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  alybai42

If you don't want to listen to me whine MOVE ON....
As most of you know I am in school. I am working my ass off to pass this course and get a new career. Right now I am almost in tears. I am stressed out. I have two big tests tomorrow..I just did a 20 page typing assignment. My eyes are ready to fall out of my head .
There are so many times I want to say " I quit"...Then I take a break, walk around my house and go back at it.
I had a friend stop by tonight to see if I wanted to have a beer..I said NO..I have all this work to get done.
My house don't seem to get cleaned. The laundry is piling up. If anyone would like to come over and clean be my guest. My head is always stuck in a book.
I needed someone to whine to. I needed a break away from the school work for a few minutes.

I did finally get a job also. Two nights a week. It is better than nothing.

The moral of this blog I just need to keep my sanity. This is where I come. To where my friends are.

Love you guys

Tammy

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hulkNpooh

Sep 19 @ 10:49PM  
Hang in there girl, it'll all be worth it in the end. Keep up the hard work. If i knew where you lived and it was close, since i have my cleaning business i'd send someone, or i'd come do it myself....Hugs

Pooh~~~Wendy
DesertSmile

Sep 19 @ 10:49PM  
Dominus

Sep 19 @ 10:51PM  
Hug bad? All I can give is hug good. If that's okay then you're welcome to it.
ynot7769

Sep 19 @ 10:51PM  
take a deep breath.....relax n take 5mins to think of NOTHING.................and no not sex either

breath slowww....in thru your nose n out thru your mouth ..eyes closed NO NOISE if poss....amazing but it will relax you .....clear your mind................just feel n hear the rythm of your breathing in and out slow......


that dont wrk ..you find me n scream..i'll try to listen
bentan

Sep 19 @ 10:52PM  
Hugs Tammy, hang in there.
loveableone

Sep 19 @ 10:56PM  
Sounds like we both could use a hug! It will all be great, you will do wonderfully!!
hornytoad55

Sep 19 @ 10:56PM  
Tammy, I feel for you. I will never forget the nights like that. You just have to remember the worst jobs you have had to do and the benefits the education will bring you. Good luck on the test. GO GET THEM GIRL.

Ken
StraddleMyNose

Sep 19 @ 10:57PM  
You need someone to do the cleaning huh? Hmmm....maybe I can do the laundry. lol j/k
isitgrog

Sep 19 @ 10:58PM  
Ma'am, you can do it.

Sometimes we just have to hang on tight and keep our nose above the water.

"I think I can, I think I can, I think I can".

Hugs to you. You've got spunk.
alybai42

Sep 19 @ 11:02PM  
and no not sex either


What is that? I am think maybe in Aug of 2008 I might have time
Fckmhrdtnght

Sep 19 @ 11:04PM  
*******************************

H U G S

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look back on your life....

you've accomplished so much.....

YOU CAN DO IT !!!!!!


GOOD LUCK!!!

MEMEME69247

Sep 19 @ 11:06PM  
You need someone to do the cleaning huh? Hmmm....maybe I can do the laundry. lol j/k

Straddle we all know you would snift the laundry and I was talking about Aly's panties,,,,(((((KIM))))) ((((WHERE)))) ((((ARE)))) ((((YOU))))........

Good Luck Aly,,,,you can hang in there....Kisses Lena
Ewe_Wish

Sep 19 @ 11:06PM  
Sweetie, take a deep breath and remind yourself that things will get better. I remember when i went back to school it seemed like the only thing i got done was doing homework. The first semester was the roughest, by the second semester i had things organized to the point i could do all that i had done prior to school starting and keep up with my homework. It will get better so be patient!!!
luscious_bbwpa

Sep 19 @ 11:07PM  


keep your chin up and be strong! You can achieve anything you put your mind too! Good luck and God Bless! ~Bren~
dmbradley1978854

Sep 19 @ 11:09PM  
alybai42

Sep 19 @ 11:16PM  
I want to say thanks to all you of who took the time to read my blog and make a comment.

It is great to know I have people to count on when I am pulling my hair out.

Back to the books..

If anyone knows medical coding please step forward
PrincessKissy

Sep 19 @ 11:23PM  
It just takes time to get used to the load and organization. Both will come to you, I have faith. You're a bright lady, and you will get through this and when it's over you'll have a new life to start. Just remember it isn't forever, and this too shall pass.

One HUGE hug!!!

Crissy
Looking4ever

Sep 19 @ 11:33PM  
Whine away! It's amazing what a little venting can do for you. If you need to unload, feel free to contact me. I'd rather listen to what's stressing you than to think about what's stressing me. You CAN do this. And, one day you'll look back, give yourself a pat on the back and say, "Dayum, girl!"
31sunshine

Sep 19 @ 11:39PM  
Medical coding? No wonder your ready to pull your hair out....god I hated learning that shit.

It will get easier, just remember how proud you should be for going back to school to make a great change in your life and it's all worth it. Hell, who needs a clean house anyways? It's way over rated. And when you need jump up and down, scream or come to the blogs, we are all hear to listen and scream with you when neceessary.

HUGS!!!
ladybootscooter

Sep 19 @ 11:45PM  
Go ahead! Scream, kick, stomp, whine..........we're here for ya! You're gonna be fine, just keep thinking this stage won't last forever! You can do it and we're all very proud of ya! Hugs to ya!
jrjones1970

Sep 19 @ 11:54PM  
Tammy, I just wanted to say I am here for ya. I know I can't be there physically, but know that I am here virtually if that helps. I will for sure keep you in my prayers.. Here are some virtual hugs for ya..

Jim
dridge

Sep 20 @ 12:05AM  

Tammy, hang tough girl, don't let it get you down!
Redhead131

Sep 20 @ 12:18AM  
Hang in there. I know enough about medical coding to know it is a PIA... I used to do my own bills at the MD office I worked at. When I was in nursing school I cried on a regular basis, alot of people quit and I considered it several times. But when it was all done, it was worth hanging in there. Just try to remember that one day it will be over and you will be better for it. And hugs to you.
casuallylooking

Sep 20 @ 12:56AM  
Tammy, when I went back to school there was a few days that I came home, went straight to bed, covered my head and just cried. I felt so over whelmed and like I could never do this, what the hell was I thinking......... Trust me, it does get easier. And you can do it.
Just remember to breathe, it always seems to help for some reason.... lol
Best Wishes......
openmindedguy71

Sep 20 @ 1:34AM  
just think that one day you will complete school and be working in your new career. Keep your head up and you will do well. I wish you the best of luck. Hugs to you....
newly_curious

Sep 20 @ 1:46AM  
Every one need time to vent. Hope this puts the wind back in your sails and you are able to sail through the next session. Hugs to you and a kudo
mica89

Sep 20 @ 2:08AM  



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Patience serves as a protection against wrongs as clothes do against cold. For if you put on more clothes as the cold increases, it will have no power to hurt you. So in like manner you must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind.

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belle1010

Sep 20 @ 2:52AM  
You'll make it, I have faith in you. Big HUG!
borty293

Sep 20 @ 2:56AM  
Things worth doing ...don't come easy...
HollyHummy

Sep 20 @ 4:02AM  
I'm sending you a big hug!!!
openmindedguy71

Sep 20 @ 4:41AM  
Looks up hmmmmm is that a big hug or a pig hug?
partytimemary

Sep 20 @ 7:29AM  
I know the feeling, but hang in.. it's worth it in the end. I am finishing up two classes as well.... only two more to go ~ woooo hooooo! Some things just have to wait... and when it's crunch time, the housework will wait... I understand tho...it is tough (and I work full time too) SO my thoughts are with u... don't get discouraged, it all works out in the end!
Lisa46

Sep 20 @ 9:25AM  
Leonardo da Vinci (1452 - 1519)
I am extraordinarily patient, provided I get my own way in the end.

I did it for 2 yrs!! Full time day job 3 classes a week 3 a.m. till 10 p.m. at night its a bitch and I loved every minute of it! So you bitch, moan and groan sweetie but when your done you'll feel like a million bucks!
ksk72

Sep 20 @ 2:45PM  
You need someone to do the cleaning huh? Hmmm....maybe I can do the laundry. lol j/k

He doesn't even do my laundry

He did do the dishes for me once when I was sick
frankbarks

Sep 20 @ 11:38PM  
I could wash ALL your clothes. Turn the heat up and type in the nude.
mrknowuwell

Sep 20 @ 11:49PM  
Sanity..............lets go crazy it will beat the crap outta stress

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