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posted 10/22/2007 8:50:46 PM |
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  chocolatemilf

Where do some women get off? I mean this girl who I considered to be one of my good friends, until I moved here, has hooked up with on of my exes. I mean she knew. What am I supposed to think of this.....? She even called me while he was at her house......I do not want to talk........!! I need opinions........am I wrong for being mad?

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sugarnspice005

Oct 22 @ 8:58PM  
Well...don't know the details of why he's an ex...but, he's an ex for a reason...and if she was a good friend..then she should know the whats and whys etc....

Personally.....I wouldn't date an ex of my friends simply cause, to me, it's tacky.

I can't say you're wrong for being mad cause I think if it were me, I'd be hurt and angry too.

ynot7769

Oct 22 @ 8:59PM  
i was raised that a friends ex.....or NOT ex...........is off limits and i dont even believe in that shit bout askin their permission......hey just me but yea i'd be pissy.......matter of fact if you were with him a long time.......i'd wash her ass right off your list of ''friends'' your better off with enemys.......yano they're out to fuck ya........just my .02
DeDe54

Oct 22 @ 9:02PM  
Well since hes an ex, and shes a friend, and well, it is up to her who she dates, But look at it this way, shes getting your sloppy seconds!!!!!!
Fckmhrdtnght

Oct 22 @ 9:05PM  
I guess I'm not quite sure why you are upset... I need more details..

If he is an ex...... why are you upset that your girlfriend is going out with him?

Are you concerned that your ex is going to get hurt?

Are you concerned that your friend is going to get hurt?

Was your ex a real bastard to you?

Do you still have feelings for your ex?

I guess I am not sure..... I wasn't happy that an ex was going to date a gal friend of mine-- only because she hurts men and would have hurt my guy friend. I warned him however he didn't listen. As for her... she betrayed my confidence... and lied for the second time with me... not longer a friend. He got hurt a little and he is still a friend.



ValentineGirl214

Oct 22 @ 9:07PM  
A real friend wouldn't do that, well not a friend of mine anyway. I would never even think of going out with a man that had went out with one of my friends. I think you have every right to be pissy and she wouldn't be a friend of mine anymore.
South_Of_Main

Oct 22 @ 9:10PM  
I know that's a really touchy subject for some people Milf, and was probably in poor taste of her to call you when she was with him, BUT, you have to consider the fact that he is your ex.. meaning you are no longer with him and he was obviously available. Despite all that.. I'm sure it stings at the very least.

I will give ya one better.. after my first divorce my ex hooked up with a really good friend of mine. Yes, my maid of honor our wedding in fact. She had moved away a few years earlier and they happened to meet when she was in town visiting some of her family. No, she wasn't the one he was fucking when we were married.. anyway, a few years later they ended up getting married. In a way I was kinda glad because I knew that if he happened to see our daughters. that she would take wonderful care of them on the visits.. and she did. On the other hand, I was sad for her, because I knew all those little things about him that she hadn't yet discovered. She later found out the real deal and ended up divorcing him just like I did. She called me and admitted to me that when I had told her to really think hard about marrying him, she just thought I was jealous and she was sorry she had thought that of me.

Ashinatrix

Oct 22 @ 9:11PM  
Well since hes an ex, and shes a friend, and well, it is up to her who she dates
True.....but she was shoving it in your face by calling you while he was over.....that was shitty
Ewe_Wish

Oct 22 @ 9:24PM  
True.....but she was shoving it in your face by calling you while he was over.....that was shitty
I agree Ash, that part was shitty..........but an ex is an ex.........why shouldn't he go out with anyone he wants to......just as your friend should be able to go out with anyone she wants to...........In my opinion....if you would stop a friendship over that.........you werent to interested in being friends with her to begin with...........it sounds like you moved totally away from him anyways.............what difference could it possible make who he now goes out with..........or would you perfer all your ex's never to date again...............unless she broke you two up...........why shouldnt she go out with him.......hell i would think you would want her to be happy if he makes her happy..........
ynot7769

Oct 22 @ 9:36PM  
*sits watchin the varying opinions....takes few notes....''50 my ass'' n keeps watchin *
candlelitgirl

Oct 22 @ 9:36PM  
An exaybe an ex but that shit ain't coool...What if she wanted a person you were actively dating...What if she was after him while you two were together... no Offense sweeteie but she is a mega bitch in my book THAT SHIT IS FOUL..... .i WOULDN'T TRUST BEIN' FRIENDS WITH A FEMALE LIKE THAT OR ANYONE WHO THINKS THAT IS COOL.
31sunshine

Oct 22 @ 9:52PM  
Imagine this scenario, there are 2 couples who have been friends for about 15 years. Then both couples divorce. Now 2 of them are dating, he actually just asked her to marry him. The other 2 were really hurt and had a hard time with them being together, took it as a person insult. But what I've seen, is that these 2 people are really good to and for each other. My friend is more happy than I've ever known her to be.

Who is wrong and who is right? They've done their best to not rub the relationship in the ex's face, but at some point you have to live your own life and live it for yourself. They acknowledge that the ex's were hurt, went out of their way to mend what could be mending.

I totally understand being hurt, and maybe it's a little crass of her to call while he was there, especially if she didn't for worn you.

Just another view point.
Ewe_Wish

Oct 22 @ 9:59PM  
*sits watchin the varying opinions....takes few notes....''50 my ass'' n keeps watchin *
but....but....but....Honey once i marry you when I am 50, there's no chance your ever going to be an ex...............and none of your ex's best be coming around neither.................
ynot7769

Oct 22 @ 10:06PM  
but....but....but....Honey once i marry you when I am 50, there's no chance your ever going to be an ex...........

but but but don't i have to be single then too
Ewe_Wish

Oct 22 @ 10:12PM  
but but but don't i have to be single then too
Hey i have nothing to do for the next four years but to make sure you stay single and persue my own ummmmm interests...............
ynot7769

Oct 22 @ 10:26PM  
Hey i have nothing to do for the next four years but to make sure you stay single and persue my own ummmmm interests...............


like life ain't tuff enough but NOW you gotta broadcast the shit
Ewe_Wish

Oct 22 @ 10:35PM  
like life ain't tuff enough but NOW you gotta broadcast the shit
Did i fail to mention, Y, that in those 4 yrs I was also going to make sure you WERE NOT persuing any interests of your own.............just saying.
ynot7769

Oct 22 @ 10:45PM  
Did i fail to mention, Y, that in those 4 yrs I was also going to make sure you WERE NOT persuing any interests of your own.............just saying

*slips out when shes' not looking.....(ya'll get it? NOT looking? lol.....i just kill me sometimes). an runs like hell lookin for hot women to be intersted in *
Ewe_Wish

Oct 22 @ 11:22PM  
an runs like hell lookin for hot women to be intersted in *
OH! So I am not HOT............is what your sayin'............... Well I guess then the wedding is off........... See if I WOULD marry you now.........
DeDe54

Oct 22 @ 11:29PM  
I guess I'm not hot either I Be Dayna!!
ynot7769

Oct 22 @ 11:52PM  
OH! So I am not HOT............is what your sayin'...............


did you READ ME SAYIN THAT???

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Ear2floor

Oct 23 @ 12:27AM  
did you READ ME SAYIN THAT???

would you like me to show everyone where you have stated that dede and ewish are not hot .... i can do it .... it will take some time though
ynot7769

Oct 23 @ 12:39AM  
would you like me to show everyone where you have stated that dede and ewish are not hot .... i can do it .... it will take some time though

where DO THEY come from
Ewe_Wish

Oct 23 @ 3:27AM  
would you like me to show everyone where you have stated that dede and ewish are not hot .... i can do it .... it will take some time though
That's Ok......Ear..........no need to make DeDe and me feel any worse.......
BuddhaDon

Oct 23 @ 3:44AM  
I think you know my position.
Lisa46

Oct 23 @ 9:43AM  
I agree with Ynot OMG I can't believe we are agreeing. But friends don't fuck with ex's of their friends just an unspoken rule So drop her she ain't worth your time or effort but that is my .03 worth
jjhxjpb

Oct 23 @ 10:31AM  
would you like me to show everyone where you have stated that dede and ewish are not hot ....

Apparently he has nothing better to do than sit with his ear to the floor...

Can we say HIJACKED?

jjhxjpb

Oct 23 @ 10:31AM  
would you like me to show everyone where you have stated that dede and ewish are not hot ....

Apparently he has nothing better to do than sit with his ear to the floor...

Can we say HIJACKED?

Ewe_Wish

Oct 23 @ 1:47PM  
Can we say HIJACKED?
really hard to hijack blogs when they are not set on autoapproval...........but we did well with this one.......sorry chocolatemilf................
Chandler1969

Feb 29 @ 9:28PM  
Can we say thats bushit...

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