Is an ORGASM and CUMMING the same thing? Can you orgasm without cumming.........or cumm without having an orgasm?  Now please...... I don't want anyone thinking I'm stupid, because to be honest, asking this question I'm wondering myself. But I honestly don't know the answer!! 
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DickSlippery
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Nov 17 @ 3:35PM
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Well...I once had a 45 minute orgasm, and I certainly didn't cum that entire time, so I would have 2 go with it being two different things. Kinds like cumming and squirting 4 girls!
I hope this has been helpful.
DS 
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straightup_9
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Nov 17 @ 3:38PM
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The best I can do is to say, cumming is the physical...while an orgasm is mental and emotional...I'll take orgasm over cumming any day
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sexydude2144
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Nov 17 @ 3:43PM
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so many times I have had women orgasm but not cumm, but that depends on the woman and the way she is feeling. to me yes both are different, but orgasms dont always lead to cumm, but orgasms are the best to abide by men when we know that women are being pleasured fully or not...
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GSpotGina
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Nov 17 @ 3:47PM
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For women they're different. Orgasm is a very intense feeling, there's no mistaking what is is. Cumming is the more the discharging of sex fluids. Yes, it is possible to orgasm without cumming. All it takes is to known and find the women's zones. It also possible to cum without an orgasm. A woman's cum is pretty much just natural lubrication reaction to encourage penetration. So, many menopausal women can't cum naturally anymore, but the sure can orgasm :)
I believe it's very different for the man though. I'll have to wait on them to describe theirs! I believe because they achieve theirs differently is the reason they often ask, "Did you cum?" or believes, she's totally wet, she came. (I did?!?!?! When??!?!?! LOL)
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FUNGUY007
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Nov 17 @ 3:58PM
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Now why did you ask that. Now all the perverts will be crawling out and getting there keys all sticky, gummy and messed up. 
Good question 
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onehornytoad69
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Nov 17 @ 5:55PM
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Well I must be Different than "DS", a 45 min Orgasm, without Cumming... WTH?
When I Cum... I Orgasm!!!!!!!!!!!!! Though after a few rounds, I may be DRY! I still cum!
My "BOYS" would Kill me if I CUM for 45 mins..... 
Doc plz .....
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Detach
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Nov 17 @ 6:51PM
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You know, I never thought of that. 
Now that you mention it, I never heard of any women having multiple cummings.
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DesertSmile
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Nov 17 @ 7:50PM
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Is this like the Chicken and the Egg question 
In answer to you question the answer is definiately YES. A woman can and does have an orgasm and not necessarily excrete/squirt at the same time. But, I rather doubt she can "cum" without a form of orgasm.
Aren't we gals the absolute luckiest to be able to enjoy such a variety of pleasures!!!
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catman1511
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Nov 17 @ 9:38PM
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I am 57 and always thought as orgasm as cumming.
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borty293
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Nov 18 @ 3:55AM
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there's know such thing as an orgasm ...its just acting 
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Ewe_Wish
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Nov 18 @ 6:55AM
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Well I dont know about men.........but for me i can have an orgasm without cumming............i have always referred to it as a mental orgasm but its strong as hell sometimes more so than when I cum...........I have to kinda agree with GspotGina on the lubrication part........as I have cum a lot just kissing but it wasnt really an orgasm............
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Argit01
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Nov 18 @ 8:08AM
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Women tend to be more emotive when having sex, that is to say that they feel the intensity of having sex as an emotional and not just a physical act whereas for most men it would seem that the mere act of having sex is enough. I say most men as there are those of us who experience sex as more than just a physical act and therefore enjoy the intensity of it on an emotional level. I have certainly had an orgasm without cumming and while my partner at the time came (and reached orgasm) she was more than a little pissed that there was no sperm dribbling out of her (even though she was unable to get pregnant). Maybe she felt cheated that I was unable to fill her with sperm and saw the act of a man ejaculating as the male orgasm, whereas I believe that a true orgasm is both an emotional and physical thing.
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MEMEME69247
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Nov 18 @ 10:19AM
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Zena----Good Blog and question,,,Yes,,,,This is from my experience with my much younger partner, I believe a man can have an orgasm and not cum but have lubrication fluids cumming out pre ejaculation fluids,,,my man can go and go and orgasm and yes when he finally does cum during our session,,,,it is a big load and I love it....I have multiple orgasms without cumming but my lubrication fluids are there,,,just like when you are making out which I call my pre-lubricating fluids,,,,and yes I myself can ejaculate more than once during our sex session....and he loves it....then just my opinion from my experience....
Now that you mention it, I never heard of any women having multiple cummings
This Women here has mutltiples all the time,,,,,and love every second of it.....
Yes very wet....
Kudo goes out to you Zena,,,enjoy the rest of your weekend...kisses Lena
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Loveyoulongtime2
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Nov 18 @ 6:17PM
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I think what Argit said is a very good explanation from a man's point of view.
Orgasm (or climax) is a clinical or medical term, cumming is the "porn" term for term same thing.
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