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posted 10/3/2006 12:51:40 AM |
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  belle1010

I hate it when i'm right. A dew days ago i went into another dating site, one of the ones my guy had a profile on. He had changed it to only looking for friends when we got together, but i was curious so i looked it up again. He had changed it back, to where it said he was looking for a long-term relationship. I went numb, from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. Then i got pissed. I asked him if he had changed his profile, he told me he changes things on there on a daily basis. I said ok, but was still seething inside. You know the thing about and angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other? well my devil took complete control over me. I went back to the site and set up a profile under another name, the only thing i fudged on was my geographical location. The rest of the answers were me. I posted it, then sent him a message through the site. He answered it, this went back and forth for a while, then he offers his reg e-mail address to Katie (me) so i went and created another yahoo messenger id, and added him to my list.

He and Katie(me) talked for hours online, when he asked me questions i answered like i normally would, i didn't change my responses i answered honestly. I asked him if he was seeing anyone, he said no. I started to tell him about this guy i have been seeing and how he's been avoiding me. Oh he was giving me advice on my b/f (him). it was almost comical. I even went further and told him how this guy and i had talked about being fuckbuddies, and that he told me he couldn't do that it was all or nothing. There was a pause, and he says wow, i just said the same exact thing to someone. There was my opening, to find out exactly where i stood with him. He mentioned the distance (hes 3 hours away), some problems i had in the past that concern him, and the fact that i've been staying with my parents. Oh and there was a line in his profile that said "I prefer butterflie to diamonds" and wanted to know what other peoples interpretation was. I answered truthfully, that diamonds are a status symbol, they are hard, void of emotion whereas butterflies are warm, alive, beautiful, and free. He liked Katies(my) answer to this. We talked about all kinds of things, then he asked me what Katie(me) was doing this weekend, (now mind you next weekend i am supposed to go see him) he tells Katie(me) that he doesn't have any plans. He said if/when i get my problem with my guy (him) resolved he wanted to ask Katie(me) out. I said don't you think you need to resolve your own issues too. To which he replied, no that's already settled, i can do whatever i want, i asked does she know you go out on dates with other women, he said oh yeah shes aware of my situation and she's ok with it besides she doesn't know what i do when she's not here, and i don't know what she's doing either. He said a few other things about our relationship but i can't remember anymore specifics.

My best friend is more angry than i am, lol. She thinks i should wait, act like i don't know anything, act like i'm still going to see him. Then never show up, and when he calls tell him to fuck off and that i know about his extracurricular activities and that i'm the girl hes been talking to all week.

What gets me is that he says he feels a spark, butterflies so to speak, toward Katie(me) that he didn't feel with me. I'm being myself, under another name not trying to be or answer how i think he would want. Does that make any sense?

Soooo regardless, i've changed my profile back to single and looking.

I'm still trying to figure out who the bigger idiot is, me for believing all the bullshit he handed out to me, or him for not figuring out that he's talking to me. I've made it obvious.

Ok rant over now back to your regularly scheduled chaos....
Oh Oh, i also may have a date for saturday night already, lol.

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Dominus

Oct 3 @ 1:01AM  
Maybe you should let him know he's been looking for you...

Escape (The Pina Colada Song)
By Rupert Holmes

I was tired of my lady, we'd been together too long.
Like a worn-out recording, of a favorite song.
So while she lay there sleeping, I read the paper in bed.
And in the personals column, there was this letter I read:

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
I'm the lady you've looked for, write to me, and escape."

I didn't think about my lady, I know that sounds kind of mean.
But me and my old lady, had fallen into the same old dull routine.
So I wrote to the paper, took out a personal ad.
And though I'm nobody's poet, I thought it wasn't half-bad.

"Yes, I like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne.
I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.
At a bar called O'Malley's, where we'll plan our escape."

So I waited with high hopes, then she walked in the place.
I knew her smile in an instant, I knew the curve of her face.
It was my own lovely lady, and she said, "Oh, it's you."
And we laughed for a moment, and I said, "I never knew"..

"That you liked Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."
belle1010

Oct 3 @ 1:20AM  
I will probably end up telling him, right now i'm still a little pissed off over the deception, and the lies.

And i'm hurt by it too. We're talkin about a guy that was talking about having me move in with him. The same guy who didn't want to settle for friends with bennies, it was all or nothing. When are the males of the species going to figure out that honesty is the best policy, don't say things if you don't mean them. If all he wanted was sex, he just had to say so. I would have done that regardless. We had agreed that if either one of us found someone else we wanted to be with, we would tell the other person, and remain friends. If that had been the case, i would still be hurt but he would still have my respect too. Now i'm not sure if he's going to have either one (my friendship or my respect). I'm waiting it out til friday and see if he's going to tell me about Katie(me) or not.
ponme

Oct 3 @ 12:02PM  
OMG Belle... gawd.. many men are such weak sexual creatures.. freaks.. you should never test them because they will fail. (no not all but a lot of em)

But.. oh please please please.. beg borrow or steal a video cam.. i wanna see the expression on his face when you tell him he has cheated on you with.. YOU!
canuhelpme258

Oct 3 @ 2:50PM  
Men, can't live with em, can't shoot em...
Ok the Pina Colda Song is taken, I can't touch that.
I do agree I would love to see the look on his face. I would apollogize on behalf of men, but, I would end up doing that often. We really are heading back to the caeves aren't we?
decaturnooner

Oct 3 @ 5:06PM  
Wow! This is why I don't conceal anything. Sure I might not share who I have talked to online but I will never bullshit with where a relationship stands.

My profile says married because I am married. It doesn't say separated or single just so I can fool myself into getting laid easier or something.

A little checking never really hurts, as long as the only harm you will do is just to the offender, not a bystander.

Try not to harm Katie next weekend.
Luv2CU57X

Oct 5 @ 4:17AM  
Hi Belle. I'm not so sure. This guy's a "playa" of the kind of low order who gives all men a bad rep. And don't ask how I know, but many gals thus burned will take out their vengeance on the next hapless "decent" guy who happens along. I'd set this cut rate Don Juan up with tantalizing promises, and get him to reserve a weekend suite at the most expensive 4-star-ish hotel around there, replete with your alleged favorite champagne (e.g.: Vueve Clicquot Vintage Reserve, Crystal, or Dom P), and then do a no-show - sticking him at least with the tab, and his ---- in his hand, lol. He needs a lesson.
littlefairy

Oct 14 @ 11:05PM  
u daid u had a boyfreind is he from around there

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