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posted 12/5/2007 1:44:39 AM |
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i have a a bifemale and i really like someone who actually has a bf.she flirts with me all the time. how do i tell her im interested in her without screwing things up?

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Dec 5 @ 2:10AM  
A lot of people will tell you be honest. That honesty is the best policy.

Some will tell you that you have to be a little deceptive and kind of weasel your way in.

They are both right...and wrong. Yes, you have to be honest, but being honest never guarantees you'll win a race or get a winning bid on a contract. But cheating on a race or giving contract kickbacks is wrong. So what to do?

Find out what she likes. Then, use that to say your feelings in a completely unique way. She loves chocolate? Then invite her to have desert with you and write "I really like you" in chocolate syrup on a plate. She likes poetry, then make a really bad poem about your feelings and ask her to help you fix it.

You can be sneaky enough to find out what she likes then genuine enough to say what you want to...but do it in a way that will really impress her. Of course, there's never any guarantees, but stacking the odds in your favor doesn't hurt! Good luck!

Dec 5 @ 2:56AM  
If she is obviously flirting with you, ask her to hang out. Flirting is a very active behavior, and if it happens consistently, it's probably intentional. Be thankful.

I don't know what two girls normally do together, but I'm sure you do. If possible, leave it open that something could happen. An example progression would be a girl's afternoon out with dinner and shopping, followed by your casual suggestion that you both go back to one or the other's house and watch a movie. With dinner and shopping, you have an opportunity to talk with her casually, to learn more about her. Ask her about her boyfriend and their relationship (how long they've been together, etc...). Be keen to her responses. If a topic interests you, question further. Just be friendly, casual, and mildly provocative.

Are you at all worried about what her boyfriend would think? If not, that's your choice, and actually simplifies the matter greatly. If you are, that complicates the situation. So?

Dec 5 @ 9:52AM  
i'd say odds are good that if she flirts you got a good shot.....(i'm forced to assume she's bi too) IF shes bi maybe a stare into her eyes n a kiss if it feels right? or just ask her?

Dec 5 @ 11:10AM  
Just say I know you have a boyfriend but I would really love to lick your pussy. Who knows maybe you will end up with the best of both worlds and get her and her boyfriend. Just my worthless opinion.

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