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He says he wants a challenge.....

posted 11/4/2007 10:19:50 AM |
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  GoDiva

I just learned a good lesson, when you hand it to them, they don't want it....

He tells me that he likes a challenge, so the question for me is how do I give this motherfucker what he is asking for? anyone...?

If I do give him a run for his money, will he respond? Or will he find me too much to handle and give up? Believe me, I could play that card. I chose not to because I really like him and he initially said he wanted to "take it slow"....okay mixed messages is what I am seeing.

I don't play games, but I certainly could, then take the consequences for playing them I suppose. Just like I explained to him that I could be a total bitch but I choose not to take that route....I believe we all can be horrible, but most good people choose not to express that way....

What cracks me up is most guys say they don't want drama or game players, but it seems they do to a point. I count the challenge as part of the drama.....



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ValentineGirl214

Nov 4 @ 10:28AM  
then give him a challenge, if he can't handle it, then it's on HIM!!!
lori478

Nov 4 @ 10:28AM  
It so is part of it that is why in more than 50% of all cases the challenge than becomes preventing you from taking 50% of everything he owns lol
new2this255

Nov 4 @ 10:31AM  
most ppl say they want a challenge but when things actually get challenging they quit. be yourself.
looking4one44

Nov 4 @ 10:35AM  
DUMP THE SOB FIND SOMEONE THATS WILLING TO MEET YOU HALF WAY.
skinonskin

Nov 4 @ 10:40AM  
Ummmmm.... unless I totally misunderstood your reasoning behind your blog, I don't believe in "challenges" and/or challenging one another in a relationship! I do believe in compromise to resolve issues which, in my opinion, sets the groundwork for a relationship to work! JMO

Wordsofwit

Nov 4 @ 10:45AM  
I cannot figure out what the challenge is. Are speaking about a date, going to bed, moving in together, marriage?
Thenewguy2957

Nov 4 @ 10:46AM  
Just be yourself, if he is being himself then things will work out or not based on compatibility.
FUNGUY007

Nov 4 @ 10:47AM  
Doesn't sound healthy for you, your feeling and emotions later on.Wish you the best.
DeDe54

Nov 4 @ 11:10AM  
Diva, fuck him if he can't take a joke...ok this is a bit out of line!!!!!!

Ok my bad!
Lisa46

Nov 4 @ 11:28AM  
Sorry DeDe I was thinkn the same thing he wants a challange fine let him work at getting your clothes off
freebirdie

Nov 4 @ 11:39AM  
"Challange" is a game.....figure out what YOU want and if he doesn't fit intop that then to the curb with that one.......NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
redbronze

Nov 4 @ 11:42AM  
yeah what they said..
dmbradley1978854

Nov 4 @ 12:59PM  
If he wants a challenge; Give it to him. If he quits: WHO CARES!!!

There are plenty of other men to look at.
Detach

Nov 4 @ 1:19PM  
if he wants a challenge, tell him to clean out the soap scum and rust in your tub. Or maybe to build you an extension to your house. I for one have enough challenges that I don't care to have it in my relationships.
funnygirl730

Nov 4 @ 3:39PM  
i think it's an excuse.if he really wanted you the last thing he would want is to have to chase you.give him the boot and find someone who knows a good thing.
friendwperks

Nov 4 @ 3:45PM  
Just give it a little more gas, don't floor it. If he can handle it give it a little more
mdx71

Nov 5 @ 12:27AM  
Guy are "hunters" so we like the chase. Otherwise we feel that youi just gave up, like "ok, fine, get it over with"

Most of us don't like drama, but I thing guys and girls have different definitions of drama.

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