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posted 10/1/2007 11:36:16 AM |
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  maggiemae1969

When you look in the mirror what do you see? I was reading the ugly chick blog and thought my god what a complete waste of air ......

When I look at someone I see the person they want me to see, if you take pride in yourself , how can anyone call you ugly? We all have different views on what we wear, hair styles, pierceings, body size, but that does not mean that one group of folks are above/below another. I believe in God and I know that he did /does not make mistakes. I believe we are exactly who we should be and where we should be in life. For those who believe in some other power , its still the same, you are where you should be and who you should be.

Then one thing he did give us control over is knowledge, absolutely no one has to remain an idiot.

Hope yall have a brilliant day .....

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Pudge2you

Oct 1 @ 11:48AM  
Ahhhh but Maggie some folks insist on remaining idiots... That why god gave us "accidents".
lori478

Oct 1 @ 11:49AM  
Bravo you are not only smart but secure I applaud your response and am appalled that so many would choose to take this so lightly posting pics of supposed fatter and uglier women is sad ................their beauty or lack of is judged by whom you ..........................that is just as bad as someone judging you

once again I applaud you for your kinhhearted response to a (forgive the pun) ugly subject
eroticgoth1

Oct 1 @ 11:52AM  
I read that blog too. I found that what Pudge said is true. Some people are going to remain idiots. Worse though ugly souled idiots..Plus society has put out a standard that is so idiotic that its almost sad and some out there buy it hook line and sinker. I think that inner beauty can out shine outer beauty any day of the week.
DeDe54

Oct 1 @ 11:54AM  
When I meet people, I look at there eyes, smile, body language. I'm not one for negative thoughts about people. I don't look at peoples cloths, makeup, shoes, looks, its their heart and soul that important to me. I always thought what was on the inside that was important.

Momma always told me, *pretty is, as pretty does*!


Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 11:58AM  
Aw Sweet Mags!! I too see your point, but if everyone would have gotten in an uproar over that blog, it would have turned out to be just another fight in the blogs....and arent we truly sick of that?

I would say that any of the women who commented in that blog are confident enough in thier looks and how others percieve them not to take it to seriously, and the fact is that no matter whether pics were posted of women who supposedly were uglier and fatter, is just a case of most of us believe that beauty is only skin deep but UGLY goes clear to the core...........wouldnt you agree?

But it is so wonderful to have you back blogging with us, I hope your feeling better.

Your comment:
Then one thing he did give us control over is knowledge, absolutely no one has to remain an idiot.


Tickled me, to say the least, no truer words have been spoken, the said part is with SOME people, knowledge doesn't stop them from being idiots.

Again, welcome back Sweetie!!
maggiemae1969

Oct 1 @ 12:14PM  
Yes Dayna yall did well with your commentary,not a hair out of place, so to speak.
However empowering someone like that only makes it worse,now he will post the next idiotic thought that passes through his mind.... Silence is the best comment you can give him .
hornytoad55

Oct 1 @ 12:15PM  
Maggie sweety we are so glad you are back. With Bentan gone we need you as the voice of reality. I was very upset at the blog and after him and I discussed it in email half the night. I could see as Dayna said he was wanting a fight in the blogs. I would like to apologize to anyone that had their feelings hurt by this idiot. All men aren't like him, THANK GOD. I have no idea why he wanted to destroy our community but I am glad he wasn't successful.
straightup_9

Oct 1 @ 12:21PM  
Who and What we are is always more important than how we are perceived by others.
Give me a woman with self-worth and intelligence, and I'll show you a very beautiful individual.
Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 12:26PM  
Who and What we are is always more important than how we are perceived by others.
Give me a woman with self-worth and intelligence, and I'll show you a very beautiful individual.
Give me anyone who has that self worth and intelligence and I will show you a beautiful person.

Wonderful comment--Straight!!
ladybootscooter

Oct 1 @ 12:33PM  
Well Maxximuss is a tad different and has a truly warped sense of humor. He had told me he was gonna write one to shake up the site last night and apparently it did. A lot of women got pissed simply becuase he said uglier women are better lovers....????? What part of this makes sense?? Does one take offense that he has called them ugly or that he has said they were a lousy lover?? It was all a tongue in cheek blog. Many members write these daily and they are not attacked for it or have blogs written about them. Perhaps he should have written it from the point of view of a garden snake or snail? Would that have made it more acceptable? C'mon people, like Dayna said, everyone is always bitching that the blogs aren't fun anymore and yet when someone does one in a joking matter all hell breaks loose. If everyone had thrown fits last night it would have turned into yet another ugly blog war........oh wait, that's right, it has.

luscious_bbwpa

Oct 1 @ 12:40PM  
what a wonderful blog, thank you for posting this....

I must say I read max's blog too and wasn't impressed at all. And I will confess that I know I'm not drop dead gorgeous by any means, I'm not a model type, I'm not a beauty queen, but I am a very beautiful woman, and for what I lack on the outside I make up for on the inside, with my sense of humor, personality, intelligence, charm, and confidence in who I am, and who I have become, and what I have done with my life. Thank you for making all us Beautiful people feel beautiful today!
Pudge2you

Oct 1 @ 12:41PM  
What part of writing a blog purely to shake up the site is intelligent or funny?

I could do that daily. Hourly If I put my mind to it. Using buzzwordy language that folks are going to react to is now all of the sudden interesting? Oh wait of course it is, just read a Straddle blog....

I didn't comment on that one.... It's just to easy to get that kind of reaction out of people. I don't respect it.
REAL_UNIQUE

Oct 1 @ 12:51PM  
Great blog and Kudos. You are such a positive person that really understands people come with many different looks, beliefs, shapes, and sizes. I am not sure about being exactly where I
should be in life.
lori478

Oct 1 @ 1:05PM  
I think pudge is correct if it just a joke you know what they say about jokes and the truth ..........the truth of this matter is it is not funny .......................If it just for a reaction then all the worse ....................and i have met a few beautifull people here a very rare few and there beauty is to the core ........Do the photos illustrate the core of that human being?
ladybootscooter

Oct 1 @ 1:05PM  
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In my personel sex life I have found that the less attractive a sex partner is the more open minded she is to try new things or explore
See this is where I'm having my problem with everyone's attitude toward his blog. Read that line again carefully. In my personel sex life. His. Not yours. This site has always been about freedom to post. Our own opinions or our own life stories. We don't all have to agree on those all the time. Would be boring as hell if we did. But I will fight for everyone's right to post their own opinions. That is all I'm gonna say on this subject.
Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 1:11PM  
..........the truth of this matter is it is not funny ...................
Truth is only how one person percieves it...........thats why at car accidents 5 different people can "see" it but have different stories....yet none are lying....its how you percieve it is what the truth is..............some jokes are funny to some people and yet not funny to others..........is it because they see self truth in it, is it because they don't have a sense of humor............or is it cause we all have individualism that allows us to percieve what we feel. The only truth is there is no such thing as truth............it's all in how its percieved.
maggiemae1969

Oct 1 @ 1:13PM  
well ....... to lady boot.... no one wants it to be a boring place, but no one wants to be deliberatly hurt either, and this subject is nothing but a hot prod to envoke reaction, you are true however with the point that we can all state our own opinion, but you dont have to carry a big stick to be heard....
Sunshinegal35

Oct 1 @ 1:20PM  
Max posts purely to get a rise out of people. That's all. And I think it's working....
Pudge2you

Oct 1 @ 1:37PM  
For me it's not about truth or not truth, intended hurt or not, Choosing a flashpoint topic complete with the baiting language as a "shake up" blogging tactic... I think it's juvenile. That's all I'm trying to say.
DeDe54

Oct 1 @ 2:10PM  
Max posts purely to get a rise out of people. That's all. And I think it's working


On his blog I wrote what i thought, and he wrote this, thought I would share it with you all.........

WoW! this coming from a fellow bloger who wrote OMG OMG? and I am looking for attention? PLEASE!

Anyone who has knows me know that it was a FUNNY only!!!!!!!!!!!! But to each there own....
PrincessKissy

Oct 1 @ 2:22PM  
Anyone who has knows me

Not even gonna start on his grammer... but anyway... problem is, he is a new blogger, few of us DO know him... so it's all about attention at this point
Ewe_Wish

Oct 1 @ 2:25PM  
this coming from a fellow bloger who wrote OMG OMG? and I am looking for attention? PLEASE!

Anyone who has knows me know that it was a FUNNY only!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well as its been mentioned many times before..............We all blog for attention....some of us just do it without pissing a whole bunch of people off.....There are two kinds of blogs that get attention here..........the really funny ones that everyone is having fun with or the ones where everybody is pissed off in. The fact of it is...............Anyone who blogs is looking for attention.....how you want people to give you the attention is what we need to remember.


And DeDe anyone who knows you, knows that blog was just in fun..........some people just dont remember what fun is anymore.
DeDe54

Oct 1 @ 3:02PM  
Not even gonna start on his grammer


Please don't start on my grammer, I went to Denver Public Schools

Hey its my only excuse!!
DeDe54

Oct 1 @ 3:06PM  
And DeDe anyone who knows you, knows that blog was just in fun..........some people just dont remember what fun is anymore

Thank you Dayna!!!!!!! 99% of the time it is just for fun, however I do have my serious side, doesn't happen often, but it does!
maggiemae1969

Oct 1 @ 4:18PM  
if someone does this as a joke on the blogs, what do they do for kicks when they are offline?
MamMan

Oct 1 @ 4:36PM  
Because I choose to not get into the "funny/notfunny" debate on this topic, at this time...

Let me pop in for this question ( let the "flaming" begin) how are YOU doing MM???
DeDe54

Oct 1 @ 4:36PM  
if someone does this as a joke on the blogs, what do they do for kicks when they are offline

I dunno Mags, and to tell you the truth, I don't want to know hon. I am sooooooooooooooooo glad your back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
maxximuss1967

Oct 1 @ 5:08PM  
Destroy our comunity? horney toad you old simple minded fart! If you guys dont like the blog just dont read it! but dont get your pantys in a wad, or worse yet try to get a bunch of other sheep to join forces and rail road the people out of your little club that dont agree with you and your views! we had this discusion in private now you have brought it out to the public to see! I didnt know you were the founder of this site! what is this pre ww.11... nazi germany (terms you could understand).

If you are allowed to run me off this week you will run others off next week when will it end???


! This little community needs an inama!
Curious436

Oct 1 @ 5:30PM  
Dear Ms MaggieMae,

THANK YOU!

We are all beautiful! Each in our own special way!

Grandma always said there is more to the gift, than the wrapping. Just because some can only see the outside, they are missing what we truly are on the inside.....

Paula
PrincessKissy

Oct 1 @ 5:45PM  
This little community needs an inama!

What's an inama??
NachoBaby

Oct 1 @ 5:51PM  
I think that's talkpro junior for enema.. but I could be mistaken.

Strangely enough, he thinks I think like him.. well maybe in some ways I do.. because those who consider themselves too beautiful.. I want nothing to do with. I believe that's what he was talking about in a round about sort of manner. No sense getting your duds in a wad.. things will go as they go.

hey Mags.. hope you are feelin better every day baby girl!

What do I see when I look in the mirror? Certainly not what it portrays that's for sure.. damned lying mirrors.
maggiemae1969

Oct 1 @ 6:05PM  
inama is a wine , near as I can tell...... very odd statement....
MamMan

Oct 1 @ 6:52PM  
This little community needs an inama!

It was supposed to be a play on the line by the Jack Nicholson character ("The Joker"), in the movie "BATMAN".. the line being--->"This town needs an enema"

You would have to see the movie to understand the reference.
borty293

Oct 2 @ 2:35AM  
Inner beauty begets outer beauty...or somethin like that....
lifeizabitch

Oct 2 @ 10:52AM  
"It is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness".

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