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posted 10/4/2006 11:54:56 PM |
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  belle1010

It's been a few days now since i started my road to enlightenment. I'm more and more amazed each day at how dense people can be. As some of you know, i'm playing a game right now, and i hate games. I don't feel good about what i'm doing, but i'll be damned i'm sure good at it, lol. I'm racking my brain to figure out how to end what i've started. I've been given a few suggestions, and i'm considering them. One is to copy and paste all of the messenger conversations i have been saving all week into an e-mail and send it to the louse. Then immediatly delete anything having to do with him from my computer. To not give him a chance to try to explain. I'm a little curious as to what that excuse would be though. The other suggestion i was given was to tell him as Katie that he and I (Katie) have a mutual friend, then tell him the mutual friend is me.

I had to laugh this morning when Katie (me) was talking about how I know my b/f has not been truthful with me, and i was asked what lies i've been told. I said nothing major, just little things. He (and this is fuckin hilarious) told me that if my b/f would lie about the little things he will lie about big things. All I could do was sit here, laugh and shake my head in wonder. This man is giving me advice on a lousy b/f and he's the lousy b/f. Pretty damn sad isn't it? When he talks to me and knows he's talking to me, he's complaining about how sick he is, and has been resting. What a crock ! ! !

A friend asked me today if this guy is really that stupid. I have been as obvious as i can without coming right out and telling him that he's talking to me. I said I didn't think it was that he is all that stupid, but he doesn't think i'm smart enough to beat him at his own game. Boy is he wrong. Guys, if you're reading this never underestimate a woman, you'll get burned every time.

Another thing that absolutely amazes me is that i'm not as angry as i think i should be. I'm hurt, and disappointed that he's not the person i thought he was, but not really angry. I guess that should tell me something huh?

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Dominus

Oct 5 @ 2:21AM  
I don't feel good about what i'm doing...I'm racking my brain to figure out how to end what i've started. I've been given a few suggestions...One is to copy and paste all of the messenger conversations i have been saving all week...then immediatly delete anything having to do with him from my computer.

Well, what you should do is decide whether he's worth keeping or not. I say send the e-mail with the attached conversations with the heading "we need to talk". You'll be able to tell what to do based on his reaction.

If he accuses you of being the bad guy, then dump him. You decieved him but he decieved you. Niether one of you is better in that case, so he shouldn't "win" an argument by bringing that up.

If he goes all wimpy and weasely on you, dump him. If he tries to squirm his way out of it this time, he'll only do it again.

If he lies and denies everything, dump him. Liars aren't worth the trouble.

If he tries to turn it around ("I knew it was you...I was just playing with you") dump him. You're an adult woman who doesn't need to be taught "lessons."

However...

If he sees the true humor in the situation, consider it a point in his favor. Be cautious, but don't be quick to delete him from your life. Humor and humility are good characteristics in a man.

If he is consternated by his own obvious failure and says "Well, it's obvious you're the one I really loved after all" then don't send him packing so soon.

In both of the last two scenarios, it's going to take time and talking, but it means there is hope.
ponme

Oct 5 @ 11:47AM  
Wow, I am disagreeing in part, with Dominus.. that almost NEVER happens. Mark it on your calendar!

As I said to someone else in a blog titled: "Can You Go Home Again?", if this is always going to be in the back of your mind, don't put yourself or him through it. It's just not worth it. Life is too short to be miserable.

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