I really hate to admit this.....but the whole Seli/Justin thing is driving me crazy!! Trying to figure out how could someone manuver such an elaborate scheme. What kind of person could be so cruel as to play with the emotions of people who she calls friends. I myself have been sitting back and trying to figure out the different scenerios of how this can work.
1) all are fake profiles
2) the real Justin is alive and well and has no clue as to what is going on here
3) they are all in it together
4) fuck knows,,,,,,,,,,and just a big headache
The one thing that is FOR SURE is that no one will ever know the truth other then shadows angel and I think that may even be subjective,,,,,,,,,,,,,cause I'm not sure she even knows the truth herself!!
One thing I will say is..........I hope it is a lie and it's all made up!! I would hate to think of him really being dead. Also I hope the gods are shining on her if this is a lie, because fate has a way of BITTING YOU IN THE ASS!!
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ValentineGirl214
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Sep 9 @ 3:36PM
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Kudos for you!! This has been one HUGH HEADACHE!! It will bite someone in the ASS as you said!!
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Ewe_Wish
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Sep 9 @ 3:39PM
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The sad part is Zena, we will never know all of the truth but we sure do know a lot of the lies. The saddest part is the friendships that were ruined and will never be able to be repaired. As for fake profiles, this isnt the first time any of us have been decieved, sadly it probably isnt the last time either.
 
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Looking4ever
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Sep 9 @ 3:43PM
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If it is all fake, it's a sad commentary of some one's life that they feel the need to create all this crap just for some attention.
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alybai42
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Sep 9 @ 3:44PM
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My profile is real. My pictures are me. I have one profile on here.
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rnj1013
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Sep 9 @ 3:50PM
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If all of you were friends with "Justin" why haven't any of you talked to him?
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ValentineGirl214
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Sep 9 @ 3:54PM
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If all of you were friends with "Justin" why haven't any of you talked to him?
Maybe because his cell phone and home phone are disconnected. But then he was logged into my space today, so figure
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rnj1013
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Sep 9 @ 3:56PM
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Well then if he's really alive he must not to talk to any of you
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borty293
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Sep 9 @ 3:58PM
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Well at this point it doesn't matter to me if the guy is dead or alive...there are so many holes in her story that I have no doubt that she is a player.. 
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ladybootscooter
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Sep 9 @ 3:59PM
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Well then if he's really alive he must not to talk to any of you
Perhaps it's because he never knew he existed here? If someone stole your pics and posted a profile on another site would you know you were there??
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ValentineGirl214
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Sep 9 @ 3:59PM
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Well then if he's really alive he must not to talk to any of you
And your point would be what??? Have you spoken to him ever??
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zena343
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Sep 9 @ 4:10PM
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LBS I really think you have hit the nail on the head. That seems to be the most reasonable, I think he has no clue as to what is going on here!!
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NachoBaby
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Sep 9 @ 4:32PM
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4) fuck knows,,,,,,,,,,and just a big headache
Welcome to my world Zena!
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rnj1013
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Sep 9 @ 4:35PM
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my point is....a lot of ppl claiming to be his "friend" yet nobody even knows if he is a real person or not.
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ValentineGirl214
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Sep 9 @ 4:41PM
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if he is a real person or not.
Well the user name with the same pictures and lots of pics of his family is on myspace.
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ladybootscooter
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Sep 9 @ 5:01PM
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Yeah and the really amazing thing is does anyone think that his ex and his 15 y/o daughter would post big Happy Birthday's to a dead man on his myspace account today?? 
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Redhead131
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Sep 9 @ 5:03PM
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Ok.. I am new here but have watched this for quite awhile and actually apologized to SA for misjudging after her post came out saying this was in fact true. I am not the type of person who likes to be taken advantage of and don't like to see people hurt others so I did some checking...
My brother is a police officer in Bremerton, Washington... a town 40 miles from Olympia so I spoke with him.
To make a long story short.. .I just got off the phone with Justin F. Stanford's father in Olympia, who's name is not Kevin.. I am not going to put in on here for his privacy. Justin F. Stanford is very much alive and from what his father said probably has no idea about any of this. So hopefully this will put this all to rest.
Red
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hornytoad55
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Sep 9 @ 8:46PM
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Red thank you for the info. I would not get involved in this mess because I truely wanted to believe AS was not as sick as this. She has played me as she did many other friends and I for one have lost a lot of the ablity to trust anyone on the internet. I can only hope that someway she gets the help she so badly need.
I can only hope those of us that were taken in by this scam can wipe the egg off our face and move on with our life. Knowing no one is better off from this scam.
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zena343
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Sep 9 @ 9:27PM
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Thank you RED for finding that info out that's wonderful. Although a part of me still wants to hear from the horse's mouth (figuratively speaking of course). When something like this happens (lord knows this isn't an every day occurance, thank god) you would like to hear some kind of explanation from the person (weak as though it maybe) it would be nice coming from her lips!!!
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Redhead131
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Sep 9 @ 9:34PM
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I can't imagine what would possess someone to do something like this. All I can think is perhaps it started because she wanted to fit in and then it got out of hand, as lies often can. I think it is sad that someone feels that just being themselves is not going to be good enough. This site is one of the few places where I feel that is all that is ever needed. Everyone seems welcome regardless of who they are, that is why I like it here so much already. I just hope that she realizes that it was a mistake to do what she did.
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zena343
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Sep 11 @ 7:35PM
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I feel we have all been blind sided by this whole charade!! We are coddling (?) the wrong person. The victim is not the one so many thinks it is!! In my opinion (and mine only) the real victim is NOT JUSTIN!! Sorry Washington, I am sure I will be tarred and feather, but I am free to voice my opinion, and I have seen enough to satisfy ME!
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blousebunnies
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Sep 11 @ 8:34PM
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BLESS YOU ZENA.......for not closing your eyes and ears....and heart...and allowing that teeny lil doubt make you delve further! I talked to The subject in question over a period of a couple of months....some before he hooked up with S...both on AMD and ADV. HE mentioned the accident, the relieving of the pressure in head...and the leaving on trip against docs orders. HE told me on way back to Wash...would stop here with her and have lunch...actually planned for the Thurs in which he convienately passed. I do not blame the *doubting Thomases* who are confused and believing you all were scammed by S. This could NOT have been planned by 1 person..too many of us *outsiders* were taken also. This was elaborately planned and executed by several. All I can say, is..I do not lie..or join in ANY fabrication of a scenario that would hurt soooo many people that did not deserve it. Thank you for listening...
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zena343
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Sep 11 @ 8:58PM
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See the thing with me, is things were still not adding up!! I don't like when things don't add up, they bother me, they really do. So I had to dig some more, and I am glad that I did. I still don't know the whole thing, but like I said I know more now then I did yesterday or this morning. And personally for me...........I am glad that I checked!! I know some will not like me but I have to do what I felt was right. I am glad that I did. I only hope more people do the same with an opened mind!!!
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matt_in_the_hat
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Nov 21 @ 3:12PM
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Well I hate to 'pry' but what exactly happened?
Its good so many of you know each other, so the same mistake MAY not be repeated. Its also a blessing to see that you care for each other and if anyone gets screwed over then you guys are here for each other. Big time props, kudos whatever.
As much as I don't like trash talking, it be for the best to warn your friend of SERIOUS past mistakes of new friends/fbs/sos/gf/bf/fiance whatever.
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