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posted 10/31/2007 10:49:17 PM |
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you utter the words "I love you" to your significant other.

Do you date for one month, two, three, ....a year before you wait to say "I love you".
Some people think if you say "I love you" in the first month of a relationship that it's not love but lust. Others say to hell with it, express your true feelings, there is nothing to lose.
So..... I guess it's just a personal gut feeling you have to go with, no matter how early or late in the relationship.

Also... does anyone here think its crazy to say "I love you" to someone from the internet that you have never met in person before.

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Oct 31 @ 11:00PM  
In my case, the last time I pronounced those words, it was almost by accident, I just couldn't beleive what I had just said. It was spontaneous and I meant every word. It was about 2 and half months in the relationship, and I have never regreted it.

As for saying that you love someone you have never met in person and only online... be careful...some people are not as they seem...

Oct 31 @ 11:02PM  

I would say it's not a matter of time, but when you feel comfortable doing it.

Oct 31 @ 11:06PM  
I think you have to go with your heart, when it says it's time. There is no right or wrong. But me, I'm cautious so I'd wait to make certain of my feelings because I wouldn't want to mis-state them.

Oct 31 @ 11:19PM  
One year, one month, one night..... it happens when it happens.

It makes sense at the time..... but in retrospect..... yep, it's pretty crazy to profess to love a "stranger".

Oct 31 @ 11:24PM  
When it's right, you'll know! Every couple is different- there's no book of rules that shows step-by-step when the words "I Love You" should be said!


Oct 31 @ 11:26PM  
When the time comes one knows. A time limit has nothing to do with it

Oct 31 @ 11:49PM  
yep, it's pretty crazy to profess to love a "stranger".
but, but, but slohand you told me you loved me.............tell me you didnt lie.........

Nov 1 @ 12:45AM  
Falling in love doesn't have a time limit. It happens when it happens. If you are lucky enough to find that special person.
Personally those are words I don't use lightly so I don't say them unless I am sure that I mean them. Regardless of the time getting to that point.

Nov 1 @ 2:25AM  
I proceed cautiously. I don't say it until I mean it. Once I say I love someone I never take it back. It's not a term I throw around loosely.

Nov 1 @ 8:47AM  
Yes, I do agree that love happens when it happens, and you cant help it when its there. Personally I hold off on saying this until I KNOW for a FACT my partner is feeling the same way, wouldnt want to be at different places, and scare him off. Usually I can tell though, and it has always worked out.

As for saying I love you to someone from the internet, whom you have never met, I am somewhat skeptical of that. That takes some serious time and talking to someone that way. And really, how can you TRULY know you love someone until you meet them in person and feel...... I dont know, that is just my opinion. I know others have fallen in love without meeting, so I think it is different for each person.

Nov 1 @ 10:19AM  
There is no time limit...just go with what you feel in your heart.

Nov 1 @ 1:45PM  
Test out the waters by telling them, "I just love the way you Fuck me/eat me/play with my tits"...if they have a bad reaction to that....keep yer lip zipped.

those three little words are dangerous as all careful with them.

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