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bored and lonely

posted 11/15/2007 1:41:17 AM |

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raziel23x

all i can say is being single sucks in more ways then one. the thought of being forever alone is another thing. no one really wants to talk to me or care to it seams. i make contact with people and they ask for my yahoo then talk to me that one time when i come back the next i seem to always get the same responses because i screwed up somehow because i have a habit of saying something that hurt them in some way without thinking because of being too truthful at times. I feel as though something should be said but never say them and always seem to say the things that should of been kept to ones self.

again another night as pink would say " It is just you and your hand tonight"

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mrknowuwell

Nov 15 @ 2:01AM

dude......some words of wisdom and advice from a guy who has been there and done that......I have no advice ......jus when u think u know it......it changes........on the bright side......at least u have 2 hands

dumblonde

Nov 15 @ 2:06AM

mrkuw....

2 hands might help with being bored, but i hardly think it helps with being lonely....

ynot7769

Nov 15 @ 5:54AM

2 hands might help with being bored, but i hardly think it helps with being lonely....

2points for DB...............just take yer time and meet people and let things fall into place...........sometimes its the easiest way

passion8male

Nov 17 @ 4:55AM

If you're being truthful & honest, then it's not you, but a matter of the ladies' selectiveness. I wouldn't get down on yourself over having a prospective connection which soured after you've talked with the person. You may have shared something openly which your interest decided was not of her perticular liking or taste. Or, perhaps the chemistry just wan't there in your talks.

There is also a fine line between being open & truthful & seeming overly eager (&/or pushy) to the other person. Are you sure your loneliness isn't making you seem overly eager, etc? There's no "right" or "wrong" way to handle first IM's, talks, or dates with someone per se'. Nor any simple uniform advice either becasue each potential person you try to connect with is unique & has different wants, desires & a pace they're confortable with, etc. It's best to just be yourself & be as relaxed as possible. I think being openly honest is a good quality that most women will respect. I personally would remain honest.

2 hands might help with being bored, but i hardly think it helps with being lonely....

I agree with DBlonde. Lonliness is on a whole different level than boredom...and masturbation certainly does not resolve feelings of loneliness either.

Being lonely can be rough. A five year relationship ended for me in Jaruary '07. I've been on my own for most of the year except for a few months dating over the summer. For me it's not just the sexual closeness & intimacy I miss & long for, but the whole range of connection, intimacy, closeness, friendship, romance, etc.

If I had all the answers I probably wouldn't be seeking a possible connection online myself, lol. I hope something i've shared might help you to feel better about your situation. You're not alone in your loneliness.

Good Luck

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