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  Looking4ever

Okay, so winks are back...for better or worse. Some people hate them, some like them.

When you send a wink, what are you thinking? What are you saying to the person you sent that wink to? I'm talking to that stranger you wink at, not the wink you send to your friends. Are you hoping that your wink is the ice breaker and that the person you winked at will email you or wink back? Are you merely winking as if to say hi like you might do as you pass by someone on the street? What are you hoping for?

If you wink at a person here, why do you do it? If you don't wink at people here, why not?

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StraddleMyNose

Sep 12 @ 2:08AM  
I usually never send winks. I do like to get the winks though because I like when someone flirts with me (that's how I take it), even though I won't be flirting back. As for why I never send them you ask....well, I'm with someone and am very happy, so I have no need to wink at someone.
BigFlirt

Sep 12 @ 2:09AM  
Winks are cheap, if i get one i just wink back. I rather get a wanna fuck e-mail... ... How about a simple hi instead of a wink...
mrknowuwell

Sep 12 @ 2:39AM  
that was not a wink..........I jus have sum thin in my eye....
openmindedguy71

Sep 12 @ 2:42AM  
I have to be honest. Since i put my new pictures up I have gottent a lot more attention that I am used to. I have gotten a share of winks and had lots of compliments. I thank the ladies for the compliments, but I am not realy ready to flirt back. I have sent out a few winks to people i would be interest in talking more with, but I am not realy sure where I want it to go.
dridge

Sep 12 @ 2:56AM  

openmindedguy71

Sep 12 @ 3:23AM  
Damn dridge that actually makes me feel a whole lot better. I got a good laugh out of that. I hope everyone else gets a laugh too.
Looking4ever

Sep 12 @ 3:57AM  
I frickin' laughed my butt off!
bentan

Sep 12 @ 4:11AM  
Uhhh ... I dunno, but everyone I see on this blog gets a wink from me!
mrknowuwell

Sep 12 @ 4:36AM  
another 1 Ben......wink whore.....
bentan

Sep 12 @ 4:54AM  
another 1 Ben......wink whore.....

No can do till you remove the last one I sent you! System only allows one at a time.
mrknowuwell

Sep 12 @ 4:56AM  
HELL NOOOO.....kinda cute
ValentineGirl214

Sep 12 @ 5:11AM  
I've winked at friends and I've winked at people that have viewed me that I thought were interesting. I don't expect anything from it.
dumblonde

Sep 12 @ 5:47AM  
my question is...if someone winks at me...do they expect something in return? a wink, an e-mail??? i am never quite sure what to do...so someone winks, i wink back...doesnt really get you anywhere...
BigFlirt

Sep 12 @ 5:52AM  
Benton was not bs he winked at me, and as i stated, well hell i just had to wink back.
princealucard

Sep 12 @ 7:04AM  
Well a wink here is a compliment and an ice breaker i would think. So if i winked at you would you respond?
isitgrog

Sep 12 @ 7:33AM  
This has been enlightening, as I was under the misguided impression as it was a way to let a lady know you were interested without bombing her with unsolicited email. I my apparent innocence and niavity, I had interpretted the virtual silence as she was not interested. The addendum, unfortunately, is that has been the response, or lack thereof, to the e-mails, also.
nusouthorigin

Sep 12 @ 7:46AM  
Think I've sent 2 winks, but one was by accident. Both were to people I email pretty regularly. I'm not a big fan of the winks. Emails tell me alot more about you, and if I can't write an email well enough to get your attention then I don't think a wink is gonna work either.
Looking4ever

Sep 12 @ 7:55AM  
my question is...if someone winks at me...do they expect something in return? a wink, an e-mail??? i am never quite sure what to do...so someone winks, i wink back...doesn't really get you anywhere...

Dumbblonde...that was why I asked the question...what do the winkers expect back in return? Anything?

Well a wink here is a compliment and an ice breaker i would think. So if i winked at you would you respond?

princeaulcard...that was why I was asking...do you wink because you are hoping for a response in return? And, if so, what sort of response? A return wink? An email? Do you follow up the wink with an email? I, personally, take most winks as compliments.

if I can't write an email well enough to get your attention then I don't think a wink is gonna work either.

Amen, nusouthorgin! I think that is what most people would prefer...an email that says hi, you caught my attention or whatever. However, I don't think a wink followed up with an email is a bad thing either.

Now, mind you, I didn't write the blog so I could get more winks (or emails) but so that maybe we could see why people send winks at all.



Wordsofwit

Sep 12 @ 7:59AM  
If I don't know the person and they send me a wink, itis ignored. They probably wink at everyone else also. If they aren't interested enough to write something to me personally that shows that they read my profile, then there is is no value in responding. Wink = Stink.
Ashinatrix

Sep 12 @ 7:59AM  
my hand on myself
and what is this here?
this is my eye winker my teacher dear
eye winker eye winker nikki winky dinky do
that's what I learned at my school!!!

maggiemae1969

Sep 12 @ 8:47AM  
I am thinking " your a cutie" , but I dont send alot of winks, but I do enjoy getting them from folks I know.
Lisa46

Sep 12 @ 9:01AM  
I am actually a bit on the shy side! I am careful who I send a wink to so they are normally to someone I know. But when I recieve on I always try to say thank you
PrincessKissy

Sep 12 @ 9:03AM  
I think they're lame.. I don't even look to see who sent em, I just delete em
sumdaysoon

Sep 12 @ 9:30AM  
i wink at my friends just to let them know i am thinking about them..........and i do occasionally wink at someone that sparks my interest..........i expect nothing in return just saying hi.........
asnet

Sep 12 @ 9:42AM  
Winks matter. Winks are important.
Winks are an icebreaker.
Winks say
Hi! How are you?
What's up?
But they do not necessarily have a profound sexual meaning.
If a wink leads to that, great.
But a wink is a friendly, innocent thing.
Not answering a wink?
That I truly do not understand. That seems rude, anti-social,
maybe even paranoid.
31sunshine

Sep 12 @ 9:58AM  
I pretty much send them to people I know, just as a hi how are you.

But I've gotten several....I don't know how to respond so I just don't do anything. I need something with substance to peak my interest normally. However, winks do make me smile so I love getting them. Sorry Looking....don't think this really answered your question.
NachoBaby

Sep 12 @ 12:36PM  
Usually when I wink.. it means I have something in my eye... unless of course it means I totally wanna do you seven ways from sunday and I hope you will get the damned hint... or maybe I just have a twitch. Or something.
Looking4ever

Sep 12 @ 2:06PM  
Not answering a wink?
That I truly do not understand. That seems rude, anti-social,
maybe even paranoid.

That's my point! How is one expected to answer a wink, asnet? What is the wink supposed to mean? Does one wink in return back? Is the winkee expected to be the one to initiate the email (and, if so, why?)? Is a wink because one is too lazy to write the email but they expect an email in reply to the wink?
Ewe_Wish

Sep 12 @ 2:16PM  
I don't like winks and very rarely send them unless the person is a friend. I do however delete winks if they arent a friend of mine. Hey its a small thing but its the one thing i do get to control.
borty293

Sep 13 @ 12:05AM  
Which reminds me ...my new Blinky Dinky Panties ..are now on sale...
Looking4ever

Sep 13 @ 12:45AM  
my new Blinky Dinky Panties ..are now on sale...

Dare we ask? What are Blinky Dinky Panties...
borty293

Sep 13 @ 12:56AM  
Oh ...you'll love them Lookn....they have microscopic LED lights that change color in the fabric of the material ...depending on the emotional temperature of the individual wearing them.... ....wanna wink...
bentan

Sep 13 @ 4:20AM  
Heh heh ... I see new victims ... lol.
badboygoodman355

Sep 24 @ 1:46PM  
when i wink at a woman i do it cause it means i am interested, if i get one back then i take it they are interested and then i will e-mail them and go from there.
Playguy40

Nov 19 @ 5:42PM  
I do it as a Hello much like you analogy of passing them on the street. Often when I don't have the time to get into an exchange of emails but just want to say "Hey! What's up?".
paradox110

Dec 23 @ 11:56PM  
I look at winks pretty much, as you said, saying "hi" to someone you pass by in the street. I do think it would be MUCH nicer if there was a button we could click on to send a picture of a rabbit with a pancake on it's head Now THAT would be meaningful. regrettably, ther is no such option available to us.

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