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posted 10/10/2006 3:32:39 AM |
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what do u do when your old girlfriend is with the wrong girl n u know ur old girlfriend can do much better? she's the kind of person who gets attached to people n she lets em use her n control her. i know it sounds like her problem but i do still care n hate to see her get hurt n get used. what can i do. i know i just stay away n keep my distance, but i see em together n she seems happy but i know the girl shes with n shes a user. she wont even let me close enuf to be friends with my ex. when i was with my girl, i was good to her, i never told her who her friends was bout repect for eachother. i jus wasnt ready to "be" with her, n she left me. i think she did it on purpose cuz i hurt her by holding back my true feelings, but dunno for sure.....all i know is that shes so much better than what she put herself into n she can do so much better. i tried to ask her for another chance, but that was totally out of the question n this other girl already had her claws into my girl even before we split, which i dont blame her, but i know i can be better to her than that drunking cunt is. i cant do anything bout it n im totally powerless, but i cant stand it....what can i do?

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Oct 10 @ 11:04AM  
Answer is: Nothing.

Unfortunately, it's not something that we like to see happen to people that we care about, but it does happen. My ex-fiancee made a choice to leave me many years ago. What followed was a trip that I considered to be downhill for her. I couldn't find myself agreeing with her choices, because I saw them as being self-destructive.

And maybe they were, but they were her choices.

If someone you love, an ex or even a friend, decides to go on a path that you can't or won't; there is very little you can do about the circumstance they hav made for themselves. You can just let them know that you still care about them so that if they ever decide to change direction again you'll be ready to be part of their lives.

Oct 10 @ 5:02PM  
Dominus is totally right, it's hard to watch that happen to someone you love and still care about, but there is really nothing you can do about that. My ex whose name is Ann (Natasha's mother) went our separate ways years ago and I realized how much I took Ann for granted and also realized that I had more feelings for her than I htought I did at one time. After all those years of not seeing her and then a year ago I heard that I may have a daughter with Ann after Ann's two sisters contacted me, and then Natasha (my possible daughter) contacting me, I had learned that Ann is a mess because a man she's been with since 1991 who is into drugs. I want to do something to pull Ann out of that, but Ann is a big girl and she has to live her own life how she wants. I'm hoping one day she wakes up and wants better for herself. The only problem is when Natasha is around her mom then Natasha seems on self destruction too, and there's not a lot I can do about it. I know it's hard, but I hope things work out for you and your ex.

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