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posted 9/18/2007 12:50:17 PM |
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  PrincessKissy

In response to the SEVENTEEN emails I have gotten since posting a photo of G and I together, from men, asking why I am here if I am not looking, I am going to repost an earlier blog I did. I believe it also hits some other points that always need to be addressed on this site

Ok, let's face it, most know that I found my sweetie on here, we are less than discrete about that fact, LOL............ However........... after reading a lot of blogs this week, I felt I needed to post THIS blog in response to many of them, as I didn't want to post comments that were longer than a lot of the original blogs themselves.

Last night I had an email war with someone who was very upset that I would NOT have cyber sex with him. My profile says I am here for erotic chat. A fairly innocuous choice, in my opinion. This stupidfuckingmale (Thanks SunnyD) felt that since I had listed that, I was apparently "required" to have erotic chat with him. When I pointed out that my profile states that I am in a relationship, and that my essays state I am only here for friendship and fun as I have found someone, he got very nasty stating that I had no business on a site like this if I were in a relationship, and that my boyfriend was ignorant for allowing me to be here. I ended up telling him off and blocking him as I had had enough of his crap... but it's got me thinking.

Do I belong here? Why not? Can I not say that by posting erotic blogs or flirty responses on forum threads that I am fulfilling my "erotic chat" selection? Of course I can, if you look at it with that perspective. This site is for anyone who wants to chat with other adults, in whatever manner they choose to do so. Does it mean that I am required to talk "dirty"? Absolutely NOT. No more than anyone who selects "one night stand" is required to have a one night stand with anyone who requests one.

In my opinion, the ADULT part of this site name is being ADULT enough, responsible enough, and intelligent enough to act in an ADULT manner, and play in an adult manner. If having sex with multiple partners is what cranks your motor, go for it, no one here is gonna care, but do so in a responsible ADULT manner. If posting blogs is your thing... fine, do so in an ADULT manner. Don't act CHILDISH when someone posts their ADULT response/perspective of what you have said on your blog. Realize that as another ADULT, they have their views and opinions and are just as entitled to them as you are. However, it is their responsibility to make their comments in an ADULT fashion, not in a derogitory manner.

I am a member of several "Adult" sites, and I have to say, that AMD is by far the best of the lot. I prefer to think of it as an adult "playground". There are so many activities to be participated in, from the chat rooms, to the forums to the blogs. I am so amazed when people blog saying they are bored. I have said repeatedly, to anyone who will listen... you only get out of the site that which you put into it. If you don't take the time to give it all a whirl, you simply aren't ADULT enough to play here.

To all the fucktards that just don't get it... I'M NOT GOING ANYWHERE ANYTIME SOON. GROW THE FUCK UP, I'M NOT HERE FOR YOUR AMUSEMENT. GET OVER YOURSELVES AND REALIZE THAT NO ONE WANTS TO FUCK YOUR WHINEY ASS.

To all the fucktards that feel the need to make nasty comments about photos: LOOK IN A FUCKING MIRROR, 99.9% OF THE TIME YOU GOT NOTHING BETTER GOING ON THAN I DO... YOU DON'T SEE ANYONE WRITING YOU SPECIFICALLY TO SAY NASTY THINGS, DO YA?

To all the fucktards that don't even HAVE a pic posted: YOU DON'T LIKE MY PIC... MOVE THE FUCK ON, NO REASON TO TAKE THE TIME TO EMAIL ME AND TELL ME I'M UGLY. I'VE GOT A MAN... YOU'RE THE ONE LOOKIN!!

*hops down off soap box* Sorry, but sometimes I just get SO annoyed!

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Pudge2you

Sep 18 @ 12:58PM  
hey it's AWESOME to hear you are not leaving the site soon... had me worried at first....
ladybootscooter

online now!
Sep 18 @ 12:58PM  
Sorry they pissed you off PK! Wish there was something I could do or say to make the situation better for ya....oh yeah, wanna fuck???
Wordsofwit

Sep 18 @ 1:02PM  
Oh goody!!! Another blog for Dridge and I to key on...Burning Down the House!

Happy for you honey. Not only that, but you are away from those three loser roommates you had to deal with that ignored their mother's teachings. Did you think you died and went to heaven when you got to the UK?
bentan

Sep 18 @ 1:10PM  
Tell 'em you guys are looking for another lady to be your sometime playmate. That'll eat further into their rations and piss them off even more ... lol.
trc7880

Sep 18 @ 1:12PM  
it's okay to be on an adult website if your not looking for sex or don't want cyber sex.
Lisa46

Sep 18 @ 1:17PM  
go get'm girl!!

don't ya just love a redhead who gets pissed??
Sunshinegal35

Sep 18 @ 1:22PM  
Get 'em, PK!
As always, I worship the ground upon which you walk for teaching me the term:

FUCKTARD

I cannot tell you how many times that word has come in handy for me!
Love you and G!
Redhead131

Sep 18 @ 1:46PM  
Kudos to you. I am so tired of people getting pissed if I won't cyber or call them. Well you know what ... if they want guaranteed phone sex there are a hell of alot of 900 numbers to call. Maybe I'll put that in my profile... I'll call but need a credit card number first.
NachoBaby

Sep 18 @ 3:24PM  
Yeah!!! What she said... twice from me!
Ewe_Wish

Sep 18 @ 3:41PM  
Crissy, I feel your pain, if they read my essay they write nasty letters, if they read my blogs and choose not to like them, they get nasty and you know what fuck them. I have never in my life seem some people act like such assholes as I have seen here when they dont get the response they want or dont like how life is for someone else. They just show what is lower that snake shit in a wagon track when they write those letters, cause you know what? They are jealous of someone elses happiness. They are sitting there in their own little world, lonely with their dic in their hand being a bitchboi cause no one would have them offline or online.
Argit01

Sep 18 @ 4:06PM  
You ever get the feeling some people are jealous? I mean they come onto a sex dating site and expect to get laid when the only way they will ever have sex is if they lube up their hand and jerk themselves off! They fail to see that if they actually took time to write something even slightly intelligent or interesting that they might actually fulfill their reason for joining. I only met you by participating in the forums and writing blogs so it proves this site works, I could have tried the "wanna fuck" method but who here has actually had any success with that approach? What do I know anyway, I just don't speak the language!
ksk72

Sep 18 @ 4:18PM  
The new pic is cute

I dont think the fucktards will ever get a clue. They have nothing better to do.

if you dont want e-mails get the fuck off this site dumbass!
This is the email I got from one of them yesterday. I simply told him that he needs to learn how to follow directions
MamMan

Sep 18 @ 5:17PM  
PK....I whole-heartedly agree with this posting
I cannot imagine that people here cannot realize that, as ADULTS, we can have differing opinions and tastes. And, that no one here should feel that they have control over you just because we have chosen to be listed here.
I applaud the fact that you are willing to take a stand and vent out your frustration due to some that seem to be unwilling to accept your happiness and choices.

For those of you not willing to handle being an adult...have a or a ..or just learn how to grow up and be an ADULT.

I wish you both many years of love, serenity, and joy.
borty293

Sep 18 @ 6:12PM  
Unfortunately there will always be these fly by nighy guys who think they are going to get laid the minute they log on. They live in a dream world of instant gratification and when denied they suddenly become offensive and lash out. It does not occur to them that perhaps if they share something of them selves in the blogs and actually do some work ...they maybe successful.
Playguy40

Sep 18 @ 6:34PM  
If I recall correctly, the choices for what it is for which you are here are very innocuous. They don't have a just 'chat' option and I don't think 'friends' is on the list either.

But you do erotic chat... in forums and blogs you post your insights and opinions on subjects of an erotic nature... AS DISCUSSION. It's conversation about topics you would discuss at a bar or at a backyard cookout with your friends. You can have Erotic Chat without letting some guy tell you where he wants to stick his dong.

Fuck that guy and we can do him a favor since he's so horny and let him fuck the horse he rode in on himself.
jezzarae

Sep 18 @ 6:46PM  
People can be so self centered at times. They are so sure the world revolves around them and that the other members of this site are just here in case THEY want to have sex.
Well tough luck to them. Every member on this site has the right to say NO whenever and to whoever they want.
Sooner the FUCKTARDS get it through there teeny little brains the happier we will all be.

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slohand_47

Sep 18 @ 7:49PM  
He's got a point. If you're not willing to chat with everyone who asks.... you should just leave. I mean, pack up and move to... oh, I don't know... England maybe?

Nice pic of the 2 of you, btw.

I used to have an attachment that when you opened it, it would count down from 10 to 1 and then the screen would go kalidoscopic with colors like an explosion. You need something like that to send to the fucktards.

DesertSmile

Sep 18 @ 8:45PM  
Probably everyone reading will agree with you. Why...because the culprits would not spend time reading a blog and get a feel for the way an Adult site truly works.

You can blame it on society of just good advertising that would lead anyone, male or female, to believe their mere presense on an adult site (which I prefer to sex site) guarantees them erotic chat, camming, emails or god forbid even a fuck date.

You can do one of 2 things. You can respond politely as you did and if they persist, as they do, block and ignore them. Or, and often this is my personal choice after numerous annoying emails, get mad and rip em a new now!!
Looking4ever

Sep 19 @ 1:10AM  
Well, as I mentioned to one idiot that thought he had the right to tell me to go elsewhere, "Me leaving this site still isn't going to improve your chances of getting laid."
sweetnasty1

Sep 19 @ 2:19AM  
Isn't it funny how these people have nothing better to do than go off on you? You have every right to be here and the fucktards have every right to leave you alone. I can sum them up in one word "jealous". Enjoy your new life with Argit.
coltsfootball

Sep 19 @ 4:32AM  
I Think There Should Be An Option To Be Able To State That Your Only Here For Friends, Blogs And Forums, etc.....Part Of The Problem Lies With The AMD Administrators. When The Least Evasive Thing You Can Put On Your Essay is Erotic Chat Then There Will Be Emails From People That Don't Bother To Read The Whole Page. I Agree That This Is An "Adult/Dating/Sex Site" But You Meet A lot Of Friends Here In The Process And When You Do Meet Someone You Don't Want To Leave The Site Because Of Those Friends And The Fun Your Used To Having. Maybe Someone Should Invent A Sister Site "AdultMatchdoctor....The Morning After".
Looking4ever

Sep 19 @ 9:05AM  
Maybe Someone Should Invent A Sister Site "AdultMatchdoctor....The Morning After".


Playguy40

Sep 19 @ 2:37PM  
Coltsfan, you sound smart enough to be a Bears fan!
coltsfootball

Sep 19 @ 5:43PM  
Coltsfan, you sound smart enough to be a Bears fan
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