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Messages are sent everyday on this site,without the first thought of how they might affect someone else. We speak with sharp tongues, with forked tongues,even with silent tongues. Just once if you were to walk in the other persons shoes, it might make you think twice about what you say, how your actions affect someone else. I not only read the lines but inbetween the lines as well. Do you ? I enjoy life most days,and other days it feels like I am riding out a storm, when the storms hit I look for comfort in all sorts of places , yes even here. Silly huh? I mean after all its just the internet, Who cares if you hurt someone with a slip of the tongue, if you tell one lie after another,if you start of participate in rumors ,what difference does it make? I am not made of stone, I hurt with the best of them , I ache as well ..... and I am guilty of alot of things,but intentional harm is not one of them......

Does this shoe fit you ?

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Aug 30 @ 9:34AM  
Yeah once in a while that shoe does fit me. I do tend to be as blunt as humanly possible.. it's not lying though, it's telling it like I see it. Occasionally I am proven wrong and then have to apologize for my behavior, but most often .. nope it's dead on the money.

So, yeah, sometimes I know that what I have to say is going to prick someone's feelings.. and that's too bad. I really don't enjoy hurting the feelings of others.. but I'm gonna still call it the way I see it.

Mags my sweet.. you get a kudo for being you.

Aug 30 @ 10:18AM  
I TRY not to deliberately hurt people's feelings. Every once in a while though the temper that goes with the red hair gets the best of me and I go for the jugular. Someone *really* has to be jumping up and down on my last nerve to get me to that point though.

On the other hand... the other day a friend said something as a joke and I took it personally. Came completely unwound. She didn't realize that I would take it as anything other than a joke and was absolutely horrified that she had hurt me with the off-hand remark. On the other hand... I probably *would* have taken it as the joke that it was intended to be if I hadn't been stressed to the max over RnR to start with. Yep, we fixed it. Yep, we still love one another. Yep, she's still my cyber sis and *nothing* will change that.

Aug 30 @ 10:18AM  
Nacho's words fit me as well.

Aug 30 @ 11:41AM  
I try to follow in the footsteps of my grandmother. She never ever for any reason said something bad about anyone. This is her legacy. I don't feel it is my place to right all the wrong in the world (or this site). I am not as good at this as my grandmother was. I slip sometimes and say hurtful thing to people. If I have offended anyone here I would like to apologize, it was not my intent. It wouldn't hurt any of us to try to make this site and the world and better place to live.

Aug 30 @ 11:59AM  
nope, not my shoe.

Aug 30 @ 2:33PM  
It was the slip of the tongue..

Aug 30 @ 5:34PM  
I wear a 6 1/2............

Aug 30 @ 6:01PM  
well said I really respect your point of view on a lot of things I've read on your blog's. In this case I don't think these shoes fit me, I would actually say I have been too far the other direction and been to passive and let people wearing shoes like this walk all over me but those days are over lol. I have for sure been guilty of a few of these things before. I also think that intentions mean a lot.

Aug 30 @ 6:20PM  
Right you are, mags;

If the Foo Shits, Wear It!!

Aug 30 @ 6:26PM  
I wear a 10 1/2 shoe. Usually the only time that the tongue slips is when the shoelaces don't get tied right. But since generally I wear slip on, I don't tongue tied very often.

Aug 30 @ 9:46PM  
I tend to be pretty oblivious to some things so I can say something and not always realize how it came out or what another might have gotten from it. I used to be really bad about that, because like Nacho, I tell it like it is. I have a no non-sense approach to life and at times expect others to do the same so it trips me up at times.

However, I'd faint the 1st time I was actually cruel or mean on purpose to someone, that's just not my style. I tend to keep silent, not make waves if I can avoid it.

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