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Can sex be good if your partner doesn't have an orgasm?

posted 8/28/2007 6:54:24 PM |
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I like sex probably more than most. I would like it every day with a woman, but since that isn't's selfpleasure. The strange part is that It doesn't matter if I have an orgasm every time. It's not like when I was much younger, jerking off and cumming three or four times a day, that was the main goal. When I got older I wanted to make it last longer, the main goal was not just to cum, although it was part of it. Now after all these years, and thousands of cumshots later cumming just isn't a big deal and it takes a lot to cum sometimes, if I try to do it every day.
The great thing about not cumming is that I can last a very long time, or have sex many times a day. The biggest problem is that women think I'm not excited enough or into them. After doing oral and fucking for two hours, and wanting to do it every day what woman would think I'm not into her? Maybe I just suck in bed...I don't know, but the women seem to like it and have orgasms.....or maybe they are good at faking it? Of course I can be satisfied with less if she wants less. There's more to a relationship than just sex.

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Aug 28 @ 7:06PM  
I don't think it's a bad thing if you don't orgasm every time, in fact I love it when a man can make love for hours at a time, and we both take turns over and over again just exploring and teasing and lots of foreplay, of course just cuz he may not cum more than once in a night, doesn't mean that I don't have too . I honestly miss that, the long long hours of exploring and foreplay leading up to the crecendo of the explosive mind blowing finale...*sigh*

Aug 28 @ 7:13PM  
My Ex Husband didn't cum all the time and at first I thought it was ME! Then he explained that he liked staying hard and not cumming for ME! When he did cum it was mind blowing!!!! And yes, we had sex several times a day!!

Aug 28 @ 7:18PM  
It's true......when a man doesnt come I tend to feel it's my fault....

Aug 28 @ 7:36PM  
I don't have to cum every time. I like to enjoy and savor, not just go for the gold in 30-45 minutes after foreplay.

Aug 28 @ 8:06PM  
In my teens and twenties, sure!!! If she was good looking and showed up, it was good. She might have to wait for the fourth round but by then it would even out.

Aug 28 @ 8:08PM  
I don't think its a problem. Most women would count the opposite end of the spectrum as an issue: coming too soon and the party's over. Simply explain how it is and tell your partner you like her so much that you don't want it to end.

Aug 28 @ 9:06PM  
Do not feel bad at all, your body changes over time. Me at 45 have a very high sex drive and like you at times can not cum for an extended period. I have been with ny current g/f for 3 years and she likes it at times because she has a huge sex drive so it can come in handy not being a minute man. I love it when the woman cums before me. Then there are times when it just can't wait and I cum but I have always and still can be ready for round 2 and 3. It boils down to you being happy pleasing your partner and enjoying her orgasms no matter when you have yours. Just relax and you may find that if you do not worry about it you can actually orgasm when you want to by mentally involving yourself in the erotic sensations and visual side of the experience.

Aug 28 @ 9:15PM  
Yes, It can still be good. But honestly I prefer that he does.
problem is that women think I'm not excited enough or into them.
Maybe they are thinking that you are just not feeling good enough to cum, and it means they are not really satisfying you

Aug 28 @ 11:44PM  
With a man, if he doesn't cum or if it takes him a year to actually get off...yeah, it makes the woman feel like he's not gettin' into it. Men are supposed to cum...that's their orgasm, that's the way their made.

Now women, we don't have to orgasm everytime to TOTALLY love being fucked. We just love the feeling of it. Now if we orgasm, that's a bonus. But squirting, that's a're gonna get wet.

I don't know, there are ins and outs about this. (R-R)

Aug 29 @ 6:40PM  
Thanks for all your comments, it was mostly what I expected.
Anyway........I totally love fucking even if I do it so long that my dick is numb and I can't cum.

Jan 23 @ 11:38PM  
My ex was in his 50's, when we were first together we fucked four or five times a day and he would cum everytime. Then slowly he stopped cumming as much...within two years he couldn't even get an erection. Turns out he had a severely enlarged prostate.

Just something you should be aware of...

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Can sex be good if your partner doesn't have an orgasm?