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How affected are you by a negative attitude?

posted 10/15/2007 8:43:37 AM |
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  maggiemae1969

Was talking with someone over the weekend and discovered the reason why I cant communicate very well with them ...... yep its the negative crap... In fact I have more than one person in my life that impacts me this way .... I say this with dread in my voice, how can anyone stand it?

I refuse to believe that road rage is directed at me , I do not think that every place I go someone is out to get me. I read these blogs on here and can honestly say I love OBLIVION . I dont think that every fat blog, idiot blog,or any blasting blog belongs to me , that shoe really does not fit me, and well if you let the shoe fit you then I guess you deserve how you feel .

Tell me how you react to the above situations, do you arrive at work ,just sure that every person behind the wheel was out to cut you off or do you mental harm by passing you ? Do you feel like negative follows you throughout your day ?

Just curious ya know .

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loveableone

Oct 15 @ 9:02AM  
No one is perfect, but I do my best EVERYDAY to keep positive. Although there are times when I feel negativity creeping in, I will work hard to turn it to a positive! Its easier for me in life to see the good things!! Life is already hard enough to dwell on negatives!! Have a wonderful day!
Nutrisse

Oct 15 @ 9:06AM  
I don't find everyone is out to get me, but if I come across negative people, I find myself avoiding them, or as they talk, going off to la la land until they are finished and just hope they don't know I wasn't paying attention to them. However, my brother was sick, and complained day in and day out, to the point I was going crazy listening to it. I honestly didn't know just how sick he was, because he died, and I would give anything to listen to him complain again.
REAL_UNIQUE

Oct 15 @ 9:12AM  
I am trying to be more positive even with being a glass half empty person.
lifeizabitch

Oct 15 @ 9:17AM  
I will not associate with chronically negative people; life is too short,my time too precious.
31sunshine

Oct 15 @ 9:27AM  
Constantly negative people bring me down, so I stay away from them. It gets really old after a while.

But then I always keep something my uncle told me when I was young in the front of my thoughts. No one can make you do or feel anything you choose to feel a certain way.

Well, ok that is right. So most often, I choose to stay away from the negativity.

smurrell03

Oct 15 @ 9:36AM  
Negative people can bring you down, both professionally, and personally.

A negative person can certainly ruin a good day.

That being said, sometimes being around a negative person, in small doses, can be a good thing.

After listening to them whine, moan, and complain about everything unde the sun, you start to feel better about yourself!
Looking4ever

Oct 15 @ 9:39AM  
I can be affected by those close to me but, here? Not really. And I also try to just avoid eading and keeping up on the negative stuff.
slohand_47

Oct 15 @ 9:43AM  
It's not paranoia if they REALLY are out to get you ! ! !

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You know I"m kidding don't you? That's one of my fav T-shirt sayings.
PrincessKissy

Oct 15 @ 9:45AM  
When I find myself acting negatively towards everything, I try hard to change that. Usually forcing myself to act in a positive manner will get me out of my "blues" and help me to see the good stuff.

I have a friend who absolutely never has anything positive to say, and it drives me crazy. There are times I get off the phone with her and just want to slit my wrists. Or hers
Looking4ever

Oct 15 @ 9:49AM  
There are times I get off the phone with her and just want to slit my wrists. Or hers

Aw, Kissy. When I do that you just need to smack me upside my fat head! And hard. Slap my bad attitude into last week.
kris83

Oct 15 @ 10:50AM  
I beleave negativity only brings failure I'm very carefull who I keep around me these days.
sweetnasty1

Oct 15 @ 11:11AM  
I have a friend that I just met a year ago and have noticed lately how negative she is. She is starting to drive me crazy. I try to make her look at the positive side of things when she is complaining about something. Life is too short.....don't waste it all being negative all the time. You're allowed to have a bad day but every day shouldn't be that way.
mzhunyhole

Oct 15 @ 12:07PM  
Over five years now since I got all the negativity out of my life.I live in a peaceful and content world now,happy at last. I steer clear of anything that takes that feeling away or removes this smile from my face.I plan on spending the rest of my life in a positive upbeat manner from here on out.It's the only way to be.
shellsmack

Oct 15 @ 6:31PM  
Negative attitude doesn't affect me...I just say FUCK 'EM

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How affected are you by a negative attitude?