OK, time for another blog where I ask for advice. I know this isn't the Dear Abby site but it has to do with sex and I always love the advice I get from everyone here...so wise 
Sooooo.... I recently ran into a guy I have known since I was 10. We use to date back in school and well... he went his way and I went mine. I use to be BEST friends with his twin sister and from what I remember in our friendship she never resented me for dating her brother. So years pass and we lose touch.
Just a few years ago I reconnected with the sister because her daughter is in the same class as my daughter and I would ask about her brother but I wasn't foaming at the mouth to see him.
About 6 months ago they had a terrible family tradegy and that's where I met her brother again...after not seeing him for 15 years.
Ok, I am giving too much detail.... anywhoooooooooo
He contacted me about a week ago and from his emails he is really interested in "seeing" me again and I told his sister and she said "STAY AWAY!"
I don't know if she meant because he is a bad boy or because I am a bad girl.
So advice... anyone fool around with one of your best friends siblings and get burnt in the ass?
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Looking4ever
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Nov 6 @ 11:23AM
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I've never been in that situation but maybe she is telling you to stay away, not because he is her brother, but because she knows stuff about him and thinks you shouldn't get involved with him. Perhaps you should talk with her and find out what she meant by the stay away remark instead of trying to decipher it.
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starting_over
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Nov 6 @ 11:41AM
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I agree with looking4ever. Find out why she said stay away. Is it because he's married now? Is he in trouble with the law? Is he into drugs or booze? Or maybe it's because your in a relationship. There has to be a reason and you should find out
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sexathome
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Nov 6 @ 11:48AM
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Let me save you from yourself.. or the potential heartbreak of rejoining with an old flame and come on over! It wouldn't answer why she wants you to stay away but it would give you something else to focus on! hehe!
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Thenewguy2957
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Nov 6 @ 12:21PM
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Yep, what they said. Communicate.
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sugarnspice005
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Nov 6 @ 12:43PM
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I've never *messed around* with my best friends brother...but that was because he was never *shy* about admitting to being a player either. He's been married and divorced twice. Besides...I look at him more as a brother than anything.
So, if my best friend were to tell me to "STAY AWAY" from her brother...I would. Her friendship means more to me than a "roll in the hay" with her brother.
Hope this helps. 
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asnet
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Nov 6 @ 1:35PM
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He has herpes, hepatitis and the Ebola virus.
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mastermike69
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Nov 6 @ 5:22PM
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I guess the advice I gave you last night didn't sink in?
Why must you always be a bad girl... now bend over 
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Sunshinegal35
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Nov 6 @ 5:35PM
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Just ask her why she suggested staying away from her brother. It sounds to me like he's turned into bad apples...but who knows?
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six3indallas
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Nov 7 @ 12:23PM
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Warning, Will Robinson! Warning, Warning!
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six3indallas
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Nov 7 @ 12:23PM
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Damn. Hate it when the tabs dont hold!
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