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posted 8/30/2007 9:47:32 AM |
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Ok so I had been in a long term relationship for like the last 3 years. During the last couple months we were together I began gettin phone calls from a mysterious woman. She knew my name and somehow had my work number. She knew some basic details about me like I was in a relationship. I couldn't remember her voice and she wouldn't tell me her name, or how she knew me.

I was at work, and wanted to get rid of her so I told her to call me later. She did, but this time it was on my cellphone, and I didn't give her the number. And this time she got right to the point. She wanted phone sex. So seein as I was in a relationship and figured it was all a setup from my girl and her friends, I let my girl listen and told her everything I knew about it, so she wouldn't think I was cheatin. I checked her reaction to see if it seemed like my girl knew anything about it, but she either was real good at actin, or didn't know anything.

Well she kept callin for a few weeks, always tryin to have phone sex or convince me to buy a webcam so we could do that. I resisted all this and got rid of her permanantly or at least I thought.

Flash forward a few months. My girl and I broke up and I moved to a new parta ATL. Outta no where she calls again. Same tired shit, wants phone sex or web cam sex. I try to get her to meet me somewhere netraul, jus so I can see who this is but she always has some weak ass excuse as to why she can't right then.

I am very frustrated by this, first off because I can't figure out who it is. But scondly because she seems to know things about me. I thought it was ona those stupid cam models, but she doesn't want any money. She calls from a private number so I can't do any traces or anything.

Has any one else ever had a situation close to this? I've talked about it with my friends and the best we can come up with is it is one of exgirlfriends friends, or one of my homeboys girls. Any real advice or ideas, save the bullshit please I'm not in the mood.


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Aug 30 @ 9:58AM  
Instead of trying to run her off just be straight up with her. Tell her you're not interested if she cannot divulge who she is. Simple as that!

Aug 30 @ 10:03AM  
no but farily scarey

Aug 30 @ 10:11AM  
Dude, turn her ass in to the cops.. stalking is bad.

Aug 30 @ 10:18AM  
damn typos * fairly too ......

Aug 30 @ 10:19AM  
I tried bein straight up with her, It buys me a lil time, but she always calls back.
Unfortunately I can't stop answering her calls because Its a private number and alotta people call me from private numbers for my music promotion business. Preciate the idea but unfortunately I've tried it.

Aug 30 @ 11:47AM  
She has become a stalker. I realize in your work it's difficult to change your cell number.If it were me at this point I would take it to the cops, or at least get a hold of your cell phone co and see if they can do anything about it. Stalking is against the law even on cell phones.
In the meantime don't be any kind of nice and just hang up as soon as you hear it;s her.
Good Luck, O.

Aug 30 @ 11:49AM  
Nacho is right. Turn her ass into the cops. They probably won't do anything but do it anyway so there is a record of it. And let her know the next time you are going to. Might just scare her off. That is a form of stalking.

Or simply change your phone number and be carefull who you give it out to. If you give it to your friends and it starts again, you just narrowed down the field of where to look for the culprit.

Or completely ignore it. She calls. Hang up. It sounds like she feeds on your reactions.

Aug 30 @ 11:52AM  
Preciate the advice, really don't want it to become a police situation but if it comes to that it comes to that. Can't change the cell phone though, I have thousands of business cards with that as the contact number. Preciate everyones ideas though.

Aug 30 @ 12:08PM  
You know you can also call your cell p hone company and find out how to block that number even if it is a private number. Wish i knew how to call under private and how to block maybe i should practice this advice myself!

Aug 30 @ 12:18PM  
To call private you jus dial *67 before the number you are calling. Not sure how to block a number though, guess I'ma call nextell.

Aug 31 @ 9:52PM  
Request the incoming phone records from your cell phone (or home phone) provider. You will be charged for this, but it will list an actual phone number for this person and you can do a reverse lookup from there.

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