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posted 10/10/2007 5:49:29 PM |
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  Sunshinegal35

To move the hell on!
I've been so melancholy over the last couple of weeks. I've been missing my ex-boyfriend so much that it hurts. The last thing he said to me really pissed me off, and I returned the favor by calling him an asshole (because he IS one) and telling him he'd never hear from me again.
So this was almost three weeks ago. Right at the end I had asked him to return the keys to my apartment. He hadn't done so. So today I sent him a reminder email. Nothing heavy, just a "Hey, how about returning my keys?" kind of email.
About 20 minutes after sending him the email, I get one back saying, "Go out and look on the driver's side door handle." I got excited for a moment, thinking he might be outside and wondering if might be a chance to talk face to face and patch things up.
Not a chance. The fucker just deposited the keys and ran. I sent him another email thanking him for dropping off the keys. And the ANOTHER email telling him I wish he'd stayed because I would have liked to talk to him.
At first I was devastated that he didn't want to see me. But the longer I've thought about it, the more I realize he is a total jerk and he doesn't deserve one more ounce of my precious time!
So, goodbye asshole! I'm back into life now. I even have a date on Saturday (although I'm not holding my breath )
It just amazes me every time I go thru something like this that I allow the guy THAT much power over me. Why am I not my own person when I need to be? Why do I calculate my self-worth based on some jagoff?
Not anymore. I'm done giving someone else the power that belongs to me. I am going to be stronger from now on.
(If I slip, will you all help me? )

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ynot7769

Oct 10 @ 6:07PM  
But the longer I've thought about it, the more I realize he is a total jerk and he doesn't deserve one more ounce of my precious time!
So, goodbye asshole! I'm back into life now.

amazing how this works....i think the same for men as well as women


*takes note if she slips slap her back on track *
ValentineGirl214

Oct 10 @ 6:20PM  
Yep, I think we have all been there and done that a few times in our lives. I know I have and I used to get so mad at myself for doing it too!! Now, I try not to let anyone have that much control over me. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't
alybai42

Oct 10 @ 7:18PM  
I know that feeling..When I was dating a jerk(can't remember which one) the only way I could forget about him was to stay away from him.
DeDe54

Oct 10 @ 7:24PM  
Was married to a fuckwit asshole for 27 years, swore I would never do it again and i won't!!!!


Good luck on ur date Sunshine!!!! Have fun, and just to let you know, there are a lot of nice guys out there that would love to have you!!!
DeDe54

Oct 10 @ 7:25PM  
Dammit forgot the green thingy ma bob....slips in lays it on the table looks around, and splits!
partytimemary

Oct 10 @ 7:37PM  
Support U BETCHA ~ we all need help once in a while..... I completely understand where u are coming from... sometimes we all have to dig deep to find our self worth and dignity and move ahead ~ IF you give him that power - he wins.....
keep your own power girl.. go on your date and have fun!

Karma says......he'll get his, three fold
maggiemae1969

Oct 10 @ 8:00PM  
is this enuff for now??
PrincessKissy

Oct 10 @ 8:15PM  
hugs and kisses on the cheek... he's sooo not worth your feelings....

now, on the count of 3... everyone....
1

2

3

FUCTARDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!

Wordsofwit

Oct 10 @ 9:53PM  
After a while, sadly, we all become conditioned to seeing it all come and go and adopt an "oh well"attitude. After a certain number of crash and burns there is little alternative except adjusting one's love life strategy moving forward.
Wordsofwit

Oct 10 @ 9:54PM  
(ducking as Wow asks) who is responsible for choosing him to enter your life?
onions2006

Oct 10 @ 9:59PM  
What we miss is the feeling,not the person.Like a drug,we seek out where it came from.
MamMan

Oct 11 @ 12:04AM  
Hang in there...because life can be wonderful...IF YOU MAKE IT SO

Hang on...........because life can throw you many challenges...HAVE THE STRENGTH TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Hold out...........because in this life you should not settle...KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE TO ENJOY LIFE

Love yourself, first.
Trust in yourself, first.
Be willing to be a helper, and to be helped.
Friends will care, and friends will support.

Wish nothing but the best for you, Sunshine. Whatever choices that are made down life's many paths you must go.

Ooooppss... before I go, let me give you sumpin'....

31sunshine

Oct 11 @ 12:15AM  
I think for me it just takes that one little thing to help me round the corner and find my ground again. I'm glad you found yours. Keep your chin up and look ahead!!!
mzhunyhole

Oct 12 @ 12:23PM  
Been there ..done that ..hang in there friend.

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