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posted 8/18/2007 8:22:58 PM |
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I've read many blogs here in anal section, but couldn't find any which answer my question.
Here it is: my wife is very petite Asian woman with tight pussy. She is 1.60 and weigh only 40 kg. My dick is just standard size (app. 18cm full erection) and cannot always fully pentrate her without hurting her. This depends on the position we use.

We (but especially me) want to try anal sex. My wife is an anal virgin.
I experienced anal sex for the first time with another woman long time ago. I remember it as a very exciting and wonderful new experience. It made it even more exciting because I was cheating on my girlfriend (not my wife). Before everyone is judging me: all I want to say about it is that my girlfriend deserved to be cheated on.

When we make love and when she is really excited I sometimes put my finger in her butt using her "fluids" as a lubricant. This is all okay with her and it's not too painfull, it even excites her. But my penis obviously is longer than my finger and we (especially me) want to try anal penetration.

so, finally here is my questions:

1. is there any relation between "size" of pussy and "size" of butt?
2. what is the best, least painful, position for anal pentration?

Please advise!

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Aug 18 @ 8:53PM  
I am not sure about size of pussy in comparison to size of butt,
in my anal experience (which is new to me as well) the guy is VERY patient, and started first with a couple small toys, to get used to the feeling, and loosen things up, very gentle, very patient on your part. The best position i found for first experiencing this is missionary, with her legs up./back towards her head. But again I stress VERY gentle, SLOW, and if she says stop, stop, but the initial entry until she relaxes, can be a bit uncomfortable, that is why you must stop and wait til she relaxes around your head and what not. Hope it helps a bit, good luck!

Aug 18 @ 9:44PM  
Dude she can take all you got, as long as it's not too thick. You ever see what they push in there for a colonoscopy? Lots of foreplay and lube, take your time to make it comfortable for her. I have no experience or interest in anal but that's what I have read.

Aug 18 @ 10:11PM  
Well first off, there is no relationship to one another. Your wife could have a very loose pussy, and her ass doesn't play into the equation. Now on to your wife's ass. Through my experiance, I have found a few tricks that seem to work well. During lovemaking insert a well lubed finger in her ass. she will fight it, but she will also get used to something being back there. After a while, try two fingers and when she is used to that, start working your fingers in and out of her ass. The night she is ready follow these rules:
1.) you wife has to be willing
2.) she must be relaxed. If she drinks, a glass or two of wine will do.
3.) use plenty of lubricant (KY anal lube)
4.) you sir must lie on your back, no thrusting
5.) your wife must be on top!
With her on top, she should start out with your cock head resting at her anus. Let her get a feel for it. When she is ready, she should push your cock into her ass. It's ok if she let's it pop out. Encourge her to slip more in and as she does continue to play with her nipples, and pussy. BUT REMEMBER, the first time she is not going to get half of it in. BUT, everytime she have to be in control until she is comfortable with it all the way inside her. After that, she will find that with the correct position, she will experiance quite an explosive orgasam

Aug 18 @ 10:40PM  
Depends on the woman... Some women can take up to 5 or 6 inches up the butt... There are inflatable butt plugs that she can wear, kinda helps stretch a lil... Doggy works well.

Aug 19 @ 4:47AM  
1. is there any relation between "size" of pussy and "size" of butt?


2. what is the best, least painful, position for anal pentration?

Women on top; it's just easier for them to control the penetration... No other reason... Anal shouldn't be painful for anyone really though some people just can't seem to tolerate it regardless of what ever method is used.

If your really worried about it hurting her you could always invest in a set of rectal dilators which are linearly gauged to slowly expand and relax the sphincter. They work just like butt plugs and normally run about $50 USD for a full set. Other then that its just a matter of finding a good lube that you both can enjoy.

Aug 19 @ 10:09AM  
Try using lots of booze,foreplay and lubricant(in that order) and anal shouldnt be a problem.Most women loosen up after a few drinks so with the drink and the lubricant you should be right in there.
Good luck.

ps. If that doesnt work maybe I could try it with her?

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