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posted 11/11/2007 10:02:36 AM |
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  38decentmale38

Time for this man's blithering rant or rave. ......

It is my belief that the quality of a person does not matter anymore. We covet or desire material things that in the end are temporary. The Quality of life is a respectful peanut jelly fit versus a oil and water never mixes. I cannot blame a woman that wishes to meet a man with a stable job to have a better life. This society since world war 2, got woman working and it has took both working 1 or 2 jobs each to have the minimals. In some states 3 jobs. Since the 80's jobs are less secure and stable. Doesnt matter the high or low paying jobs. I have seen good people that have helped their company's became better, run out of their job with a Thank You or more like a fuck you. I have seen those who deserved to lose their job go. It is also true that if you do not have the right college degree you can be doomed if you do or do not relocate where those jobs are. The richer get richer and the poor need to team up together to prevail. The answer is in the simple math. It is also true that there is a difference in knowing the path and walking the path. Most people will not do what it takes in the sacrifices. People do not plan to fail, only fail to plan. You do have to save money for tomorrows unforseen, Car tune up, timing belt, New tires, children's dental work, ect. In my life I wait for the quality person for either a ltr or even a sexual relationship. I deserve what I want, paid my dues, still pay my dues and not afraid to work 2 jobs to succeed, not suffer. Sex is the easy part of a relationship and it is the personality or mental connection that makes it so much more better. Some say bad sex is better than no sex, and to a point maybe that can be true most of the time. Only thing bad about no sex is no practice of learning better techniques. Experience does make anyone better in the future. It is also the desire to be the best at it as well as everything you do. Society says throw it in the garbage if it does not fit and that I will not do. It is for life and working at. Love is if the one you love gets messed up on drugs or alcohol, you them in the head with a baseball bat, haul them in to detox or drug rehab and if you lose your job, you stick with them till they are clean and sober. That is love. I lost my best friend 2 years ago because I failed to do that. Life teaches, hope we all can find a way to learn always. It does not mean you cant enjoy pot or alcohol in moderation, but abuse it and the price is extremely high and not just monetary. Maybe I am out to lunch, but know some agree with me. I do not follow the herd over the cliff even though they might be channeled that way. Blaze my own trail if need be.

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Ashinatrix

Nov 11 @ 10:17AM  
Wow hon.....that WAS a rant.....you were all over the map.......I'm having trouble knowing where to begin....so I'll just say.....I found nothing you said to be unreasonable....I, in fact, agree with you whole heartedly...and It's been a long, long time since I've smoked one....so pick one up on yer way over k??
But youre absolutely right....you DO deserve what you want....and I hope you find it
38decentmale38

Nov 11 @ 10:26AM  
Thanks Ash! Nothing like a a good J, done forgot how to enjoy one, lol
ValentineGirl214

Nov 11 @ 11:42AM  
Why don't all of us Poor Folk get together and become RICH as ONE!!!
maggiemae1969

Nov 11 @ 12:03PM  
I think your a good fella, that will get what you need and want.
hornytoad55

Nov 11 @ 5:50PM  
Good blog 38. You have a lot of good thought and gave a good incite into yourself. I hope you meet the one you are looking for. If you do you are going in knowing neither one of you are perfect. You will only have the kind of relationship you are willing to work for. A Kudo for you.

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