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posted 9/21/2007 9:30:42 PM |
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  bigcati

This gets to me, maybe rightly so, maybe not. But, when you get a letter or an note, you answer it, in such a manner that you'll be looking for an answer to the missive that you've sent. You wait and wait and wait some more. Your answer never comes. It's that simple. It just never comes. You can see that the individual that wrote you in the first place has been on line time to time. Has not fallen off the end of the earth. Is still active. What does it take to send a note. That says, "Thanks, but I'm not interested." Or "I've found what I was looking for, thanks for your consideration."

Is that too much to ask? Or are you out to grind an axe???

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mrknowuwell

Sep 21 @ 9:33PM  
Email replies........are u kidding.........they jus show up at ur door n give u sex.......jus sayin...
Redhead131

Sep 21 @ 9:37PM  
I understand the frustration, but honestly sometimes the volume of mail that comes in for women is alot. And from what some of the women have said, that reply gets them nasty messages back. So I don't think it is necessarily being rude when you don't get a reply back. But you have made me realize that it does look that way to someone on the other side.
ynot7769

Sep 21 @ 10:22PM  
also beware.......free members ONLY Have 75/100 emails daily.....sounds like alot but if your already wrighting one person .............OR you blog n write back to the comments on your blog...goes very very fast...so alot of women have no choice to simply move on ........
Lisa46

Sep 21 @ 10:24PM  
I disagree if the note is decent I will send a reply if it is a rude or crude missive I ignore it or send a smart ass remark back usually grow up I'm not into kids
I'm sorry not everyone is rude. good luck
eroticgoth1

Sep 21 @ 10:25PM  
I have sent mails telling someone no thanks in a nice manner. I have also got some bad mails back after as well with the exception of a few.
Sunshinegal35

Sep 21 @ 11:05PM  
I always reply when I'm not interested. In the past, sending that not interested reply has sparked some nasty email exchanges. So now, I still give the guy the courtesy of the I'm-not-interested reply, and then I block him to prevent any nastiness coming back.
ladybootscooter

Sep 21 @ 11:19PM  
This has been gone over soooooo many times now, but since you've obviously missed all those blogs I'll try to explain it once more and with feeling! Most of the women on here are free members. Free members have a limit to the number of emails they may receive and send out daily! (75 per day, I believe?) Since most women on here receive many, many emails per day and then if they post blogs there are all those emails from the comments posted! If they reply to any privately there are all those that count as well. Then there are letters to and from their friends to take into consideration. So when an email comes in from someone that isn't a "friend" or from blog comments the reply may get shoved to the side in order to answer those first! And then again it's also as Redhead said, some men no matter how nicely you say "no thanks I'm not interested good luck in your search" have a not so nice counter reply. After some time of getting these it becomes just so not worth the effort to reply! Good luck in your search!
mrbluefox

Sep 22 @ 6:44AM  
I would think these people lack proper etiquette, manners, good taste.They are basically selfish and are hypocrites but unfortunately do not realize it. It really tells a lot about them and in a way they showed their true colors and did us a favor by NOT responding. The sad part is that they probably didn’t teach their children all of the aforementioned.
walkntune

Sep 22 @ 11:23AM  
What gets me brother is that a girl sent me a message saying she thought i seemed like a really sweet guy and that she would love to chat and get to know me.She said she sang in her profile so I sent her a message back saying I thought it was cool she was a singer and that I thought it would be great to chat.She never answered back! All I can say is her loss because i am a good guy and we live in a shallow world sometimes!

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