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posted 10/5/2006 4:55:32 PM |
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I have to say that there are times when a man's smarts are way more sexier than the size of his penis. I don't know how some women like it on this site, but I like casual conversation at first, not "are you horny? do you masterbate? Where do you live (just to see if you can meet!)" Granted, I get asked alot of questions as of to my behavior. Ive been a member for seven years. Ive only met one guy and it didn't take off ((you know who you are, im sorry)). This site is a fantasty - all in thought. Many of you complain "well you are all talk and no action!" Perhaps those people who just talk are being satisfied with just that - talk. Who do you think Im going to chose, the person who is 50 years old with a GREAT sense of humor who I have known for a long time over the 30 year old who just wants a shag online? Which is more meaningful? Meaning is more when it comes to sex. Those are just examples. I do not personally talk to men over 40 online unless they have a great, outstanding personality that I just seem to click with in a conversation. Being able to identify with the person is just step one in a sexual attraction. I have no desire to be with anyone younger than myself unless they are mature and expirienced. Ive done the teaching before and it's no fun anymore.
Unless I have a naked photo, want to cybersex, most men on here have no other intrest. Quite frankly I am rather bored with "Do you have a webcam? Do you have naked pictures? Do you swallow? Do you suck cock?" When I want meaningless sex I know exactly where to get it! Its not here! No excuses for the real deal in person. I enjoy meeting people first in person as opposed to first online. It feels a hell of a lot better that way, doesnt it? Remember, women like men who think because theyre always thinking of ways to please a woman. Women have been thinking of romance since they were little ones. Sex since they were 12. We know exactly how to please a man with every look, every saying, every smile. It's just a little harder to please women - because most men do not think. Sex is clearly a thinking process which why this site flourishes because sex is based on thought. The brain after all is the most powerful sex organ - never mind a cock or vagina.

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Oct 5 @ 5:01PM  
Great blog. Mental stimulation is hard work for some of the guys. I prefer that, so I can really get to know someone, not just be a hit and run man.

Great post!

Oct 5 @ 5:12PM  
I would very much like to encourage you to continue writing the blogs. I enjoyed this one, cuts to the heart of what others have been saying.

Oct 5 @ 5:26PM  
Very well said and I agree with you on every point. Those "are you horny? do you masterbate?" messages not only are insulting to the person receiving them but aren't exactly a way to showcase one's own intelligence.
What most men have to realize is that just because this is an Adult site doesn't mean every woman on here is a sexaholic who is but one dirty word away from a screaming orgasm! Now granted, I am a sexaholic ( ) but I'm also someone who enjoys basic conversation (ie....movies, family, books, etc) and getting to know someone.
In fact, if I were to only find friends on this site and no sexual talk or action of any nature then I would be happy with it.
But I get off topic...sorry....
Yea, sex IS based on thought. Not only based but heightened by it.

So gentlemen, take this post to heart and take the time to get to know might end up happier in the end!

Oct 5 @ 8:06PM  
I'm impressed, when i started to read this blog and saw there were 3 comments i figured they would be from some of the women saying "You go, girl". One of (this is just my opinion, mind you) sexiest men on this site unless you look at the rest of his pictures only shows his eyes. Words are very powerful. I agree with the sentiment of this blog. I have gotten my share of "wanna watch me masterbate on cam?" and "wanna talk dirty to me?". Read Canuhelpme's most recent blog, it shows there are more than a few well read, intelligent, and thoughtful people on ths site. There are always going to be a few rotten apples in the bunch. I agree please keep blogging, you have something to say that should be heard(or read).

Oct 5 @ 10:09PM  
So.... are you horny? (tee-hee) Just messing with ya, sweetie! I love your post!

Oct 6 @ 2:08AM  
LMAO of course Im just saying its best to ease into it with the mind!!!

Oct 6 @ 2:43AM  
Ah, don't mind me...I'm just bouncing back...thanks to all my awesome online friends (that'd be you, too chica! :)

Oct 6 @ 8:10AM  
Great true.

Oct 6 @ 9:28AM  
I'm on top of blckvtx...not a bad position to be in, I'd say! Sorry...I strayed again (bad Sxze, bad girl!)

Oct 8 @ 1:44AM  
Very insightful blog entry! Seems like some good simple advice that we guys could use and definitely something we ought to follow. We are always trying to learn the secret of women. For example, when a guy is unsuccessful on a date, or in attracting a woman, he is often scratching his head, bewildered, and wondering why it turned out so badly - and he wants to know what went wrong and what he needs to do to avoid making that mistake again.

In many cases, I think it is a result of an inherent weakness we men have - we are so captivated by the beauty of a woman that we become so engrossed in trying to fulfill our desires, and, as a result, it is all too easy to forget to consider the needs and desires of the other person.

Oct 20 @ 9:46AM  
very good...a thinker!!!

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