Sorry folks...i dont get it...doesnt sex automatically have strings??? risks...sex is a connection between 2 people..intimate..how can there be no strings? arent the risks of STD, pregnancy, etc strings???? how can you have sex with someone and not care one bit about them after???? its not something i can do...if i didnt at least feel something for someone, i couldnt have sex with them...maybe every man's dream to have sex on an elevator with a stranger and walk away...but not my dream...
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Looking4ever
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Oct 25 @ 1:52PM
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And you call yourself dumblonde? Far from it!
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max49
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Oct 25 @ 1:56PM
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I'm right there with you db. I have to have some kind of feelings other than being horny to have sex with anyone and for me I always feel some sort of connection afterwards. Just my opinion.
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FUNGUY007
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Oct 25 @ 2:03PM
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Strings and some are for me. 
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DoIDetectAHIntOfTuna
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Oct 25 @ 2:22PM
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I am in the exact opposite way of thinking, so I think that the strings attached way of thinking is something typically shared among women.
I don't get how women can feel emotional attachment with every single sex partner they have. It's just sex. Sometimes it's special, and most times when you are just getting it from strangers for the sake of sexual release, it means absolutely nothing.
Most of us men have the same 'strings attached' thought towards sex that we do towards simply using the restroom. It means nothing to us and we should always make sure to wash our hands afterwards.
However, seeing as how many women think of men as scum, and women also seem to enjoy sex as much as men, perhaps women would benefit from cutting these 'strings attached' thoughts when engaged in sex.
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ThePurpleProphet
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Oct 25 @ 2:23PM
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In my younger days I had some one night stands. Now that I'm older and so much more mature. Really I am. I look back in disgust at what I did. In any of the instances it was mutual. We weren't looking for anything other than sex. At this point in my life though I couldn't have just meaningless sex. Good Blog.
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r0ach
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Oct 25 @ 2:24PM
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That Is very deep and very wise, Fair Play to you really!!! like looking4ever said you are really not a dumblonde.....
speaking from a males mouth i would say that most men would have a quickie then happily walk away without a though within there very small minds.... But other men would like to find a commitment with the person they get involved with because sex is, In my opinion the most important way to show your partner you love, respect and care for them......
really............
Rich X
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hornytoad55
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Oct 25 @ 2:31PM
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I think that is "Dumb like a fox blonde" . Sex without strings is just a f_ _k. I have no interest in a f_ _k. I like strings. I want to know it meant something to both of us. 
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frankbarks
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Oct 25 @ 2:36PM
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then save yourself for marriage, with all the strings.
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NightOfOld
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Oct 25 @ 3:16PM
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I feel the same as you do. If I dn not care about the person.
Then I sure wouldn't have sex with them. And it has to be a
little more than just knowing them with me.
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Playguy40
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Oct 25 @ 3:35PM
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Yeah Looking, I never bought the "dumb" part either.
I don't know how many have actually had sex and just walked away without some lasting effect. I've tried it but it always ended up meaning something.
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mike1369
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Oct 25 @ 4:34PM
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not to be an ass, but I have always been told you don't pay a hooker for the sex....you pay for her to leave. So I have been told. never payed money, diner, movies, cars but never money
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hopon
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Oct 25 @ 4:42PM
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I have had no strings attached sex before..... I think that it is possible when you don't know anything about the person you are in bed with
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chris_k
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Oct 25 @ 5:31PM
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I can't imagine, nor imagine it being healthy, to not care one bit about a sexual partner. That's a subversion of what it's about--an experience of deep and profound physical and energetic connection with another person. Though, not all people approach it that way--equally not, I think, amongst people who are in committed monagamous relationships who follow very sex-negative religions as amongt the set who will just fuck anything that moves for sport.
That being said though, I think there's a place for two people who are attracted to each other and fond of each other, to share sexual experiences together, without it being part of some commitment. As long as such relationships are based on mutual respect and honesty, they can be rewarding in their own right. I really do think that humans are polyamorous by design, and there's nothing that I can see that's wrong with sex between friends, or at least people who are friendly with each other. Again, I think the the key requirements here are mutual respect and honesty--if those are present, then any relationship can be good.
Chris
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BuddhaDon
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Oct 25 @ 5:45PM
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I agree with you about the strings. On "how can you have sex with someone and not care one bit about them after..." from what I hear, [cough, cough] LSD. Anyway, I think it's great that that's how you feel. I try to promote what may be needed of a relationship for her sake to enjoy the sex, if that makes any sense. Also, I at least leave my phone number afterwards. Now back to the question for which I already have an answer. There's another site with ten commandments. Stick to those, and it's just sex.
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StraddleMyNose
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Oct 25 @ 5:59PM
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I agree with you. I can't sleep with someone if I don't care about them in some way
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Jems60
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Oct 25 @ 6:23PM
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If some woman, a stranger, walked up to me and said, "You, Sex, Now!" I couldn't say no. But that excitement is what makes it so exhilarating. Even the possibility of getting pregnant or getting an STD should add some excitement to it. It's like your doing something you know is wrong, damn the consequences.
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NachoBaby
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Oct 25 @ 6:36PM
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Ahh an area I actually know something about.
Ok this is gonna sound crass..
I can fuck anyone. Fuck em and forget em.. yes seriously and yes I'm female.. unless someone got the plumbing wrong. But, I don't like doing it. It's not fulfilling it's just scratchin an itch and I could have done it much more satisfyingly alone most of the time.
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ynot7769
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Oct 25 @ 7:27PM
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seems no strings would be a waste of time...........no strings = no passion ...........hell i'd stay home alone..... 
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borachone
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Oct 25 @ 7:46PM
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^ ^ ^ Seems to me I heard that happens to him alot anyhooo Just kiddin "y" And I'm with DB who by the way doesn't seem to be there has to be something there or else WTF green slippery thingie to ya
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orzie
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Oct 25 @ 8:42PM
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you've got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them,know when to run like hell ,when the day is done !
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31sunshine
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Oct 25 @ 9:50PM
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To each his own...some can do it and some can't. It comes down to what you want in life. I can and have done it, but I'd rather wait till I have someone who it means something with. I want the strings so I'll be patient till I find what I need.
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mrknowuwell
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Oct 26 @ 3:29AM
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i wish it were a string...........it always seems to be a rope..........and then no is around to untie me......  
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slohand_47
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Oct 26 @ 4:59AM
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Just when you get tired of reading pages and pages of senseless crap on here....... something profound comes along.
VERY well written, smartblonde
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zena343
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Oct 26 @ 8:57PM
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But DB I want the strings!!
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Friendinneed56M
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Nov 11 @ 1:25PM
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I think it depends entirely on the two people involved..
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straightup_9
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Nov 20 @ 8:51AM
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No strings attached...lol...doesn't that mean "leave 50 bucks on the table as you leave?"... 
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