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C2C? Not for me

posted 11/27/2007 5:12:10 AM |
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  TomJ4458

Oh I'm sure that since this is a sex site and girls just want to have fun I'll be summerarily dismissed yet again, but here's my story and I'm stickin' to it:

Once I had a nicely developed online relationship with a very wonderfull lady. It started off innocent enough in a mutual non-sex related chatroom and blossomed from there into IMing, emails and so forth. I thought we had really developed into something that was mutually satisfying on many levels. She had eventually sent me pictures and I her. Headshots, clothed, common photos that could be shown anywhere. Of course the photos become more sexually related as time went on.

Then came the big night, we decided to cyber together on our webcams. She had lied to me with her photos and looked nothing like them. She was not who she said she was in her pictures. Deceived and hurt by her deception I never talked to her again. This is a scene that has played itself out a few times now and leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Now being a nudist I've joined several online nudist communities in the past to be with likeminded people (or so I thought). One group decided to get the bandwidth to have an online chatroom with pc cam capabilities. OK, I thought, I'll give it a try...First thing I notice is that there are all men and no women. OK, no biggie, a bit strange but "whatthehell" and enter the room. I get tagged by the Moderator of the site and we start a convo. I see him and he sees me, no biggie we are nudists afterall. Naw, the dumbass throws up a warning flag when he says that his hands like to wander. Nope, not goin' for it I says. He says, "What's a little mutual masturbation between us guys?" Well, end transmission, I'm outta there pronto and never looked back.

Of course I've contacted/been contacted by women who want to display themselves on webcam. Some are harmless enough. Exhibitionists who just want to show off a bit. Hey, I don't mind! Most are married and just seeking a little thrill, no biggie! The ones I don't like are the ones who get you all hot and bothered and then thier husbands/boyfriends slip into the room to watch you, too. Naw, not for me. Ruins the mood. I'm not prudish - just not my bag.

So, at least from my experience, C2C is not for me.

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jezzarae

Nov 27 @ 5:25AM  
I agree with you Tom. I am not into cam action either. Probably for different reasons from you but it just isn't something I find interesting. Maybe if I was watching people who actually meant something to me that I know to be real it might be different but as for watching strangers forget it give me the real thing every time please.
casuallylooking

Nov 27 @ 6:01AM  
I see your point, Tom. Unfortunately, some people can't tell the truth about a lot of things.
Even if their pics are for real. Too many times they aren't.
I don't do cam, just have no interest in it. Not with strangers, anyways.
funnygirl730

Nov 27 @ 7:23AM  
the c2c thing is exactly how i feel about 2 women.all men seem to want that but there is no way i want another woman watching me let alone touching me.
whisperingcomet

Nov 27 @ 7:36AM  
If I had a nickel for everytime I have been asked to cam....I could buy a webcam ok, a cheap cam
GSpotGina

Nov 27 @ 8:51AM  
Well, I don't know how true this is, but I've been told that some people have advanced enough webcams or equipment that one's harmless little show online becomes amateur videos to post on the net. So much for privacy if one's face gets caught on it.
Ewe_Wish

Nov 27 @ 9:00AM  
You can always tell when they havent read my essay and they email me to cam with them or to have phone sex.........and anyone that doesnt take the time to read my essay isnt even going to get an email back saying no............
NachoBaby

Nov 27 @ 11:12AM  
Let me tell ya a thing or three about this sexy man.. first off ladies, you'd be lucky to have one as special as he is. Plus.. his nekkid videos are way more intimate than any jerk jerking could be. Pretty awesome.. he has manners, he has morals and he has a pretty SICK sense of humor.. sick in the good way ladies .. not sick sick.
shellsmack

Nov 27 @ 3:37PM  
...and he lives so close to me but doesn't give me the time of day. SHIT.
TomJ4458

Nov 27 @ 5:49PM  
...ah Sam yer too good fer me, doll. Yes, unfortunately all this has combined to lead me to believe that the ol' C2C thing is not a very good substitute for the real thing. I know that it can be a good thing provided it is done for that someone special but there are way too many people out there who just want to get thier voyueristic kicks off of someone willing to provide them a show.

Thanks ladies, all of you, for your comments. I give you all a kudos!

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C2C? Not for me