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LIKE A WHISPER, IN THE NIGHT

posted 9/15/2007 11:31:05 PM |
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The worlds smartest stoner was here, last night. He stopped by to tell me he was leaving soon. Said his work here was probably done. He had come here looking for sex and love and lust and such. As most of us do. Well maybe not in that order, per se. But we all seem to come here looking for one thing, and finding another. Personally, i came here for lust and debauchery. I learned about people.

It was late on a cold & lonely december night in Chicago. Things were topsy / turvy. A guy from Chicago, who lived in Florida, was back in the city and on the prowl. After your first full summer in florida, your blood is so thin, you can't remember how you could ever stand the cold. So the first chilly night, He decided he wasn't going out and freezing, just for sex. He settled on "Room Service", that delectable smorgaasboard of sexual delights, Adult match D. It was so creepy that first night, when he was sure that they were driving by and checking him out. He knew that each person he viewed, was looking right back inside his head. And that was scary. He had even given up looking inside there. Oblivion was up a touchdown and there was about a minute left in the third quarter. (Obligatory sports analogy).

Every time he signed on, the place was different. Back then, there was always this larger than life picture of a female blogger, along with many of her outrageously titled blogs. Hell, he didn't know what a blog was, B 4 that.But he started to read, and then communicate. He would read all the blogs, and add some witty little comment when it came to him. And acquaintaces happened, and friendships bloomed. Bonds were formed. Trust developed.

Time went by, and that trust grew. As did the man. The people on this site showed him it was OK to open up, to share. These were things he needed to learn. You can be all walled off inside your head, and thinking no one's as crazy as i am, and it can rot your brain. The difference between wierd and spooky may only be acceptance. When people let you know it's OK, we've all had some wierd thoughts and experiences, the harsh edges recede. We can all be irrational at times, pissed off cuz we've been pissed on, but just like Trolls are lacking in social graces, you're really not that wierd if people share your wierdness. (Editors note: If the preceding thought didn't make sense to you, then you're probably a troll.)

So last night, he opened up to his friends more than he ever had. He had made some more fatal errors of the tongue, and was nostril deep in the pity pot. And y'all made him see that it's never the end of the world, no matter how much you might wish it. It's just another bump in the road, and we go over them all the time. If you're always living in the past, what's the point of a future? You have helped lift the weight off his heart, and he's eternally grateful. That some of us may never come face to face with the people they've met here, yet can owe those same people so much, is really quite remarkable. And i thank you all for it.

You guys Rock.

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DesertSmile

Sep 15 @ 11:49PM  
I did read your blog last night but didn't have time to comment. Even still I would have just given you a Kudo for honesty; not to the AMD Mental Health Clinic but to yourself.

Expression is the deepest form of healing. I would offer that most of the patients here would agree.

Oh...and before I run out...here is your Kudo!
Ewe_Wish

Sep 15 @ 11:53PM  
You guys Rock
You rock too darling!!

maggiemae1969

Sep 16 @ 12:23AM  
Acceptance is nice aint it .......
borty293

Sep 16 @ 12:38AM  
Yes...I find it amazing that an electonic gadget can bring people together and allows them to share some very profound lfe experiences. I've learned alot about myself and have cultivated some true friendships ...something I never thought would happen.
asnet

Sep 16 @ 12:40AM  
[QUOTE]Expression is the deepest form of healing.[QUOTE]

I don't think I have ever heard that stated so truthfully and eloquently before.
Thanks.

redbronze

Sep 16 @ 1:07AM  
Isn't it nice to know your not the only oddball out here LOL.. I like this forum as I have found myself and that even when I think I am the weirdest one out here there is someone always a little weirder than I... I like that.. and I like my eird friends and I like the crazy crap we all seem to think and talk about.. Smile..

It is nice to know that I can love and be loved back... just the way I am....
hornytoad55

Sep 16 @ 1:45AM  
Very well said Rock. I like you came to a "sex"site and found it to be educational, place to do soul searching, and a world wide meeting forum. I am still fairly new but feel comfortable with the people here. It takes good people like yourself to make and maintain the atmosphere here.
casuallylooking

Sep 16 @ 10:59AM  
He had even given up looking inside there. Oblivion was up a touchdown and there was about a minute left in the third quarter

Everyone knows that being down by a single touchdown is nothing come forth quarter. Still gives you plenty of time to win the game.
and was nostril deep in the pity pot.
That pot sure seems to get passed around. Use it til you're done then put it back where you found it....someone else is waiting for it.
Now, go enjoy your day!!!
Pudge2you

Sep 17 @ 9:18AM  
Glad you are feeling better... Now pass that over here...

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