Have been thinking alot lately of the unfortunate happenings of some of the people on here, and reading Looking4funat45's earlier blog about "Where Did They Go' had me wondering about .........how I would know if someone on my friends list or favorites list never logged on in awhile, how would I know if something happened to them. Have noticed the last few days that someone hasn't been on in a few weeks, although I noticed it before.......now I have in the back of my head "god what if something happened to him, I would never no! I have also been checking my emails and noticed someone had cancelled (well actually lots have cancelled but this one really sticks out because of an unfortunate incident that happened to them aswell), I am sure lots remember Dave and Val, how she was in a head on collision....well noticed they cancelled but when looking it says that the profile was spam or broke the rules. Just wondering if anyone knew what happened there? Were they real or just really fake! I guess I just want to say that even though I don't participate alot in the blogs or forums, you really do get to know people even if it is just through their blogs, or even just from their comments, and damn if my heart doesn't hurt for some of them now. I know this blog has been all over the place but ............. PLEASE TAKE CARE ALL!!
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Ewe_Wish
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Sep 5 @ 7:15PM
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Zena--Your blog may have been all over the place but it touched me in the right place.....in the heart!! Its hard to know where people go when they leave and there are ones that were on my list that I emailed back and forth with that suddenly was cancelled and when you go back to read the old emails they say that about spam. I guess its the chance we take when we make friends online, and as much as it hurts sometimes to have that friend disappear, I think we would agree that we are grateful for the time we had with them.
Great Blog, Sweetie. Kudos to you. 
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ladybootscooter
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Sep 5 @ 7:29PM
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OMG!! are you telling me those aren't really tits I've been writing to as Zena all this time?? and I wondered about Dayna too, her expression never changed even when she said she was laughing her ass off at me!!! Sorry, just really need some laughter and lightness right now! But Seriously I know what you mean, I look back and wonder what happened to some that were here and now are gone. I'm just glad some of us are still here to spread the love!
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dridge
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Sep 5 @ 7:33PM
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I know what you mean, it's hard to lose someone even if they are only real in this virtual world. I had to say g'bye to someone that I've been chatting with quite intimately for several months now and built quite a friendship with. I'm sorry to see her go but happy that she found what she really wanted. Sure I'm jealous to an extent but I could never have been there for her as there was just too much distance between us. Losing someone that way and someone just disappearing are two entirely different things. If someone on my favorites or friends list just vanished then I would be greatly upset. Then I'm left wondering are they alive or dead. Did they simply let their subscription run out or is it something more dire. Wondering where they have gone can be a very traumatic experience even in the virtual world and I think that's something that's lost on a great many people. I know this comment has been all over the place but as zena343 put it.............PLEASE TAKE CARE ALL!!!!! And further, if you're fixin to leave this place at least let your friends know because we love you and worry over you!
Peace,
Don
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zena343
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Sep 5 @ 7:34PM
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Yep LBS they are real.......can't afford the fake ones!! 
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ValentineGirl214
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Sep 5 @ 7:42PM
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If Tomorrow Never Comes
If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly,
And pray the Lord your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss,
And call you back for just one more
If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would tape each word and action,
And play them back throughout my days
If I knew it would be the last time,
I would spare an extra minute or two,
To stop and say "I love you,"
Instead of assuming you know I do.
So just in case tomorrow never comes,
And today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you,
And I hope we never will forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
Young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
You get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
Why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
You'll surely regret the day.
That you didn't take that extra time
For a smile, a hug, or a kiss,
And you were too busy to grant someone,
What turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today,
And whisper in their ear,
That you love them very much, and
You'll always hold them dear.
Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "thank you" or "it's okay".
And if tomorrow never comes,
You'll have no regrets about today
~ Norma Cornett Marek ~
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casuallylooking
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Sep 5 @ 7:53PM
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I'm just glad some of us are still here to spread the love! Stormy, I got an email a while back from a guy that wanted to know why women were on a sex site and not willing to spread the love with the guys who were interested in them..... He might be writing to you now.. LOL
Sometimes we never know who is real and who isn't...for sure. But sometimes we do get to share a few laughs with them before they leave, and that's always a good thing.
I almost left a little while back for personal reasons, but someone talked me into staying. I'm glad they did because there are more than a few people here that I would have really missed. Just as when you were in school and came back from vacation only to find that one of your friends had moved away and you didn't get to say good-bye.
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Wordsofwit
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Sep 5 @ 11:14PM
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If somebody is dead, I think that they would not log on as dead people can't cancel.
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StraddleMyNose
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Sep 6 @ 12:51AM
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I haven't been on here for well over a week. I had to get my computer fixed all that time and I had Kim logging on here and there for my briefly whenever she wasn't too busy. It's great to be back! 
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slohand_47
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Sep 6 @ 12:56AM
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A few years back I had a chat friend in Alaska who died in an accident. I would never have known why she dissappeared except her sister in Michigan also chatted with us sometimes and she told me what happened.
I actually have a note in my will with my password and a note for my son to log into my email and send a message to everyone in my address book about my demise. (hopefully MANY years in the future)
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Wordsofwit
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Sep 7 @ 7:03PM
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Maybe getting a real email address and/or phone number is a good idea.
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Redhead131
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Sep 7 @ 7:15PM
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I actually have a note in my will with my password and a note for my son to log into my email and send a message to everyone in my address book about my demise. (hopefully MANY years in the future)
Actually Slo that is a good idea, many people have friends that are online only through online games, chat sites, or places that cater to interests whether it be genealogy or sex...lol. But I for one know my family wouldn't have the faintest idea who to tell if something happened.
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zena343
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Sep 7 @ 8:19PM
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WoW I do have his email but he hasn't logged on there either, but I have left messages so hopefully he will answer soon!!
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