can you do one without the other no not really for in the cat of making love you will always find sex. its just more passionate when you are making love.I'm thinking that you really meant in the act, and not the cat. But with all the cat blogs lately, who knows........ some of your blog was a little difficult to clearly understand.
However, I tend to disagree...... I think it is more sensual when you are making love and more passionate when it is raw sex..... But the two can go hand in hand very nicely..... From one to the other.