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posted 10/1/2007 12:03:55 PM |
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  Lisa46

Have you ever noticed that you see someone you'd like to know, you start a conversation or post on his/her blog.. They send you notes back then just go away??? Why??? Is it because you think the other person is to fat or to skinny?? You think they aren't attractive or to good for you?? We are all normal men and women looking to find someone. Some are just looking for a FWB others just a friend to talk to or go out sometimes.. Then there are those who are looking for LTR. Why is this so difficult?? I will not rush into a meeting with a stranger yet I get rude mail (great titties) well excuse me YOU CAN"T SEE THEM!!! So how do you know???? Or someone starts a conversation and it gets sexual would you really talk to a stranger that way??? I mean OMG what would your reaction be at the grocery store if a stranger walks up and says great ass!? What happened to common courtesy?? What happened to the manners we all were taught growing up? So does this mean when/if we meet I'm suppose to walk up grab your balls and say hey baby not doing to well here?? What happens??? I miss the good old days of a man being adult enough to say hello without the sexual overtures that has become common place online. And I DON'T mean just here! I am on the other site also and see it there to...What happens????

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maxximuss1967

Oct 1 @ 12:08PM  
It is lack of Honesty, they are not real, or not what they write! I am who I am, love me or hate me, this is a adult site, if you cant be honest here...Then where?
Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 12:10PM  
I miss the good old days of a man being adult enough to say hello without the sexual overtures that has become common place online.
Well i understand what your saying, Lisa, but its not just the men here either. There are a lot of women who are just as rude. You just are not seeing them. I have seen letters to some of the guys on here that would absolutely blow your mind. Respect is a forgotten thing in this little old world we live in.
Lisa46

Oct 1 @ 12:15PM  
Respect is a forgotten thing in this little old world we live in.


You are so right! I guess I forgot how rude us girls can be also! But I am happy to say I try to be polite at all times (okay unless they piss me off and won't leave me alone)
BananaBoy4u

Oct 1 @ 12:15PM  
I mean OMG what would your reaction be at the grocery store if a stranger walks up and says great ass!?
Although it hasn't happened, I'd be tempted to follow that person any where they wanted to lead me.........female of course.
Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 12:19PM  
You are so right! I guess I forgot how rude us girls can be also! But I am happy to say I try to be polite at all times (okay unless they piss me off and won't leave me alone)
Well than i must have pissed you off with my last wanna fuck i sent you.................just sayin'


Ok i will give you a kudo just cause i lubs g/f. Oh and because its a good blog too.
Lisa46

Oct 1 @ 12:20PM  
Well than i must have pissed you off with my last wanna fuck i sent you.................

See you didn't mail it to me! I bet you sent it to stormy instead! I lubs you toooooo
hornytoad55

Oct 1 @ 12:27PM  
Lisa you are so right. We seem to be a world without respect for others. Some people think they can put others down to build themselves up. They have no respect for themselves so how can we expect them to respect others.
maggiemae1969

Oct 1 @ 12:29PM  
sometimes I think folks just want to get a reaction , any kind of reaction , so they jump right in, never t hinking that wow this was my first impression, the one he/she is going to remember , did I make a blunder? Can I fix the error? I have met some really nice gentlemen here, they out number the odd ones by far....
Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 12:33PM  
sometimes I think folks just want to get a reaction , any kind of reaction ,
Bingo!! Give Mags the prize for the day............thats what alot of the negative blogs are about. REACTION-- too bad its never a good one!!
Lisa46

Oct 1 @ 12:36PM  
sometimes I think folks just want to get a reaction



yep and my reaction is see-ya stupid
BuddhaDon

Oct 1 @ 12:44PM  
Hello, ma'am. If you think that you really want to get to know someone, then I don't think that it would hurt to send them another e-mail, respectfully of course. To answer your question about why, there are probably as many explanations as there are examples of people just going away.
You started this, so I think you have nice breasts. Excuse me ma'am, but I'm looking at them... I talk to strangers about sex... I know for a fact that some women do walk up and grab strangers' asses in public places (and I'm not refereing to bars, clubs, etc...)...
I'm only using this website for one thing, so I think it's safe to talk about sex here. 'though It's just as nice to talk about other things here as well.
longhorn386

Oct 1 @ 12:45PM  
Maybe reading Internet Dating 101 for Women by sks72
posted 9/29/2007 8:05:09 PM would be helpfull, lots of good info there from someone who knows how to things get done.

http://www.adultmatchdoctor.com/blog_18133/Internet_Dating_101_for_Women.html
skinonskin

Oct 1 @ 12:50PM  
I'm glad to see women realizing and being more understanding that AMD is a two way street! That men and women both experience the same frustrations on this site! Unfortunately- there apparently are a lot of male "loose canons" out there than women!


longhorn386

Oct 1 @ 1:12PM  
"loose cannons"....there are many times more frustrated men here than women. And we don't even know if the women really are women, and not a scammer!
ynot7769

Oct 1 @ 3:52PM  
guess too many read adult site to mean MEAT MARKETS N HO'S R US ???


just gota walk away from it babe........
MamMan

Oct 1 @ 4:04PM  
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

This coming from man getting paid for sex by a phone lady ( I read your other blog, YNot)....

No, really Lisa, I guess sometimes people that are new here are not certain what the norm is @ AMD. For those of you here that have formed bonds and comfort levels, you forget that to the newbie just reading the blogs....they may think it is expected to talk sex.

My way is to act the way I would in public, I am respectful to those that can receive respect. And, to all else...you have to walk away. Lief can be too full of dram to get involved in that mess here @ AMD. Just my opinion. Not looking to convert anyone else.

BTW, thanks for the blog. The expression of views/opinions is one of the strong points I find on this site.
MamMan

Oct 1 @ 4:06PM  
LIFE, even.

BTW, a kudo for you..
bone66

Oct 1 @ 4:11PM  
alot of people grow up with no manors so they cant function properly in normal society. this is the reality of life now you just have to be strong and walk right threw the bad.
Wordsofwit

Oct 1 @ 6:38PM  
I think Mags said the magic word, "reaction". It goes beyond people wanting to get a reaction intentionally as it extends to many people instantly reacting with fingers blazing on the keyboard like a machine gun. We have all seen blog comment runs where this happens resulting in what I call a firefight. Happened in the last 24 hours on a post about ugly versus good looking women being lovers.

In my opinion, "who gives a damn" is a better attitude than "fuck you". But then again, I will say "who gives a damn" essentially and get hit with at least one "fuck you, asshole". But that's cool as I usually really don't give a damn.

Let me reread all of this to see if that's right and makes sense to me. Yeah, that's right. If people don't like it, who gives a damn?
BuddhaDon

Oct 2 @ 9:43AM  
Amen, bone66.
lifeizabitch

Oct 2 @ 10:48AM  
One of the things that Jess says attracted her to me was the fact that I did not do the things that you speak of in your blog,plus the fact that she thinks I'm sexy and have a great mind,LOL.
Lisa46

Oct 2 @ 12:31PM  
But then again, I will say "who gives a damn" essentially and get hit with at least one "fuck you, asshole".

who gives a damn?? The people who has their feelings hurt or made to feel like they are stupid?? Come on WoW think about it!

was the fact that I did not do the things that you speak of in your blog,

Good for you!!!


up with no manors so they cant function properly in normal society

Manners can be taught Bone!!!
onions2006

Oct 2 @ 1:42PM  
we can stay in touch sweetie.....feel better?.....I lub ya!

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