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Camming....A thing of the past?

posted 11/18/2007 1:33:35 PM |
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[/B]First, let me say that cam 2 cam chat is not a high priority with me, but I do find it enjoyable, to say the least....Now, I'm not refering to the "sex" type of camming...it's just nice to see the person you are talking to...lol...

I have old friends that still cam, but have noticed a dramatic reduction in the number of people who are willing to show themselves to the person they are talking to...( no, it's not I be Marc, wanna cam?)...I mean you meet someone...talk a while (weeks, or months) and when the subject of cams is raised, they suddenly act as though they have been asked to strip naked in a parking lot...which tends to make me feel as though they have something to hide......Am I alone in this?

I have no problem turning mine on at anytime....although it does come with disclaimer about scaring small children, etc...lol...but, then...that's me...

I would be interested in reading everyone's views on this subject....and, YES, ladies, I understand the problems you have with pervs and all....I'm talking about face cams...

OK, so it isn't a world shaking subject....lol...I've been away for a while and my brain is dysfunctional....and i wanted to get a blog in today.....post anyway...

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maggiemae1969

Nov 18 @ 1:54PM  
it all goes back to pics to me...... I dont mind a cam after you have gotten to know someone but certainly not for sex, just simply to become closer connected. Vanity is a big issue for some, for me I want it to be a mental connection , so deep it wont matter if you have a wart on your nose...... I want to see the inside of you and a webcam cant do that for me .
HollyHummy

Nov 18 @ 2:07PM  
I don't own a cam. I doubt I will ever get one in the future.
I didn't even want a computer at home. After working 8 or more hours on a computer at work the last thing I wanted to see was a computer screen after work.

My kids talked me into getting a computer.
They kept say how much fun it would be to have inst messenger, that lasted about 8 months then it went by the wayside.

Now I'm addicted to computer graphics, Paint Shop, AMD and MySpace...
If I got a web cam I'm afraid I would be addicted to it also.
dumblonde

Nov 18 @ 2:32PM  
had a cam, got rid of it...too many guys wanting free shows...
Ewe_Wish

Nov 18 @ 2:43PM  
I use my cam a lot.........My daughter lives 900 miles away from me and she got a cam when my two year old granddaughter was tiny........its our way of me watching my granddaughter grow and her to know who her Nana is........but as far as meeting ppl online yes after getting to know someone after a while.....i have to cam for face shots..............unfortunately as DB says too many ppl wanting free shows is the reason i dont talk with cams with people very much anymore........
lunanegra

Nov 18 @ 3:31PM  
Been there.Done that.Never again because webcams are an anathema to me,so much so they can be deal breaker if a guy asks me if I have one.Yeah,bad history with webcams...
Sunshinegal35

Nov 18 @ 3:32PM  
I only use my cam with people I know very well and feel totally comfortable with. I never use it with someone I just met, ever! Too many people just expect you'll take your clothes off for them.....Yeah right!
straightup_9

Nov 19 @ 8:30AM  
I'd like to thank everyone for their comments....and it's as I suspected, too many bad experiences...lol...funny thing, though.....no comments from any guys, yet......Hmmmmmm
mzhunyhole

Nov 20 @ 1:37AM  
I got my cam to see who I was talking to also..but fellas just wanna see tits..Jeeze
James59

Nov 20 @ 2:16AM  
I have done cam 2 cam only one time with someone other than family. I did not have a problem, nor did she. It was nice to see the person I was talking to. It is too bad so many have bad experiences.

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