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Now don't get me wrong here I do not frequent bars very often, but there is the occassional outing I try to attend. Recently I went to a bar with some friends for a "Night out on the town" so to speak.

During the course of the evening I met a young lady with whom I shared some interest with. She asked what I did for a living to which I replied I worked for the government. She tried to delve deeper, and I of course danced around the subject very gracefully.

Later on we went to my house for some drinks, and she continued to try and pry out of me what I did specifically. One thing led to another and after great sex we both went to sleep.

The next morning I awoke to her sitting in my study on my computer ( which BTW has some very sensitive material on it.) I played coy and offered her breakfast and coffee. After that I sent her on her way

She said she found me mysterious and dark and would like to see me on a regular basis. I told her that since I traveled we would have to wait and see.

Although I find her very attractive I don't trust her, and my work does come first.
I cannot have her asking questions everytime I turn around especially ones I cannot and willnot anwser.

What should I do here?

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Oct 9 @ 5:39PM  
Password protect your computer and give her at least a simple understanding of what you do... unless you are a secret double undercover agent... there has to be SOMETHING you can tell her about what you do.

Oct 9 @ 5:44PM  
Hide the computer!!!

Oct 9 @ 5:52PM  
The next morning I awoke to her sitting in my study on my computer

well some will argue this and its fine...but for me SOMETHINGS *like mail?ect* are private and what she did was not only rude makes me wonder her motives???
me? i'd pass i don't care how much fun you had...something smells funny

Oct 9 @ 5:54PM  
No princess I am not a secret double , but what I do is very top secret. There is not only my computer that she could invade, and no I could never tell her anything about my work other than I work for The Dept. of Justice

Oct 9 @ 6:00PM  
I have to say I agree with Ynot. She must have alot of nerve going on your computer without your permission. I couldn't imagine doing something like that! I would give her the hev-ho, good looking or not, great sex or not, how can you trust that that is all she would do. God only knows where else she snooped before you woke up.

Oct 9 @ 6:21PM  
There is not only my computer that she could invade

yeah how bout just your PRIVACY??

*wonders what she was thinking.*

Oct 9 @ 6:25PM  
BIOS password works best, I use one on mine, it works very well u turn on ur puter, the first thing that pops up is the place for a password!!!

And NO i'm not on ur lap!!!!

But seriously, it works well, let me know I will help you get it set up!

Oct 9 @ 6:42PM  
Very good DeDe lmao

Oct 10 @ 8:11AM  
Some people simply can't accept the fact that others have jobs which require extreme confidentiality. She went way to far, in my opinion. I could not possibly imagine even thinking about doing something like that to someone.

If I were in your shoes, while I might be hesitant to have her around, I might spend some time with her and get to know her (well away from your home).. if only to determine whether she saw anything she shouldn't have.

Good luck.

Oct 10 @ 10:39AM  
forget her! just like it was said above me NO one has any right to your puter without first asking permission! Heck that is just like a diary! oops wonder if I will have to c lean mine up some day??

Oct 21 @ 11:28AM  
Things happen when you pick up chicks in bars that you don't know and won't give answers to. Learn from it..... but something that your being a man tells me you won't. that you are still, at age 46, picking chicks up in bars to bring home to get laid, says a LOT. Better check on that BIOS password from DeDe.

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