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posted 10/16/2006 11:14:24 PM |
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Here is my take on men, coming from personal experience. Many men, I cannot put a percentage on this, stay "children" well into their adult lives. They only see women as being good for one thing. SEX! Nothng more. They don't care if you have feelings, they don't care about your emotions, or much about anything else. As long as they can get you of your pants, and get "in" you, they will stay around. Cut that off, and they're gone.

I was like this. I admit it. When I hit my mid 30's something began to change. I do not recall anything that would have started it. I began to see women in a very different way. I started to see them as people, with intelligence, needs, and desires. I started looking at them to see what was on the inside just as much as what my eyes saw. I wanted to know what they believed in, what made them happy, what made them sad, and what they really wanted from life. I started to listen to what they had to say very closely. Basically, I learned to accept them as human beings, just like I am. This is all they really want, to be accepted for what they are, and not for what they may look like on the outside. Give them that, because they deserve it.

Now, I do not know why some men start out so indifferent to what women really want and need. Perhaps it is our culture, or our economy, or what we learned in high-school as boys, still wet behind our ears. All I know is I had to learn about women the hard way. I married one while I was still in this mental "infantcy" and it fell apart in just two years. Perhaps this was the event that made me start to look at women differently. As for the rest, I alone must carry the burden for. So, that's it. I put the spotlight on what I used to be so that others can learn not to do what I did. Now, you know...

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Dominus

Oct 16 @ 11:37PM  
A wise man learns from his mistakes.

A very wise man learns from the mistakes of others.
belle1010

Oct 17 @ 12:03AM  
Quite right Dom, and Spirit I think it's called maturity, some gain it sooner than others and some never gain it at all. Learning from your mistakes is one thing, learning from you mistakes and not repeating them, that's the key.
canuhelpme258

Oct 17 @ 4:51PM  
There are degrees of immaturity. I mean we are on an adult site, it designates content, acting silly and being rude are two different matters.. I'm rambling, too tired.. buh bye now!

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