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Do women make first contact?

posted 10/24/2007 9:30:31 PM |
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So. I've been on this site for a while now... I've contacted a lot of ppl. First contact I mean. Some I've heard back from most haven't even bothered to say that they aren't interested. Which leads me to wonder... are there any women out there who'll take the first step? Let a guy know that they are interested?

Which leads me to the other thing I was wondering... Is it normal for women to not respond? Even if it is to say that they aren't interested at the moment? I mean I wrote to all these women and they didn't even let me know they aren't looking or anything... For all I know the booger eating moron maybe eating all the emails that I keep sending out. Is it rude not to at least acknowledge that they got an email from me? Or does everyone get the same treatment and I'm feeling singled out for no reason at all?

Any input ppl?

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Oct 24 @ 9:34PM  
When i am contacted i always answer back weather i am interested or not. Not to answer is rude and i would never leave anyone hanging in wonder. As far as first contact I have done that also.

Oct 24 @ 10:00PM  
Yes, I make first contact. If I see a man I think is attractive and he fits what I'm looking for, I'll drop him a line.
And I ALWAYS reply back when someone writes to me, even if it's just to say thanks I'm not interested good luck with your search!

Oct 24 @ 10:00PM  
Like kisses says, if an email is sent by either sex [I mean a sane nice email of intro] it should be responded to, even if one is not interested in the other! It's just being polite that's all and only takes a few seconds!

Of course, some ladies get tons of email! I guess, let the subject line be your guide! And people shouldn't be left hanging! If it's an obnoxious email, then just delete it- those don't require a polite answer!


Oct 24 @ 10:44PM  
If I feel drawn to a man, I will initiate.......but I do email email men back if they show long as they aren't all pervy......... No offense to all you pervs out there!!

Oct 24 @ 10:47PM  
It depends on the type of email I receive if I answer or not. A phone number or a are you horny tonight email will just be ignored. If it is polite and courteous I always answer.

Oct 24 @ 11:25PM  
Yupper. The ladies do make first contact.

I have personally replied to all 2 of them.............

Of course if ya'll aint counting all those sexy younguns wanting you to check them out but can't do it here because they "get so much mail" and ya'll have to go to their websites to check them out. Didn't take me long to figure that out. After the 5th one I got suspicious. After the 10th one I stopped.

Oct 24 @ 11:39PM  
I agree, ladies do make first contact.

I will reply to an email I get when it's evident they read my profile. If they didn't take the time to read my profile, then I don't answer. I only have 2 lines so if they won't read the 2 lines, I don't waste my time.

That is unless they intrigue me.

Oct 25 @ 12:17AM  
i dont make first contact and i dont respond to explicit (sorry, "i want to ram it hard up your ass" is not a polite way to say hello even on an adult site) e-mails...i try to respond politely to polite e-mails...

Oct 25 @ 12:20AM  
I hardly ever..shyness sucks.

Oct 25 @ 12:50AM  
I don't write back to everyone..yep,I'm guilty..if you're married,attached,a million miles away,younger than my son,or don't write a halfway decent letter the first time,you won't be hearing from me.

Oct 25 @ 2:12AM  
I am ashamed to say......that i never make first contact nor do i respond to most......I know even if they are nice ones hi saw your profile want to talk.......i am afraid I am one of those rude ones that dont if they talk about the blogs i usually respond to those or if its someone i have seen around the blogs that writes to me again i will respond..............but sorry hi my name is joe smo and i would like to get to know you better...........with or without the dic picture does not motivate me to write back............. I have gotten too many nasty emails back from men when i have answered with a polite thanks for writing, I am not looking for anyone, good luck in your search........just isnt worth my time or effort to put up with rudeness.

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