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dmbradley1978854

Oct 21 @ 5:08PM  
Sounds good. Hopefully we get to hear all the varrying ideas on this subject.
Lisa46

Oct 21 @ 5:14PM  
A real man??? isn't that hard to describe?? He is someone who is loving yet firm. Generous but not a push over. Attractive in "my" eyes. He is someone who works for a living and is proud of it. He is the dream I keep looking for.
dmbradley1978854

Oct 21 @ 5:16PM  
A real man??? isn't that hard to describe?? He is someone who is loving yet firm. Generous but not a push over. Attractive in "my" eyes. He is someone who works for a living and is proud of it. He is the dream I keep looking for.

I like that answer.
ValentineGirl214

Oct 21 @ 5:21PM  
Strong yet can be gentle, Protective but not jealous, Laughs and Smiles often, knows how to communicate and he is desirable to my eyes!
maggiemae1969

Oct 21 @ 5:25PM  
he is ..... well ...... scarce.
dmbradley1978854

Oct 21 @ 5:35PM  
Strong yet can be gentle, Protective but not jealous, Laughs and Smiles often

Another answer that I like.
casuallylooking

Oct 21 @ 5:49PM  


He is strong, yet can be gentle and tender. He loves passionately yet is not possesive or controlling. He stands up for what he believes in but as a rule doesn't go looking for a fight. He knows how to be serious as well as playful depending on which fits. Is confident but not conceited He has respect and is respected by those who know him. He lives life instead of bitching about it.
Looking4ever

Oct 21 @ 5:50PM  
A REAL man is a gentleman. A REAL man does not have to force a woman to do anything. A REAL man craves a woman with her own thoughts and opinions, even if they are contrary to his. A REAL man can be gentle and not be afraid of appearing less of a man. A REAL man is confident in his manhood and does not feel the need to shove it in people's faces. A gentleman is not afraid that showing emotion makes him less of a man.
funnygirl730

Oct 21 @ 6:01PM  
in a nutshell a real man know when to lead when to walk beside and when to follow
Ashinatrix

Oct 21 @ 6:06PM  
hard working, protective, caring
not afraid to show emotion, ask for help, or say 'I love you'
faithful, trustworthy, and proud to be so
for me....old-fashioned in the sense of being the "man" of the household
and refuses to wear pink
BuddhaDon

Oct 21 @ 6:20PM  
Thank You for posting this blog.

Thank You, Looking4ever for reminding me to shut up every now and then...

31sunshine

Oct 21 @ 7:55PM  
A real man is secure enough to be himself, without all the bullshit, secure enough to talk about anything and everything and accept his lady for her own opinions and for who she really is. A real man is strong enough to know fighting to make a relationship stronger is easier than finding a different pasture to graze in. A real man admits when he's wrong and says he sorry (and is genuine about it) knowing it makes him more of a man in our eyes not less. Honest, because he'll want a strong women and us strong women can deal with anything as long as we know about it and have the ability to make our own choices. If he lies he takes away our choice. A real man won't manipulate his woman.

A real man is all the other things the ladies have already mentioned.
buttercup480

Oct 21 @ 7:55PM  
All of these are great answers, What all of us REAL WOMEN are looking for. BUT, they are few and far between, or so it seems.
LJRite69

Oct 21 @ 7:56PM  
I agree with most responses and Maggiemae, nice job, however I think a lot of women need to take a really good look at themselves and ask "Am I am real woman? Can I handle the every day ups and downs on my own, can I cry and still not be weak, can I feel for those in need and not be selfish? these are just some of the things I would ask myself before I would say what a real man is and if I could answer those questions with true honesty in my heart, then YES, I could say with conviction what I consider a real man, a man of substance, one that would stand beside me not behind me or in front of, one that would love me NO matter what..skinny, fat, ugly, pretty, or any OTHER way "I" may be feeling that day cause I am sure they go through their own insecurities and that is when WE need to be there for them. And most importantly DONT tell me what I want to hear, tell me what YOU think and I will always do the same................I always say HONESTY is always KEY!!...Oh and good looking, tall, nice smile and eyes would be nice.................Oh and Penis, know how to use it along with that tongue you own.............

chocolatemilf

Oct 21 @ 9:07PM  
Kindness, Sincerity, Honesty, Hard Worker..............knowing enough to make me feel smarter without being condesending. Humble enough to allow himself to be taught something by me, without offense. He must be a good communicator and and have a sense of humor. (A biiiiiig ole gerthy cock can't hurt his prospects either) lol!! Joking.............I can work with my man's boat as long as he knows how to steer...............
ynot7769

Oct 21 @ 9:45PM  
All of these are great answers, What all of us REAL WOMEN are looking for. BUT, they are few and far between, or so it seems.

ohh there's a few of us left.....
lunanegra

Oct 21 @ 9:49PM  
A REAL man is a gentleman. A REAL man does not have to force a woman to do anything. A REAL man craves a woman with her own thoughts and opinions, even if they are contrary to his. A REAL man can be gentle and not be afraid of appearing less of a man. A REAL man is confident in his manhood and does not feel the need to shove it in people's faces. A gentleman is not afraid that showing emotion makes him less of a man.


Thank you,LFE that was basically what I was thinking,and to add some of my own: A provider,unselfish,would lay down his life for his spouse/partner/best girl,friend,family or even his enemy;keeps his promises,is a teacher and allows himself to be taught and admits when he is wrong.

These aren't related to ethics/morals but still good:appreciates the beauty in nature,appreciates arts and culture,takes care of himself,is youthful,intelligent and fun to be with...oh,and a tongue and cock that won't quit.I had to bring it up.

mdx71

Oct 21 @ 10:21PM  
Women want to marry a real man, but that's not always they guy they want to fuck.
Ewe_Wish

Oct 21 @ 10:28PM  
ohh there's a few of us left.....

Thank God......................
31sunshine

Oct 21 @ 10:28PM  
oh,and a tongue and cock that won't quit.I had to bring it up.

I love this!!!! Well, it's got to be said that a real man knows how to pleas a woman, will take time to make sure both parties are satisfied, and knows how to use his equipment. I think being sexually compatable is really important in a relationship. I want a man who knows how to make love and how to fuck...there's a definate difference
casuallylooking

Oct 21 @ 10:30PM  
Women want to marry a real man, but that's not always they guy they want to fuck
That depends on what woman you are talking about. This woman disagrees with you.
casuallylooking

Oct 21 @ 10:36PM  
there's a definate difference
Yes, there is. A real man will figure this out not just because it involves sex, but because it makes his woman happy. And he enjoys that.

ohh there's a few of us left.....
Yeap, there are.....
luscious_bbwpa

Oct 21 @ 11:09PM  
I posted this blog awhile back about a poem I came across, which to me, if you substitute the word good for real....to me it explains what a real man is


He’s a good man. So smart and serene. Always keeps his word
And always says what he means. He’s never selfish or boastful,
Would give the shirt off his back.
Giving isn’t something this man lacks.
He always has a smile and a kind gesture to let you know
you‘re important to him,
You’ll be delighted at the warmth and honesty you will feel

Family comes first. He will protect them no matter the cost.
Integrity follows where ever he goes. He is a proud man,
And it shows.

His wife is so happy and eager to please. She appreciates him,
And all his kind deeds.
She admires all of his words, so loving and uplifting.
It makes her smile and more than glad to go her extra mile.

She never has to fear he would ever stray, He’s a good man and not
Hurt full that way. He has a good wife and he knows why.
Cause he never passes the opportunity to have her by his side.
He knows he doesn’t have to worry. He does his up most best.
He faces his Challenges and pass’ the test.

His friends all gather round and look forward to their visits.
He just has a way that is hard to resist.

He’s a good man, so smart and serene.
I enjoy my time with him
If only in my dreams

"The Original Mister"
buttercup480

Oct 22 @ 2:55AM  
"Y" Sweetie, I know your still single, but you may be just alittle too used up..
Ewe_Wish

Oct 22 @ 4:53AM  
Looking4ever

Oct 22 @ 5:41AM  
Oh, gaw, Ewe_Wish! That is adorable!
knightshadow2007

Oct 27 @ 1:29PM  
GEEZ I wish people would quit talking about me..... I like to keep my secrets you know

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