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Why are men ashames to admit they are bi ,or like to try it

posted 10/25/2007 7:53:03 PM |

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Help me please,why do most men want to hide it from there mates.Its ok with them to wacth there mates with another woman,but not them with another man.

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jezzarae

Oct 25 @ 7:57PM

Didnt you know that being bi makes a woman hot and sensual. Being bi or even bi curious makes a man much less of a man.
Just ask any guy he will tell you. Ask any woman and she will tell you what a load of shit.

BuddhaDon

Oct 25 @ 8:08PM

I wouldn't know, but I'd guess it's because of our cultures' ignorances or justifications. I'd lean more toward the former.

ValentineGirl214

Oct 25 @ 8:09PM

I don't want to see my mate with another man, nor do I want to be with another woman.

dmbradley1978854

Oct 25 @ 10:44PM

Coming from having been in a macho culture for so long; I'll tell you the reason for it.

When other men in a macho culture like the one that I used to be in for 8 years see or find out that a man is gay; He becomes the subject of attack. It is viewed as a defect in a man that I'm really sorry to say has cost many gay men their lives. That's why in my years as a Marine; They would do whatever they could to conceal the sexual preference of that Marine or if that didn't happen; They would remove the Marine from the command and keep him in a place that his safety was better ensured untill that Marine was quietly discharged. They do that for a reason. That reason is that when the other Male Marines find out that a Marine is gay: The clock starts ticking on his life/physical well being. It's not a pretty picture.

Older and more mature men are more capable of being rational and not acting out of anger towards a gay or bi sexual man. With a young macho culture; You don't want to be the member of that culture that shows the rest a "defect" like that. I call it a preference but; For all intensive purposes it's a defect in a macho culture.

slohand_47

Oct 25 @ 11:14PM

Oh, please. Unless you have an "open" relationship, anyone; female or male, will hide if from their... mate... if they want to try something on the side.
I know a couple guys who are gay from the get go, but I don't know of one guy who is bi-curious. Especially me. And no "methinks psychobabble".
I love women. (as often as possible)

alissahayden

Dec 27 @ 6:36AM

Hmmmm... Interesting question. My opinion? Society views gay men as "feminate" and it takes away their MANHOOD, therefore why would it be ok? if you are a manly guy, you are NOT going to admit that you have those thoughts... In general.

I have a friend who is very "manly" in the general respect. He loves women, loves sex, he's married. BUT he very much wants to try sex with a guy.. Except..... how do you find someone willing to discreetly? Because yep. you don't want to admit it.

It's the same thing with a lot of things. Society has expectations and puts people in their holes.

And not all guys want to see two women together. 85% do..

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