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posted 11/21/2007 8:18:08 PM |
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Is it just me, or have you ever noticed that the more you enjoy someones company and getting to know them, the better looking they seem to become to you?

And if their looks were what got your attention to begin with and they are not a very likeable person, or just an absolute ass, those good looks just seem to deminish right in front of you? Never to be seen again.

Kind of goes with the old saying that beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder? And that it actually is only skin deep?

If someone you met was truly gorgeous to look at, what would make them ugly to you?
And if you met someone, that appearance wise, you wouldn't normally approach to get to know, could getting to talk with them change your mind about how they look to you?

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Ewe_Wish

Nov 21 @ 8:26PM  
But, But you said I was beautiful..........treas.......


If someone you met was truly gorgeous to look at, what would make them ugly to you?
Unkind words.....not necessarily to me but to anyone.....judgemental........spiteful.........racial........negativeness.....

And if you met someone that you wouldn't normally approach to get to know, what would make you change your mind?
a kindness towards small children, animals and the elderly.....a sense of humor......to be willing to help someone with nothing to gain from it.........the joy of seeing new things.....small acts of kindness.........sense of humor




tassie1

Nov 21 @ 8:36PM  
you mean these hope for an ugly son o'a biotch like me after all.

seriously ,yes i do see what you mean and I agree most times beauty is only skin deep.with a true friend ,apperance doesn't matter.
I prefer to get to know the inner person.
ynot7769

Nov 21 @ 8:39PM  
Is it just me, or have you ever noticed that the more you enjoy someones company and getting to know them, the better looking they seem to become to you?

yup...i agree........just wasn't sure if i was the ONLY one who noticed this.......

kudos to ya
maggiemae1969

Nov 21 @ 8:43PM  
thats why I dont push the picture issue,but I do like to hear them speak to me, you know gender verification , but when I love you I want it to be for your core....then I wont notice the wart on your nose.
NightOfOld

Nov 21 @ 9:05PM  

{ But, But you said I was beautiful..........treas....... }

I think all the Lady's on AMD are BEAUTIFUL,...each in their own way.

Do I have any hope ?
borty293

Nov 21 @ 9:05PM  
I can usually tell by the way they laugh and what they laugh at....if they have that crazy childish laughter ...I know we will get along...doesn't matter what they look like....plus ...they must have panties...
LilGriz

Nov 21 @ 9:06PM  
There is more to a person than what a pic can tell you about them. They can look nice, but be a real ass in person. Their pic can be photoshopped, of someone else, or real old in what they may post or send.

An "ugly" person will have no respect for others - children, elderly, handicapped, etc. Their opinion is the only one that is correct and love to argue the point, will stand in judgement of othere but refuse to look at themselves.

Good one Treas
sugarnspice005

Nov 21 @ 9:08PM  

If someone you met was truly gorgeous to look at, what would make them ugly to you?

Being hateful...judgemental, full of himself...rude and obnoxious..totally arrogant....and so damned conceited I'd want to puke.

And if you met someone, that appearance wise, you wouldn't normally approach to get to know, could getting to talk with them change your mind about how they look to you?

That would depend...are they kind, considerate, easy going...don't judge others by looks, but actually take the time to know someone...or do they act like jerks?

Bottom line..if they act like first class assholes...that makes them ugly....if they act like first class men....that makes them attractive.
Fckmhrdtnght

Nov 21 @ 10:08PM  
You are so right...

my ex was very handsome however over the years, he became the ugliest person I knew and so his personality was reflected in his face with his nastiest and negativity... not good looking anymore.

I've dated nice looking guys who when I got to know them... they just became more and more gorgeous to me..... their beautiful souls just shined...

one of these guys called himself one of the ugly people ... which I thought quite stupid.. he kinda looked like Keith Urban with a broken nose.

I've had girlfriends mouths drop open with the guys that I date.... they expect some gorgeous guy in a 3 piece suit.... instead some average nice guy with an amazing personality...

I DON'T GET FOOLED BY THE PRETTY WRAPPING ANY MORE!!!

REALLY GORGEOUS.
31sunshine

Nov 21 @ 10:19PM  
What an excellent point. I've heard many comments on why my ex is not that good looking, but to me, I fell in love with who he is on the inside and the outside didn't matter (not saying he was ugly by any means just different).

What turns a great looking person to ugly is someone who is ugly on the inside. Beauty is skin deep and you can't mask nastiness forever.

Great blog!!
bentan

Nov 21 @ 10:49PM  
If someone you met was truly gorgeous to look at, what would make them ugly to you?

Answering from Hotel AMD:

Her mind is a hollow grave, she's got a gaudy painted face
She's got a lot of ass-kissin' boys, eyes smeared over with glaze
How they dance in the blogs and forums, sweet verbal play.
Some dance to get pissed on, some dance to roll in her hay

buatbu

Nov 21 @ 11:04PM  
You are so right. Years ago I worked in a bar. The owner would only hire good looking waitress and I was surprised when he hired a "Plain Jane" It took about two weeks and she started to look beautiful. She made more tips then anyone else.
She was working her way thru college to become a teacher and last I heard she has a great husband, two super kids and was named Missouri State teacher of the Year.
Good point.
Lisa46

Nov 22 @ 7:44AM  
You know like everyone said but in laymans terms it is what is inside a person that makes him/her beautiful or ugly! Yep you need to have an attraction first hell I fell in love/lust with one the actors who was in town not cause he was hawt but because of his actions towards me! And I'm a hard sell
loveableone

Nov 22 @ 9:08AM  
Not sure if this will make sense, but here goes....

I consider myself a plain jane - nothing special - except I will say - I have a big heart, and wear it on my sleeve. The wonderful man I am "dating" from here is an incredible guy - one who I actually would not have even consider because of a couple things. But after talking to him more and more, I realized that he is sexy as hell, and that is not only just his looks - it is his heart,his personality, his brain and his unconditional attraction/like for me... I am not his particular body style - he does like them "chubby" but I am way overweight (working on that regularly now have lost 55lbs, perhaps more, just scared to get on scale). Anyways, the base of this is that - he probably wouldnt have given me the time he has, if it had not been for those initial emails and when we started video convos - he told me that my personality, my heart, and my gorgeous face are what have him hooked - as well as I have him intregued and he just wants to learn more and more. So yes, it is amazing what makes someone beautiful or ugly.

To me even if someones looks were drop dead gorgeous - what would make them ugly is if they were conceited, thought their shit didnt stink, were rude, or disrespectful, inconsiderate, thoughtless,.... the list of my pet peeves could go on!! Have a Happy Thanksgiving hun!!!
max49

Nov 23 @ 10:44AM  
Well Trease it's just like you said beauty is in the eye of the beer holder...I mean beholder. When I was in high school I dated a girl that wasn't very pretty. I actually went out with her the first time because I felt sorry for her. She had never been on a date with anyone, no school functions or anything. Whenever you saw her she was always by herself. Didn't have any friends or anything. Well to make a long story short I had such a good time with her on that first date that we ended up dating throughout high school. After high school we kind of went our separate ways. She went on to college and I didn't. I haven't seen her since high school but I for one can tell you that looks are only skin deep. True beauty comes from within. Great blog and a kudo for you.

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A Two Way Mirror..... Inside and Out