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posted 10/3/2007 7:08:02 AM |
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  nativeamr35

Hey! Wanna Fuck?

Been hearing alot about this phrase lately. Seems that it has gained some value in these recent months, wheither it be good value or bad. My personal association with this phrase has been lack luster at best. I have, over the years uttered this phrase to more than one women. I believe that most would assume that I was either slapped or laughed at immediately afterward.

Lets examine the statement/question for a moment. "Wanna Fuck?", is a neutral phrase. It carries an equal amount of compliment and degradation. It states two things. First is says, "I think your attractive and you make my dick hard.". Secondly it says, "I think your trashy enough to want to fuck me now.". It becomes neutral because the derogitory part cancels out the compliment. It has just as much sex appeal as, "Hey".

Now, let me qualify my thoughts here just a little. I am not against the phrase. I don't aim to defend the virtue of womenhood with this blog. I am not speakin out against the phrase. Why? I have uttered the phrase and I got laid because of saying it. Before you roll your eyes in disbelief, let me add that I knew the answer before I asked the question. When I use the phrase, "Wanna fuck" its used as a punctuation mark. Ending a prior dialog.

Here is another way of looking at the phrase. Lets say your at a fast food restaurant. You goto the counter and ask for some food. Then you move down and wait for that food. Skipping the part where you pay for the food. How likely are you to get it for free without some dialog? This is what most people are trying to do with the phrase. Your hoping to skip all the personal stuff and get right to the sex.

The thruth. Your going to pay for it one way or another. Your either going to pay with money or your going to pay with attention.

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straightup_9

Oct 3 @ 9:38AM  
I think this defines the difference between real life and on-line.....The "wanna fuck" line will work in real life more times that not (simply because she has already sized you up and made her decision), But on-line, it becomes a useless piece of trash to be deleted...
NachoBaby

Oct 3 @ 11:10AM  
Online too, it depends on who utters the phrase and two whom it is uttered. There are several here who, if they uttered, "Wanna Fuck" to me.. would get a very very positive response.

Others would more likely get a "Yes, but not with you."
DeDe54

Oct 3 @ 2:11PM  
I really do get alot of *wanna fuck* emails. The blog i did the other day was for fun, and a lot of fun there was, however, the way I respond to them is: With who? You? NO thanks! Or I totally ignore it.

I do get a lot of very negative emails because of that statement!
nativeamr35

Oct 3 @ 5:11PM  
Now the fine assed ladies of AMD have a link to point to when they get the unwanted "wanna fucks".

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