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posted 10/25/2007 2:28:43 PM |
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  maggiemae1969

if you love him/her but know you could not live with them? Be it finances or an activite that you just cant live with? Sometimes folks make it just simply impossible for you to even like them much less love them ......... but other times your heart takes over and makes foolish choices..... how in the world can you hang onto to just enough sanity to pull you thru ?

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zena343

Oct 25 @ 2:39PM  
Sometimes you just can't Maggie. With me it was my sanity and also fear for the safety of me and my daughter. Sooooo even though I loved my husband, I knew there was no way I could stay. Sometimes LOVE is NOT ENOUGH!!
REAL_UNIQUE

Oct 25 @ 2:43PM  
If you find an answer, let me know Please!!!
orzie

Oct 25 @ 3:37PM  
maggiemae1969

Oct 25 @ 3:41PM  
is that boones farm? If not please be on your way ....
borty293

Oct 25 @ 3:59PM  
I don't buy the love is blind scenario...unless I got panties on my head....
belle1010

Oct 25 @ 4:39PM  
I have to agree with zena, sometimes love isn't enough. If it were I wouldn't be in Illinois and the father of my baby in California.
jjhxjpb

Oct 25 @ 4:42PM  
I think we all have limits, the hard part is sticking to our limits and being strong enough to stand up for them.

I feel if you have to hang on to "just enough" it isnt worth hanging on for... IMO

Borty... get my panties off your head, I told you about wearing those to the blogs
NachoBaby

Oct 25 @ 5:20PM  
Love isn't blind, it's stupid. We think that we can fix everything that's broken, when sometimes we just gotta know when to walk away.
Wordsofwit

Oct 25 @ 7:55PM  
I have said this before, but experienced what you convey with three fine women that held LTR potential except for one thing. The reason was that the lady had high maintenance loser kids. Friends with benefits was as far as it went for that reason.
31sunshine

Oct 25 @ 9:54PM  
I'm with Nacho & JJ

I have very strong boundaries and I don't back down, it's too important. But I think it makes me healthier as a person to have limits and stick by them. I've walked away from a couple relationships because of my boundaries. Why waist my time waiting for someone to change or grow up, NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!! I'd rather live in reality, my reality, no matter how warped it is.

Great question Maggie!!
slohand_47

Oct 25 @ 11:54PM  
What Nacho said.

For some reason...... people will look at someone and "love" the person they COULD be....... or who we WANT them to be........ instead of looking at just who they really are. Ok, so they are HOT. Big deal. Lots of people are hot. Take a cold shower and get to know them.
mzhunyhole

Oct 26 @ 1:21AM  
Sounds like my life..love my fella..but we can't stand to spend too many days together..I don't get it..then we part and we're miss each other..what to do??
lifeizabitch

Oct 26 @ 10:33AM  
is that boones farm? If not please be on your way .... I see you like the finer things in life.

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