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posted 10/24/2007 11:05:11 PM |
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Women..................all oh us have been there, care to share the tales, so that the men folk can know that this is a real phenomenon................They( I have been told by more than one man on here, that we never have a hard time finding men or getting laid) think that we never experience a dry spell!! Ladies, share the wealth.......

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31sunshine

Oct 24 @ 11:23PM  
I had 3 years of celibacy...does that count?

I was recently told that women, can get laid if they want to....that is to say that we'd have to lower our standards, go to a bar and pick anyone who is really drunk? NO THANK YOU!!!
six3indallas

Oct 25 @ 12:15AM  
Very true. But the difference is, you always have that choice. Albeit its a distasteful one that you would likely never pull the trigger on.

For us guys, on the other hand (insert your own visual imagery here), we must wait on your tender mercies.

You are the deciders. We're the decidees. I might add that we happily ,if at times frustratedly, take that role.

The promise of what you have to offer (not just sex by the way) far outweighs other issues.

You make us better than we were by ourselves, but the choice is always yours.
mzhunyhole

Oct 25 @ 12:45AM  
I think I got cobwebs down there..
whisperingcomet

Oct 25 @ 4:44AM  
Get laid, sure, all we have to do is drive a zillion miles, or screw a bar creep, or suddenly be interested in married men, or be the third in a threesome,ect ect ect
partytimemary

Oct 25 @ 6:41AM  
Sunshine nailed it.... we could certainly act like a fool and just pick up any guy, anywhere and get laid ~ but the point is??? Hell no, I would never do anything like that... I DO have some morals.....and personally I choose not to die at the hands of HIV OR a serial killer ! Sex is not all about the "act" but about the intimacy of being with another person in a very personal way.....

YES, we do have very long dry spells.....I can vouch for my own as well unfortunately

nativeamr35

Oct 25 @ 7:37AM  
I'll chime in...

For a women to go without, baring medical conditions like a full body cast, is a choice. Women choose to pass up on sex because of their standards. Not, because that can't find a man thats willing.

Quick side note. I once knew a women who didn't have a standard. She got laid 3 or 40 times a day. She got laid twice while walking 3 blocks to the liquor store and back. True story!

Men on the other hand are in constant search of a lay. I would say the average man will hit on 2 women a day hoping to get laid. (purely speculative estimate). A suave and charming guy will usually hit 1 out of 20 and get lucky. So when a man has gone without for a year or two its not because he hasn't found someone he's interested in. Its because he hasn't found someone who's interested in him.

So, for a women to say she hasn't gotten laid in a year or more, its not at all a the same. The women chose to go without. This is why men get all pissy over it.
(not saying there is anything wrong with having standards either, I agree with the idea)

This is mostly speculative thought. But with some truth to it.
Lisa46

Oct 25 @ 8:50AM  
Oh yeah I went over 5 yrs in my twenties. But guys since most women won't just "fuck" any stranger we go for longer periods of time. Which is why a FWB is nice. But we really want someone who gives a shit!
slohand_47

Oct 25 @ 12:49PM  
Nobody is suggesting you should lower your standards. It's a matter of choice.
BUT...... the simple fact remains that IF a woman wanted to just simply get laid... no romance, no strings attached.... She could do it any night of the week. There is always some guy out there who will take her up on it. The same is NOT true for a man.
Personally, I'm not into the bar scene..... been there, watched it, no thanks. BUT.... In my limited experience, I've never yet seen a woman enter a bar, sit there by herself, and get ignored all evening. She will attract attention and she can pick and choose who, (or IF) she wants to leave with. I think that's the only point of the comment that men make...... that the option is there IF they want it.
dmbradley1978854

Oct 31 @ 12:56AM  
I was recently told that women, can get laid if they want to....that is to say that we'd have to lower our standards, go to a bar and pick anyone who is really drunk? NO THANK YOU!!

Men can't do that. Women can. Women don't really have to lower their standards either.
dmbradley1978854

Oct 31 @ 12:58AM  
For a women to go without, baring medical conditions like a full body cast, is a choice. Women choose to pass up on sex because of their standards. Not, because that can't find a man thats willing.

Quick side note. I once knew a women who didn't have a standard. She got laid 3 or 40 times a day. She got laid twice while walking 3 blocks to the liquor store and back. True story!

Men on the other hand are in constant search of a lay. I would say the average man will hit on 2 women a day hoping to get laid. (purely speculative estimate). A suave and charming guy will usually hit 1 out of 20 and get lucky. So when a man has gone without for a year or two its not because he hasn't found someone he's interested in. Its because he hasn't found someone who's interested in him.

So, for a women to say she hasn't gotten laid in a year or more, its not at all a the same. The women chose to go without. This is why men get all pissy over it.
(not saying there is anything wrong with having standards either, I agree with the idea)

This is mostly speculative thought. But with some truth to it.

Entirely correct!

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