM  
received my first negative comment from a guy in texas. you'd think a guy in his forties would be alittle more mature. but i guess age is only a number. it's real funny how people choose to disrespect someone and send rude comments rather than just follow the rules and be mature. sometimes i wonder does sites like these need mental screening also

Dec 10 @ 7:23AM  
Personaly I think your post was well said. Most of us probably wish people would actualy read our profiles. A Kudo for you.

Dec 10 @ 7:39AM  
awesome blog

Dec 10 @ 11:36AM  
First of all...good blog.

I think a lot of us have had the same complaints...what it boils down to I think is they see the pictures...then start thinking with the "little head"....and instead of reading the profile or essays...they just click the email button. Just wait till you get the "wanna fuck" emails..or the big leagues...the marriage proposals.

I usually just delete those...yeah...I agree, they're annoying.

Kudo for a good blog.

Dec 10 @ 1:15PM  
There is one lesson I learned the hard way- You can't walk into a gay bar and not expect to be hit on by men.

That same logic holds true for the internet. If you are on a dating site, just as in real life, you will have losers and immature people approaching you. Just treat them the way you would in real life when they approach you in a bar. It's expected that you'll be hit on and It's probably also expected on their part that you'll reject them and tell them to go away.

Just because you are on a dating site doesn't protect you from the losers approaching you. After all, the internet represents the last free speech tool we americans have.

Dec 10 @ 2:17PM  
i agree with you so much. i have all that written on my profile and yet i still get the emails from 50somethings...i'm 21...use your brain....i dont want someone who is wicked older. people are just dumb...>.<

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