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posted 11/23/2007 9:34:43 PM |
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So, I've been on here for quite some time and everytime I think I'll actually meet someone in person... "something came up" or cold feet or whatever.

Our chats, IM and Phone always seem to lead to that point and yet, nothing. Is this a common thing on AMD or is it just me?

I find this site rather entertaining and wonder what your experience is?

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Nov 23 @ 10:21PM  
I don't know if it's a common thing on AMD.
I know that's it happens to about every person who has ever tried to date on line.
One holiday I had fixed a nice dinner and the guy stood me up, I guess he got cold feet, about meeting me he never showed up for dinner never called and cancelled either.

This man is on line here almost everyday, and from what I’ve heard he has been a member here for years. I’ve found out he has done this before.
It doesn't matter which dating site you are on, free or paying sites, sooner or later you come across people that have hang –ups and issues they don’t face or can’t deal with, when it comes to taking a relationship to the next level...

Nov 23 @ 10:26PM  
Met the love of my life on this site!

Nov 23 @ 11:20PM  
I have not met anyone from AMD yet, only been on a short time . the trouble I have is finding a lady who lives within meeting distance, that is the hardest thing to find, I live in NW florida, and most who have been on here have not been on in months. So I leave messages to say hi. but no response, so I am kind of frustrated too. I want to actually meet and see what happens, gosh, I hope this site works out. guess I will wait and see.Pete

Nov 23 @ 11:22PM  
Cold feet seems to go with the territory.

I used to think only women were capable of teasing with messages and chicken out when it came to meeting. I have had a few men chicken out on me. Maybe they weren't real to begin with.. One guy wouldn't answer the phone when we would agree on a time that I would call.

Then again, I have had enough good experiences that I can laugh at the no-shows and the scaredy-cats.

And with the odds being what they are, you guys probably have a harder time finding those good experiences. Trust me, they are out there.

Nov 23 @ 11:49PM  
My experiences have been positive!! YES most of the people live thousands of miles away from me - there are not many Canadians on this site! BUT, if you find someone whom you really click with - it really doesnt matter if that is what you both want! My guy I am "dating" from here is 1600 miles away, and we havent met yet, but we are planning to in the spring - but we video convo regularly and have become incredibly great friends!

I keep saying - each of us gets out of this site what we want - open mindedness is a big thing!! Good luck in your searches and experiences!!

Nov 24 @ 1:41AM  
It's just the luck of the draw. I've met women from all over the country....... and yet there was one I chatted with for 8 years..... who only lived 3 hours away....... and she wanted to meet...... and yet something always came up to prevent her from actually doing so.

If it is happening a lot..... you may need to analyze how you are coming across. Are you maybe pushing just a bit too hard to meet? Everyone has a different comfort zone and you need to figure out what their's is and work with it.

Nov 24 @ 5:18AM  
I have been here a while also, and have went thru the Same BS as you have, though I have met 2 or 3.
Like what Holly said it happens "On-Line" so its not just this site!
I personally belive most of the women/men that do that....are Married with no Intentions of ever meeting!.... and some are Lieing about Age, Size, and some are children playing games!
I have been stood up a couple of times.. Now that really Gripes my Butt! lol
On-line Dating could be Awesome, "IF" ppl were Honest/Real!!!!
Thats My 2 cents worth! lol
Good Luck dude!

Nov 24 @ 9:16AM  
Unfortunately that just seems to happen. Some people need to learn what common respect and courtesy are. Some never will....
I've only met one person from on here face to face. He drove 3 hours for us to meet.
There's good and bad on here. You just have to weed through the bad sometimes...
Good luck......

Nov 24 @ 10:08AM  
No I can't say that!! I met a very nice man who ended up being a FB. He was always nice, polite, great in bed and very informative. So don't give up!!!

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