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Just amazing... posted 10/13/2006 12:44:33 PM | 0 kudos what's this?     report abuse   ThinkingMan5963 I find it truly amazing some of the things I read on the profiles and essays here. You would think people could look in the mirror and realize that all of their demands are more fantasy than reality. I think it is a grand idea to dream and have goals but when you start listing off requirements for your ideal match and they add up to roughly 4 guys on the planet... get real! I know the guys do it too. It just seems like such a waste of time on here. We all know that nobody is perfect. It does seem to afflict women more than men however. I call it the "Princess Complex". They think that the world will bow to them if they just demand hard and loudly enough. I don't think so. In truth 99% of the women I meet anymore are damaged goods. They all need to wake up and get a clue. Here's an idea: Try telling the truth for a change and see how that works. I might accept your issues if you did not try to hide them so hard. In the end the truth comes out anyhow. Too bad it wastes so much time when it has to be dug out. I guess in the end I am dreaming because nobody wants to really speak the truth when the lies are so much more comfortable. Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

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ponme	Oct 13 @ 4:40PM
	In truth 99% of the women I meet anymore are damaged goods. Not trying to start a fight, but what do you mean by this? Damaged Goods? All of us have issues, every living person has some or they wouldn't really be here would they? I wanna get straight in my head what you are talking about before I fire off a real reply.
ponme	Oct 14 @ 8:07AM
	In my estimation, it's not only women who are Damaged Goods. I have not met one single person who does not have baggage. No, not one. So, yes, maybe I do believe that once you clear up all your baggage, your time here is through. Just my belief, however, and not something I would force on anyone else. Unfortunately life didn't come with an instruction manual. Everyone makes mistakes, things happen that scar us all just a bit on the inside. I am reminded of the parable of the Beautiful Heart. (look it up here online) Where each person that touches us does something to our heart.. either rips out a chunk or gives us a piece of theirs. Leaving the heart tattered and scarred but more beautiful than a heart that has never loved. I don't guess I understand what you mean by working out their issues in a current relationship. Perhaps you make them feel comfortable enough to discuss things that have happened to them? Or perhaps something in you draws this type of person. Each person we meet is there for a reason. We have something to learn from them. What is your deep emotional issue that keeps you from being tolerant?