As I sit here and read thru all the blogs and profiles I wonder...Married people are out looking for discrete encounters single people are looking for one-night stands. Where are all the people who want someone to love? Cherish?? Be best friends with??? Is this what growing up is all about?? Well I think it sucks!
I want a man to talk to, help make everyday decisions, hold my hand make such sweet love to me that I wanna cry from the sheer force of his love! Am I living in fantasy land?? Is this part of Nacho's Pervia?? Or maybe I should go on Dridge's AM radio show??
Is our life just talking online to people making wonderful friendships but not love?? Where are the local people we are suppose to meet and maybe fall in love with? Yeah sure this IS a sex site but hell ask Ashly and Aly, CC, Ynot or even L4F they aren't getting laid either!  Are our standards to high?? Are we suppose to give up on what we want in life???
Okay I'm open for all advice opinions HELP? 
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ajay_t43
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Aug 10 @ 2:29PM
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well, standards are really high :(. I've been on here for a long time and look...I'm still a virgin. lol.
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NightOfOld
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Aug 10 @ 2:34PM
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People like me who are looking for love are ignored.
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Darklord47
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Aug 10 @ 2:35PM
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Nice and sweet poetic rendition, but I have one absolute suggestion: IF YOU WANT A HUSBAND.....GO TO DAMN CHURCH.....NOT A SEX SITE, STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Detach
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Aug 10 @ 2:36PM
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Lisa46-
Of course there are people out there seeking the same thing you are. I just don't believe one should get married once they do find it.
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Lisa46
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Aug 10 @ 2:36PM
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but chuck!! You are almost 2000 miles from me! and I do want someone just a bit closer to my age 
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Ashinatrix
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Aug 10 @ 2:37PM
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I want a man who can change my oil, reach the top shelf in the kitchen, make me laugh, and make me feel really, really dirty.......is that too much to ask??? 
I'm definately not sufferin' from high-standard-syndrome..... 
I think Im sufferin' from men-not brave-enough-syndrome...... 
(that and.....Damn!!!! there's a lot of married men on this site  )
What's a girl to do??!! 
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Ewe_Wish
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Aug 10 @ 2:43PM
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ask Ashly and Aly, CC, Ynot or even L4F they aren't getting laid either! Like i have a better chance than anyone else, Lisa. For me, its no longer a case of just having sex, I wanted that relationship, that love, to cherish and be cherish, and when it ended a part of me died. Do i hope to have that kind of relationship still, Yes, do i trust it will happen No!!
Hey DarkLord piece of advice for you, you selfserving,egotiscal, nastyass prick:
Cause thats the only kind of fucking you will ever get, but its fitting you are so much in love with yourself no one else will ever compete.
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padreroyalataol
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Aug 10 @ 2:52PM
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If "we" knew the answer , would we be here.
Some are here Just to blog,(and that is fine),,the silent majority don't seem to Risk meeting.
It's Friday,,,go out tonight,,maybe you will find someone to your likeing?
Or take the first step yourself, and write to someone, you think, you might enjoy meeting.But keep your standards high!
Just a "troll's" opinion. ;--^)
Good luck,
Take care,
Richard
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sumdaysoon
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Aug 10 @ 2:52PM
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lisa never give up........................ 
darklord why don't you just go........... 
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Ashinatrix
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Aug 10 @ 3:03PM
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GO TO DAMN CHURCH.....NOT A SEX SITE, STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think you need to go to church and learn about "do unto others"....you lonely old son of a bitch.....and while youre there....maybe the pastor will explain to you why you dont stand a whore's chance in hell.....
Keep it up.....we'll get yer rotted ass pitched off this god-forsaken site....you here 'cause you too cheap to pay for a street-fuck??? Or you just so ugly that even a whore won't do ya??
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frankbarks
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Aug 10 @ 3:18PM
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who would give a shit about this site if it had "100% love, commitment or marriage site"?
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Ashinatrix
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Aug 10 @ 3:19PM
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GO TO DAMN CHURCH Who needs to go to church??????
Your profile says you're married.......you trifilin' piece of sinner trash.....dont bother even attempting church.....you'd stink the place up......
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casuallylooking
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Aug 10 @ 3:20PM
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GO TO DAMN CHURCH.....NOT A SEX SITE, STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did you really feel the need to be so damn rude and obnoxious? Or is it just your normal nature as an ass?
Lisa, I don't think it's a fantasy land. I just don't think it's real common to find those things anymore. And so many people don't know what they are looking for or what the truth is. This is supposed to be an adult site, but so many do nothing but play childish games.......
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onions2006
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Aug 10 @ 3:26PM
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Some people here are in a marriage they dont want to give up.They love their spouses and all they have but are terribly lacking in sexual excitement.Maybe they want to try things they wouldnt even dare ask for at home,so...they look elsewhere.Our bodies have cravings and we have to find a way to quell those feelings.Others want it perminantly and are looking for love too but after all,as its been said,this is Aduldmatchdoctor and not Matchdoctor.Maybe something more perminant could be found there.
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Dominus
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Aug 10 @ 3:38PM
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Interesting.
I just answered Val about this same topic this morning.
It seems no one is reading my blogs after all, or you would already know the answers to these questions.
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mikey_1946
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Aug 10 @ 3:40PM
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,, ,,I looking for the same thing here in wisconsin,, but as you said,, were are all the local people that are in here,, or was that just a come on ?? Wish you all the best of luck
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bentan
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Aug 10 @ 3:42PM
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Your profile says you're married.......you trifilin' piece of sinner trash.....dont bother even attempting church.....you'd stink the place up......
I know what you mean Ash. He calls himself a Christian, in his own filthy words "damns" a church and is on here for the express purpose of committing adultery. I might have come to a wrong conclusion but ... what a fucking hypocrite.
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Ashinatrix
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Aug 10 @ 3:46PM
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Maybe something more perminant could be found there. and lemme tell you something.....MD is a joke.....ok, maybe not if yer a PRUDE!!!
I have an extremely high sex drive....not to mention the craving for the unconventional.....I myself find sex to be a very important part of a relationship....
And you expect me to find one there??? On MD??? Where the men arent even capable of discussing such things??? Surely you jest....
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padreroyalataol
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Aug 10 @ 4:00PM
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"Okay I'm OPEN for ALL advice Opinions, HELP?"
What Help is gained through Neg. comments?
Maybe there's a little "troll" in all of us?
JMO.
TGIF
richard
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alybai42
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Aug 10 @ 4:13PM
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but hell ask Ashly and Aly, CC, Ynot or even L4F they aren't getting laid either!
You just had to remind me that I was not getting laid.
Where are the men who want more than just sex? 
Not near my town
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lunanegra
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Aug 10 @ 4:17PM
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I don't know.When I'm not looking,thats when I end up finding what I want.Just hang back and it will happen. 
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Wordsofwit
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Aug 10 @ 5:08PM
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Lisa, you make it sound like we can just order an old Doris Day movie and make it come to life.
I will never say never, but in looking back on the hundreds of women I have known and what the outcome came to be: The outcum was great in the first month, but a year later the outcome was relegated to the archives of the mind. Everything is what it is until proven otherwise.
Yeah, all prayers are answered, but the answer tends to be "no" or "not now".
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kozmik_wave
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Aug 10 @ 7:03PM
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Patience.
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mbk1
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Aug 10 @ 7:32PM
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This is an adult site. People should understand THAT which the word defines. "ADULT" - a person who has reached the age of MATURITY. Grown they are in mind, body, and soul. With maturity comes reasoning and self control for the respect of others. This may be a sex site, but to feel I must that not all seek the sex, but a love that CAN be found in a place such as this.It has been said that you cannot find love, that IT will find you. I know this to be true. Love can find you in the most unusual places in life. Search where you choose with a heart as your guide. Sex is important, yet true love will overpower all else when it finds you reaching out to grasp it. Good writing Lisa46 Michael
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Loveyoulongtime2
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Aug 10 @ 8:09PM
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Makes you wonder, just a lot of dissatisfied people here. Seems a lot of people are not having enough exciting sex even if they are in a relationship. Not a lot of people are finding it here either. Well.....someone did tell me he has been with 12 women from here, at least one guy and 12 women have got some.
I just want to find one, and have lots of loving.
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TattooedRawkStar
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Aug 10 @ 9:30PM
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I want a man who can change my oil, reach the top shelf in the kitchen, make me laugh, and make me feel really, really dirty.......is that too much to ask??? Only if you don't live nearby...
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plaidskirtluver
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Aug 10 @ 9:37PM
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instead of generalizing it, if you are curious....ask the individuals, themselves.
i think you'll find a variety of reasons for their choices.
:)
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plaidskirtluver
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Aug 10 @ 9:42PM
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LOL. i just read ash's comment.
i do have to say....this is a pretty vanilla dating site ;)
/i still enjoy talking to folks, though :)
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oralsucker247
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Aug 10 @ 11:43PM
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I agree with Darklord! 
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frankbarks
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Aug 11 @ 12:28AM
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looks like the love and commitment people are really the control and censorship party poopers
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bkaw810
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Aug 11 @ 7:52AM
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oooh oooh pick me pick me 
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Fckmhrdtnght
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Aug 11 @ 8:13AM
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I am too much of a newbie to give any advice.....
great blog
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Lisa46
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Aug 11 @ 8:42AM
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Maybe they want to try things they wouldnt even dare ask for at home,so...they look elsewhere.
And if they don't ask the won't realize maybe the spouse would like to try it also???
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ynot7769
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Aug 11 @ 10:41AM
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Yeah sure this IS a sex site but hell ask Ashly and Aly, CC, Ynot or even L4F they aren't getting laid either!
now i thought you weren't gonna tell anybody....... 
oh..and for the douchebag..............fuckoff.........your not wanted ........
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LilGriz
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Aug 12 @ 12:39PM
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You mean there are people close by? Hmm, the closest I can get any type of response from is almost 300 miles away, and most of them are way more than that.
Sex? It's been so long I don't think my cock would know what to do if it say a pussy.
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DrN4u
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Aug 12 @ 2:17PM
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Damn!!!! there's a lot of married men on this site AND some married women as well. After 20 - 30 years of it, there are primal urges which resurface asking if perhaps there may be more to life? Why not have joy?
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slohand_47
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Aug 15 @ 12:02AM
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Why do people assume that just because they have a high libido, they shouldn't be on the "vanilla" dating sites? Got a hint for you. People there like sex too. At least the ones I've met sure do! 
As I sit here and read thru all the blogs and profiles I wonder...Married people are out looking for discrete encounters single people are looking for one-night stands. Where are all the people who want someone to love?
By your own admission, they are not here. No, you shouldn't change your standards, nor should you ask the goodyear tire man why he doesn't have any fresh tomato's.
The last 2 women that I suggested trying a more traditional site (very nice & politely, I might add... ) told me to go fuck myself.
But since you asked, I'll say again...... Yahoo personals and Match.com have HUGE memberships and the odds are much greater of finding a long term relationship. And yes, people there do fuck.
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